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So this guy on Instagram messaged me and he was really cute so I decided to talk to him. we exchanged phone numbers and he started texting me saying sweet stuff like "you're my wife" "we're married." which could be something he could just be saying to get inside my pants. I have doubts mainly because he's realky good looking and really popular with the girls on Instagram and most guys who Ive talked to on instagram have been this way and just wanted sex.

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By annaj | Feb 03 2015

So I invited him over for dinner at my place. 3rd time meeting him. Had to cancel making dinner because I need to work late. He texted back "can I bring pizza over'? I said ok. He said "see you then with massage slippers and a martini."

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What does it mean when he says I 'entertain him'??

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He texted a song by Billy currington. If I fall will you let me down easy What does he mean

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Okay so I met Gabe through a mutual friend one day. He's a super nice guy, but he's just nice to EVERYONE! I really like him, we have so much in common: share the same music taste, we're both into school, both say corny jokes, we get along really well. I've known him for a month now and are in the same "squad" in school, it's just me, gabe, and two other guys. We planned on going to New York for New Years as a group but the two other guys in the group canceled last minute. Gabe and I decided to still go together and two of my girl friends came along too. Gabe didn't really talk to them in the beginning and we talked together most of the time, joking around and stuff. While we were waiting for the ball to drop, that's when he began to talk to my friends. It was friendly talk and I have to admit I was a little jealous. On the train ride back home, Gabe kept insisting that we all hang out again... My friends know I like him and said okay but never followed through. Two days later I text Gabe that it was fun going to NY with him and he said he had fun too and that we should do it again sometime with the same group. I was kind of sad he said that because it made it seem like he didnt want to hang out with me alone. Anyways, this is what our conversations look like. When we talk I feel like there might be something going on between us, but then again I just feel like he's just being his friendly self.

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I met a guy at a party we exchanged numbers and I actually ended up staying the night with him in his dorm. even though he wanted to we didn't have sex because I didnt. we proceeded to text and hang out for the next two weeks and then I saw him at another party dancing and trying to make out with other girls and got mad and pretty much told him not to talk to me again. long story short I got very drunk and high and ended up going home with him again this time having sex with him. when I left that morning I knew I wouldn't see him again for about a week because we were both leaving to go home for thanksgiving break. I had little to no contact with him except for him texting me to tell me happy birthday. when I got back to school one of my friends asked me if I knew that he had a girlfriend I had no idea and texted him to confront him about it. I'll attatch our conversation. I texted him a couple times since but he read them and did not reply.

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So I went to a deli tonight. And this cute guy that worked there smiled at me a few times. He came back and slid his number to me. I left and texted him. In one of the messages he said "your eyes were telling me some enticing things" and asked if I wanted to meet up after he got off.

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A guy contacted me on a website and after a few emails asked me out on a date. We had a lovely time on the date and he asked if we could meet again and if it was alright that he called me after his gig that same evening. I said sure. The date ended with a kiss.

The rest of the evening he texted me, asking if he could come over later that night. I said that any other night but not this one because I had an early appointment for a job interview the day after. We agreed to get together a few days later. He writes he'll call after work the day after and we continue to text during the evening. He is really flirty and a lot of "kisses and hugs". I flirt back.

I send him a text the day after, when I haven't heard from him to ask if he got home alright as he had an one hour drive back to his place. He responded (translations from my native language):
"Yes I did! Sorry for not being in touch today. I was called in at work so I'm at work the whole evening. I also worked the whole day at my regular job."

I answer him: "I'm glad to hear you got home safely :) You get back to work and then you rest and we'll be in touch when you're able to. Hugs"

Late in the evening the day before our second planned date he texts me: "Hi, I totally forgot that we had a Christmas party at work tomorrow evening and I'm working the whole weekend. The week after I have my daughter. It is a lot going on right now so I talk to you another day. Kisses and hugs darling"

I answer: "Okay, I sort of got that feeling from you last text so I started to plan another thing for tonight. I truly hope you get a lovely evening! Hugs"

Then silence.

