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I'm afraid of myself....

By paleta | Jan 07 2016

Okay, here's the deal... and it's kind of fucked up. I demand to much attention from everyone, not in a creppy way but attention. I'm not self-involved, actually one of the things I'm not really used to talk about, are my feelings and how I feel toward things, but still I like to have attention, to get a text from the people I care everyday, I might not respond sometimes, but I just want to recieve it. The things is that, when some of the people I care, do not pay me attention at all, I get extremly anxious. I had a friend, we where Bff, I used to be her personal advicer in every subject of her life, but we've been quite apart lately, and when I ask her to give me some attention (I don't go, hey give me attention, It's more like I text her to tell her something) she doesn't even care, she do not call me or text me back in the way she used to. This leads me to kind of a anxiety breakdown, even more when more people it's involved. I would even try to hurt myself because the pain I feel from hitting my body can not be compared to the pain I feel inside, so I try to focus on that pain, so i can live with the one I have inside. This is becoming worse and worse, I'm afraid someday I'll hurt myself in a more serious way. The thing is, nobody knows this, everybody things I'm just a fun, nice and crazy girl who doesn't care about what people think, or do or whatever... But I'm not like that, It might seem like I'm but I'm not... and I don't wanna show this side of me, to anyone... what can I do?

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NYE Party...

By girly_07 | Jan 04 2016

Hey there.
On NYE I've been to a party at a friend's house, it was super cool and everyone were having fun. At midnight we did a little countdown and each couples kissed and other people were hugging and everythin. Anyway, I'm single so I did not kiss anybody; however during the party, I've been talking to a guy I've seen before many times since we went to the same college but we never talked before the party. During the party we got to know eachother and we talked for hours and time was running so fast I did not realize it was almost 6 in the morning. During the party, at some point we also kissed, like A LOT. We actually made out on the couch (nothing super hot because people were around but you know it was something). At 6 we had to leave the party so I drove him home. When we arrived at his house, HE kissed me once again and we kissed for like 2 minutes non stop, I had to end it or otherwise we would have kissed for like 40 minutes haha. He kissed me goodnight and went home. He texted me later saying that he hopes I got home safe and since then we text everyday (we can't see eachother right now since he travelled the day after the party. He's coming back in a week tho). So we're still texting and at some point during the convo he told me: " I really hope you'll have time when I come back so I can see you again!!!" . Now here's my problem, I'm really starting to like this guy, like I can't stop thinking about him, about our kisses sessions and everything. I'm just afraid he's playing me and he does not really like me. He does not sound like a player at all but I'm so afraid to get hurt, like you can't even understand. Do you think he likes me or do you think he's playing me...?

Thanks in advance :)

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If you were me. Honestly, what would you do ...

By bevcam | Feb 26 2015

Me and this guy had been talking for a while. Suddenly out of no where we stopped communicating. I don't know why.. It's been 15 days and I find myself thinking about him from time to time. I want to text him bc if I don't I'll always wonder what if things would of gotten resolved.. But if I do text him and he doesn't acknowledge me I would get hurt.

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Ok we started off as friends with benefits, we've been spending svery weekend together for the past 3 months and we had a talk and established we don't want to see other people.. So we are semi exclusive but because he has been hurt in relationships before he holds back a lot and that hurts. every now and then he will withdraw but then he will be so sweet he tells me I am beautiful all the time. He is going on a 6 month holiday to london that's why he is kind of withdrawn but that's a while away. What do you do if a guy you really like holds back? Give him space? Maybe seeing him every 2nd - 3rd day doesn't give him time to miss me and that's maybe what I should do? Any advice?
He's started making future plans with me to and wants to go travelling with another couple.
But he also untagged a photo of us two together on facebook.

I admit he makes me crazy hence this crazy message lol

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