By midwestgirl | Mar 15 2015
By midwestgirl | Mar 15 2015
By loralst | Feb 21 2015
hey , i know a man from 4 month and i only see him twice , at the beginning , he talked to me all the time really , he was a little bit jealous about other guy and since 1 month he talk with me once a week and i don't know why , he change in 1 month with me . he won't tell me why he is like that .... and two weeks he told me , he want to be with me like a couple for seeing if it's possible together and since this day , i have no news ... i know i played with him at the beginning but now i think i have a little bit of feeling with him and i don't what to do , could you help me ? thank's
By megr339 | Feb 10 2015
So he and I dated a while back but never officially so I left but he would get jealous and check in with me randomly. We hooked up a couple of times twice of which were when he was in a relationship (I didn't know that he was either time) I know I'm stupid for those times. But he said that I was always part of his life because he cared about me and doesn't want to loose me. (This is all when I confronted him about cheating on his girlfriend with me.)
By mermaid | Jan 24 2015
So I am this awkward shy/hopeless romantic person. Some time ago I fell hard for a guy (let's call him M) I knew from work. Nothing really happened, maybe we were too shy, I too awkward, or he wasn't sure what he felt. But I think, or at least like to believe, that he liked me too, because there was always some magnetism between us. Whenever I met him I was a nervous wreck, and he just stared and at me and smiled. If we had a conversation, I would always say something sarcastic and weird because I obviously turn into a crazy person when I'm nervous. It took me a while to realize I can't dwell on it forever. I just could't go on hoping and wishing anymore, it was too agonizing. I decided to forget M and it's been going well for the last couple of months.
By 0909 | Jan 06 2015
Okay so I met Gabe through a mutual friend one day. He's a super nice guy, but he's just nice to EVERYONE! I really like him, we have so much in common: share the same music taste, we're both into school, both say corny jokes, we get along really well. I've known him for a month now and are in the same "squad" in school, it's just me, gabe, and two other guys. We planned on going to New York for New Years as a group but the two other guys in the group canceled last minute. Gabe and I decided to still go together and two of my girl friends came along too. Gabe didn't really talk to them in the beginning and we talked together most of the time, joking around and stuff. While we were waiting for the ball to drop, that's when he began to talk to my friends. It was friendly talk and I have to admit I was a little jealous. On the train ride back home, Gabe kept insisting that we all hang out again... My friends know I like him and said okay but never followed through. Two days later I text Gabe that it was fun going to NY with him and he said he had fun too and that we should do it again sometime with the same group. I was kind of sad he said that because it made it seem like he didnt want to hang out with me alone. Anyways, this is what our conversations look like. When we talk I feel like there might be something going on between us, but then again I just feel like he's just being his friendly self.
By brittbeinert | Jan 03 2015
About 8-9 months ago I met this guy on Whisper, he was super cute, very flirty and incredibly fun to talk to. We exchanged snapchats and we talked much more and got to know each other and since we only lived a half an hour apart, there was some hope for us. We started talking more and it lasted for months like this and I was happy. He would say he loved me and always flirt with me but he would say that were not really official because of the distance and it would probably only stay in text. We even added each other on Facebook too so it's not like we were hiding each other. And a couple months ago I saw that he had moved a couple of extra hours away, and it broke my heart that he didn't tell me. But we still talk and he's actually come down a couple times to see me since then. Now he doesn't talk to me as often anymore and he comes up with excuses. But what I don't understand is the he told me he wanted to end up with me but still talks and is romanti with other girls.