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Okay so I met this guy in my biology class (btw I'm a sophomore and he's a senior) and we started talking and became friends and then he had to transfer to another school to get the rest of his credits. I added him on FB the other day and he accepted in like 2 seconds and then I messaged him saying that I miss him and stuff and he said he misses me too. A couple of days later he asks for my snapchat and i give it to him. He hasn't sent nudes, which is good. We snapchat all the time till probably 2 am. He keeps saying that I'm cute, silly and sexy. Neither of us send nudes btw. I told my friends and they say that he likes me. I keep saying that he doesn't because he's probably just being nice and just wants sex from me. (Btw I'm 15 and he's 18)

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We met Freshman year in college and we hung out in my dorm like 2 times. We are now Seniors and about to graduate and recently started talking again. I went over to his place three days ago because I always wanted to know what it would be like to have sex with him and we did have sex but we had a really intimate conversation and I really got to see another side of him. He told me he's not usually like that and he felt really comfortable with me, he even said his favorite part was the cuddling.

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I asked him this question thinking that we'd just hangout and hookup like we normally do but his response kind of made me do a double take...

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This guy and I we met last year at work. And 2 weeks into it we started hanging out. We started hanging out at his place as well. I drive his car home, as well as his mum's car when his is at the workshop. We go everywhere together - we are always a pair. I've met his closest friends and his family members as well as his cousins. We went for our first vacation in May and that was when I told him that I have feelings for him. Ever since then he has been more dear to me and I guess slightly paying more attention to me as well. But not long after we had a talk about the feelings and he said he doesn't have any. But I didn't give up and we still hung out. We'll nap at his place after work usually with me hugging him from behind. And about 2 months ago we had a talk about it again and he hugged me. Later when I got home I emailed him expressing some things that I didn't say and thanked him for the hug as well as told him that I enjoy hugs. Since then, he has been hugging me a lot especially when we're sleeping. The confusing part is that I'm still unsure if this is leading to a relationship or am I being used. He has made plans to migrate and he involves me in the plan. He is sort of lifeless when I am away. Like when my sister came back for a short vacation and I told him I won't be hanging out at his place he actually asked "if you stay home and hang out with your sis then what am I going to do?" He'll also Whatsapp me randomly and he is really all nutty and crazy with me. He behaves totally different when he is with me. He becomes a very jolly and youthful person and we are always laughing. We have had several disagreements or serious discussions but we have never raised our voice and argue or fight. I really like him a lot and there is a possibility that I actually already love him very much too. Oh.. he is also 9 years older than me. He has changed a lot recently for me. Keeping his distance from flirty colleagues, staying in with me after work when I get off at 10pm (he'll actually nap in the car while waiting for me). Even the other day in front of our General Manager he placed his hand on my knee and our GM actually went "Aww.. look.. so sweet.." Everyone thinks we're a couple and everyone calls me his gf. He has never denied it. At the start of everything we tried telling people that we're not together. I will still deny even now but he doesn't at all. I'm getting very uncertain about the migration as he said see how things go once we have migrated. But for me, if we're going to migrate together as friends, then might as well we just go separately on our own considering the fact that we're migrating as friends and only deciding later whether we should be a couple. There's no doubt he wants me to go with him and I with him but I'm definitely not sure if he has serious feelings for me or he is just stringing me along as a comfort zone because things are gonna be really easy.

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So I dated this guy Anthony for a year. We had an amazing relationship for the first 8 months, he was in a major car accident and we became so close during that time. He was my best friend, my sounding board, made me feel so beautiful and safe and just taken care of. The sex was MINDBLOWING and I have never felt that way with anyone else. The last four months we hit a wall. We've always been opposites in some ways (mostly political views and morals). It seems like the last four months we just argued all the time and fought over petty things. He broke up with me because we had been arguing a lot that month and we fought over how much time we were going to spend at each of our families houses for the Fourth of July. It's been two months, filled with late night conversations and a couple hookups between the two of us. He's been with other people but I haven't since we broke up. He took to a wild streak and partied and drank and got kinda reckless. I took up running and focusing on my career. After a few weeks of no contact (we would just text every now and then) Last Saturday he called me, while I was asleep. The next day I got ahold of him and we went to an ice cream place then a few parks. In that time we ended up kissing, he told me that I looked beautiful and he missed me. He played me a few songs he had found that reminded him of me. The whole time we hung out the sexual tension was insane, so I mentioned that and I asked him...what we were doing, why we were hanging out? I told him that I wanted him again but that I was enjoying me independence and he agreed. So then he suggested that we decide to start being friends with benefits...which neither of us has never done. Of course I was like hell no at first. But then I thought maybe...so long as we are only with eachother because that's just gross. And it wouldn't be adding to my number of partners. So after setting some conditions, we agreed to start casual sex with the intentions of getting back together. Sort of a trial run. So he came back to my house, we had sex, he basically just confessed his love to me and held me all night and we pinky swore that if things go right for us in the next few months that we will be together. I went to his house last night. We made pizzas and watched tv, cuddled, then had sex. I left because I had to work but he walked me to my car and for 10 min we tried to say goodbye for the night and he just kept kissing me and saying how much he loved me. Then I got home and he asked me if I missed him and said he missed me like crazy. We text all day. He tells me he misses me and he loves me, we're hanging out today and he texted me today saying after today e can't see me till Saturday because he's helping his uncle move. So we have plans for Saturday.

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So this guy and I have been talking/ hanging out since March. I really like him and would like to have a relationship but I'm not sure of what he wants. The main culprit is that we met at a bar, had too many drinks, grinded on the dance floor, and then took me to his place---- and we had sex that first night. We did it again that morning, and he got my number and he offered to make me breakfast and we talked for a few hours, showered together and then he drove me home and gave me a kiss goodbye. I see him about once a week now and usually wait for him to text me first every couple of days. Our texts back and forth are pretty lengthy....like our conversations in person.We cuddle, hold hands, have met some of each other's friends (he does PDA in front of them). He always asks for a goodbye kiss and gives me super tight hugs. The sex is awesome and when we kiss, i feel like we can go for hours. He compliments me on everything and we have a lot in common. He mentions going out sometime during the day but hasn't followed through with that plan. I'm just confused to as what he wants. I'm nervous to ask and honeslty I think i might have screwed things up from the getgo.... By having sex the first night. And we're still hooking up to this day.

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I recently met a guy on an online dating site. We had talked on there for a while but then stopped. After about a month or so, he decided to message me again (still on the site) we started talking again, he even gave me his number and we started texting non stop. I finally met him after about a month of us texting back and forth. Everything seemed to be going good. He wasn't really my type physically but we got along quite fine so it didn't really bother me anymore. Later that night we went to the drive ins and he started putting moves on me. As if he wanted to have sex right then and their. He even asked me to be his girlfriend that night. I thought he was moving way too fast so didn't really say anything. He finally dropped me off and text me saying he had a great time with me. I felt horrible, because I didn't know whether he was serious about liking me so much or if he was just trying to get in my pants.

After that night I text him the next day telling him I just wanted to be friends. He seemed a bit sad but "respected" my decision and stopped talking to me completely for about two days. On the second day of not talking he text me saying he wanted to see me, that he really missed me and that I should give him a chance.

I'll be honest, I felt bad. But I agreed to it.
We hung out a few more times and I still didn't feel anything towards him. We would always hang out, smoke a bit and then he would always try to put moves on me as if he wanted sex and that was it.

But what confuses me is that I haven't had sex with him and he keeps coming from another city about 1 hour away just to see me.

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