By lala123 | Jan 03 2015
So I met this guy on a dating site who seemed to be quite over the top, romantic and a bit off. I am not the best with my choices so this is why I was attracted to him in the first place. When I say off I mean artistic, a poet, just a little bit over the top. I could tell he is the insecure, jealous, clingy guy. I am into all that kind of stuff. Fast forward, he was all over me from texts for 2-3 weeks and then finally we met. There was a lot of kissing talk from texts and he made it very clear he was looking for a relationship and he really liked me and I was beautiful and what on earth was I doing on a dating site. Real asnwer?-Fear of rejection! Anyway, up until we met I felt that he had dived right in, I enjoyed every moment of talking and flirting and I was curious to see if it would materialise. He seemed to really get me. Upon meeting I was utterly shocked to see how different he looked in real life and how timid and shy he was. The way he walked and carried himself he seemed so withdrawn. I was shocked at the fact that he did not smile when he saw me. Not a smirk not a half smile, nothing. From my experience I do feel that he might be depressed. Anyway, I was dissapointed and I am aware I came off as overpowering and quite cocky at times. I did not flirt at all or give him a compliment, quite the opposite. I felt that he was so shy I could not even understand what we were doing there and how he could have even been talking about kissing and all that from text. I could talk to him for hours and he did seem to have essence, I could imagine falling for him but usually guys are quite all over me so this came as a bit of a shock that he was so reserved so I assumed he was not interested. Because I am very insecure myself, I thought since he doesnt like me I should show disinterest aswell. Level of immaturity?100! Anyway. After the date he asked if I enjoyed myself to which I replied that I did but that he seemed bored. Within myself I know he was not bored but that h was extremely awkward and withdrawn. He reassured me he was not bored and that I was beautiful, chatty, lovely, charming and intelligent and do not need a dating site. When I thanked him for his words he told me that he knows he is unattractive and not interesting enough so he knows he will need to keep looking. I was baffled!!! You go on a date with a girl and on the same night tell her this?! He asked me again if I enjoyed it and I told him that I kind of did but I also did not because he seemed bored, and he was not really laughing with my jokes and then he said that he had enjoyed it and literally dissapeared. For 5 days he didnt initiate any contact, and he always texted every morning prior to our meeting. So I thought I should initiate contact and I told him that I had missed talking to him. He only said he is so sorry he has been quiet but he has the flu and he will be well soon. What nonsense?!
By b2uty431 | Dec 15 2014
I'm not interested in having a boyfriend right now, but I am a girl and sometimes I do want to know if someone likes me or not. And because I get confuse a lot, I need everything to be laid straight out. Ok, so here goes. There's this guy in my college, that most people, even me questions if he's straight or not. Basically he flirts with everyone, whether they're male or female. Especially with me he tends to push his feelings onto me. I'm into boybands and so is my friend and whenever we would fangirl over boys, he would get jealous and a little mad and try to imitate them. My friends all say that they've been asked by him of how I feel about him. Because of my past, I'm not so good with guys so when I met him, I didn't really want to be friends of him. I'm never alone with a guy, so i'm always with my friends. The other day, my friend asked me if I wanted to go to an arcade around Christmas time. And I said sure. Afterwards she told me that he told her to ask me. I asked her why didn't he just ask me himself. She said he said, there's more of a chance that you'd go if I asked.
By ahfbkjsbabh | Dec 11 2014
I've been good friends with this girl for years but I've started developing feelings for her lately. The thing is, I'm not sure if she likes me back.
She is sooo nice. She often texts me to ask about how my exam or concert was and we have lunch together very often. We've gone to museums, read original poetry, etc. Always the two of us alone, but I don't know if it was just because we were friends. At the time I didn't really think about it.
She once called me while drunk and her friend was teasing her and repeatedly shouting "I LOVE YOU" and my friend sounded pretty embarrassed but I thought they were having fun and it was a long time ago. I never use Facebook but she once (again, long time ago) commented I was "super cute" on my profile pic. Her boyfriend's kinda jealous of me and she WAS often jealous of other girl friends. These paragraphs are stupid but I had to write them: I'm so in love now!
Finally, I opened her diary by accident yesterday (it was on her iPad I didn't mean it). I didn't read it because I don't want to be an asshole but it said something like "I want you to take photographs of me and tell me I look pretty"--I realized it was her diary and close it--, which is exactly what we did last week but it may be just a quote from somewhere else, or a text she wrote for someone else.
Now I feel like she doesn't like me at all because I didn't notice those hints before (if they were hints). What do you guys think?
DISCLAIMER: She'd been dating this dude for a year straight but like a month ago she found out he was cheating. They broke up but still see each other even when she doesn't always feel excellent about it. I used to like the guy but I hate that he cheats on her.
By jellyhead | Nov 15 2014
Me and this guy have been very close friends for about eight months now - talking every single day and discussing everything from the small details of our day to the deep secrets of our past. He went through this phase where he was unemployed/where he kept getting rejections/where his ex who he still had feelings for got married and I would do my best to support him through all the hard times. I would describe him as very close to my heart.
He does know that I like him because I admitted so. He stayed friends with me and said he really respected me for having the guts to tell him although he didn't say that he sees me romantically in any way. I don't think he does, but he actually calls me "bro" and "sweet sis" a lot. Hahahaha - I'm OK with that and can enjoy our friendship for what it is.
However, two things have been bugging me lately. After his unemployed phase, he recently got a new job and he has become very close to one of his co-workers. They take lunch together at a separate time from everybody else in the office and he often asks me to help decipher her texts and stuff. He says he doesn't want to fall in love with her (I haven't asked explicitly why, but she is roughly 6 years older than him and also intercultural marriages aren't very common in his family, so that might be a reason.) He said that he is trying to control his feelings, but they spend a lot of time together and it's difficult. I have seen the things she texts him, the flirty compliments which she gives him and the way she behaves around him, so I think she definitely likes him too. They have a lot of fun together, so what I can see is the definite basis of a romantic emotional connection forming - if not an outright relationship.
By jenks8806 | Nov 03 2014
I have known this guy for 13 years, we went to school together, I moved away and we lost touch for about 10 years. In July he found me and message me, we exchange numbers and I've been talking everyday since. We still have about 45 minutes away from each other, and we've talked about seeing each other, but we have a busy schedules. I like him, and I think he likes me, we talked about future plans and what we like in a mate. Whenever we talk, it's good conversation, we laugh and joke around as well as what's going on in our lives, or what's bothering us. But lately, it seems like he gets upset when I tell him I'm going out with my friends. I know that he's been hurt in the past by other women, and has trust issues. But he gets upset with me like I'm the one who hurt him or is going to hurt him, and that's not the case at all, but we've yet to discuss what we really are or where this may be going.
By marinag | Oct 21 2014
There's a guy which started to talk to me last week. I had already see him at school but I'd never really noticed him. So last week we started talking and he was nice with me and was always making me laugh saying stupid things.
Then we started chatting and he asked me if I had a boyfriend and how many guys I had dated so I decided to ask him the same questions.
By blackskye | Oct 17 2014
I have known this guy for a while. About five years.. four years ago we slept together twice then i got in a long term relationship and had a baby. We just reacently broke upafter almost 4 years. This guy and i kept in contact and hung out a time or two during my relationship. Now that its over for my ex and i this friend so to speak and i are sleeping woth one another regularly. He comes to see me at least once a week and of corse stays a couple nights. We text quite a bit and he is active on my fb account always leaving comments and stuff. He tells me he will be back nezt week i never ask. He comes over in the middle of the night sometimes after a talk on the phone. Its an hour drive to my house from his. i have met a few of his friends and family reacently... heres the bomb. He tells me about other girls he is sleeping with.. he tells me about plans to ask them on dates. He has told me he usually tells girls this to see if they get jelous.
By tina_m | Oct 12 2014
I have been seeing this guy for a year now on and off and we have had our ups and downs! Recently things were going really well until I told him that I slept with someone else on one our breaks ( he had done the same) he totally freaked out calling me all sorts which surprised me as he had told me about this girl a few weeks back and I never freaked out like that but anyways he said he never wanted to see me again. I was distraught constantly asking him to forgive me I told him I loved him as well for the first during all that in a letter a left at his house he never acknowledged it. He finally kind of got over and said he wanted me back things were shaky of course they still are he recently got mad about it out of now where the other the day and because I feel like I was wrong I took it. When I saw him I told him I loved him again I also told him I wasn't expecting a response I just wanted him to know, I was okay with him not saying it back. We are a couple that argues a lot but we make up aswell but recently I feel like I'm always doing all the work in our relationship. If I text him he's anti social and will give me shitty replies but when he texts me on his own he's all chatty I don't get it! I only see him once a week and I told him we don't live that far apart (5 minute drive) and he said we will work on it still nothing! He finally said he loves me but with the way I'm feeling recently I doubt everything he says and does I'm confused is this relationship worth all the stress. I was also ill this week and I told him all he asked was if I was okay and then he didn't reply after that his friend (she's a girl) got ill and he drove to the hospital stayed with her all night and I can't even get a text back! I don't want to be that jealous girl but I think I deserve more than that I feel childish to tell him this but I don't know what to do he's 27 I'm only 19 I'm confused help!
By sadcookie | Oct 08 2014
My best friend is a male. We talk for hours every day and he tells me all his deep secrets. I feel strongly about him, but I have never told him explicitly. We could never really be together anyway, because we both come from separate (but equally strict) cultural backgrounds and our families wouldn't be cool with an intermarriage.
Anyway, yesterday he started telling me about a girl he met at work and suggesting that he might like her. I did feel insecure at that point because she is very knowledgable about things like politics which I am not so well informed about. (He's big on political discussions too.)
Some of the messages we exchanged are below - please read them from left to right. I have tried to include most of the relevant points of our conversation, but left out texts in between that were about something else.