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Idk what to do i was talking to a guy and he suddenly send me a message saying You should find another friend cuz I don't wanna be hanging out with a girl like u. Idk what I did wrong and all I know I met him one day the day I decided to met him I was in a negative attitude I only saw him for 30 mns and I even apologize for the way I acted . Idk what to do. He said everything is all my fault and that I need to learn from my mistakes and now all he does is ignore me . What I do?

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When a guy casually makes a joke about sex, does that mean that he wants it? I got mad at my best guy friend because I wanted to go out tonight but he was feeling tired and didn't want to. These are some of his messages..."don't feel like I'm rejecting you haha." "I know you're thinking that I am." Then "if you want to sleep with me you're welcome haha." Is it just a joke?

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I went on tinder date, which turned into a tinder hookup and sleepover. He text me the next morning to check I was OK and stuff but I didn't reply to his last message. I really want to hookup again because the sex was good but I'm not really interested in a relationship and I know he's not a relationship kind of guy. He's not spoke to me since the morning after. Is it OK for me to make contact with him, or is he just not interested?

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Why didn't he kiss me this time? Is it a bad sign?

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Why didn't he kiss me this time? Is it a bad sign?

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Friend set me up with a guy she had met...

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Overwhelmed a shy guy I absolutely adore???

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I recently started talking to this guy who I used to talk to in high school a few years ago, we weren't as close but we would talk a lot mainly on AIM and occasionally facebook. There were times where we were supposed to hang out but unfortunately there was always something conflicting, which ended up us never hanging out and I moved my last year, therefore we sort of lost contact or somewhat drifted for quite a while. About 3 years later, I had this sudden urge of contacting him, so I decided to text him. It was nice to catch up after it's been so long. One of the first things he said was of course we should hangout, "grab something to eat" then said we should do something fun and told me to let him know when i'm available. I agreed to do so, so we planned ahead and about a few days after we didn't text or anything and I was curious if he'd remember or not so I decided the next day I'll let him know, funny thing is I woke up the next morning and received a text from him, and I was actually happy he had remembered and initiated before I even did.

The day we hung out, I didn't necessarily know what to expect nor was I prepared because it was the first time we got to hang out and it was just between him and I. I just went with the flow. He offered to pick me up and didn't mind if he'd take me home, because I live about 20 minutes away. When he picked me up, I got inside the car and he had a smile and seemed enthusiastic about us introducing ourselves properly and finally getting to hang out. We catched up a bit and he started talking about inviting me over for a kickback with his co-workers 2 days later at his place, there was going to be karaoke and stuff, he said "you should come, it'll be fun." Yes, I thought why not. But before I get to that later, I love that during my awkward silences, he filled it up with questions about myself and kept the conversation going so i'd feel more comfortable. Once we reached our destination, he offered to pay, we went go karting, played mini golf and a cheeky air hockey sesh. He was a gentleman, opened the door for me and showed his concern especially asking if I wanted anything (if I was hungry). During our hang out, there was a few times he would tease me, complimented me, and I could sense his body language, whenever we talked he was very attentive, we made eye contact often. Every time we walked, we accidentally bumped into each other because of how close we were standing, he would nudge my arm when he'd joke around and try to make me laugh.

One thing that stood out was that he was open with me, he'd share some of his personal experiences, his childhood, etc. Generally didn't mind admitting to things even if he felt embarrassed to. We sat next to each other, bonded on different things like food, karaoke, and places we've been to or want to go. It made me realize that he must truly want to know more about me and spend more time. We both mentioned how we used to talk a lot back then, the moment when he said "I wonder why we stopped talking". Another thing that stood out was in the middle of talking, he jumped into talking about places and events. We would talk about them and he would say "Oh! that's where we have to go!" and asked if I've been hiking before, I said I have and he went in to say that we should go hiking. Most of the events we talked about happen later in the year and so on. Just by making these future plans with me, made me engage on what his intentions are. Going home, we were cruising around and enjoying the moment, listening to music. We passed by a restaurant he loves to go to and we bonded over the kind of food they served, although I've never been there, he said that we should try it next time. When we were near my place, he complimented that my lotion smelled nice and I thanked him for the day, I initially was going to give him a hug but it looked like I was already getting out of the car and he was like "I don't get a hug?" or "Do I get a hug?" and smiled and I looked back and of course gave him a hug, and it wasn't a second it was more like a few seconds and he even gently rubbed my back like a little warm embrace. Overall I had a great time, and it was generally a nice feeling knowing we got to know one another better.

A few hours had passed, he sent me a message that he had fun that day and that he was hoping that we could see each other again for his kickback I talked about earlier. So I hung out with my best friend the night before his kickback, and our close friend came down to visit so we all had a few drinks. I told her about his kickback, i'm thinking she definitely forgot about it the next day. He knew I was bringing my friend along and I told him that we would come. I watched a movie with my best friend first thinking we were still going, then after the movie she was like "hurry, we have to go" (she had somewhere to go) I was bummed at this point because she never told me anything sooner, at this moment I knew we weren't going to make it and I felt bad that I wasn't going to go. I told him and he was kind of bummed, he thought I was going to go, an hour later I fell asleep and woke up that he texted me "Hey there's no way you can make it? ):" and I didn't see it right away neither did I know what to say, it was late. I told him my situation a day later, which I shouldn't have waited and rather done it the next day. But he said it was fine, he'd have another some other time. We still texted a bit and we basically mentioned we both can't wait for break again, because we're currently in school, and he said he's been busy all day everyday. He works as well, so I understand he's a busy bee. But after that conversation, we hadn't texted in almost 2 weeks now. I feel as if he indicated that just to let me know what's up (him being busy and what not) in case we don't talk as often i'm guessing.

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Why is a guy with a girlfreind flirting with me?

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Okay, so I met this guy on Tinder and we actually matched and started talking on my birthday when I turned 18 so the new matches to guys over 18 opened up. Anyways, my birthday was 9 days ago and out of all the guys that messaged me that day, he stood out most. I gave him my number the next day and we text every day. The texts are flirty and funny and silly and we really get along. He calls me his princess and I call him my nerd and we both said that we aren't even talking to other people. We've met three times. The first time, it was just a random meeting and he came to where I was, which was Target, haha, the second time we were both sick and we decided we would go talk and get Tim Hortons after class. (I'm a senior in high school taking college classes and he is a junior in college, we both go to the same college). So anyways, at Tim Hortons, he kissed me and he even got up to go to the bathroom and came back and said he missed me. We talked for two and a half hours while we were both sick and it went pretty good. The third time I saw him, he was at work and I brought him a slurpee. We are supposed to be hanging out tomorrow after we both get out of class and he says 'I can't wait to cuddle and kiss my princess'.

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Have you ever felt that you're just fine with not texting the guy you're interested in and that you're also fine with him not really texting you? Hahaa. I mean at first I was a bit like how we are "why isnt he texting me at least once (because it at least shows that you are interested and trying?..". But afterwards I thought that "it's actually fine because well if he did, then I would probably get tired of texting him and especially with that whole texting ruins communication among people". So I would prefer to talk to him face to face and call him instead. I can say we're doing pretty good for the start. It's been 3 weeks and we have been on 3 dates. I'm pretty much just going with the flow for the first time and wow, it feels pretty nice :)

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By bitterhoney | Feb 14 2015

I already posted a question here:
http://hetexted.com/questions/nbsp-is-he-into-me
Just now the same guy texted:
Happy San Valentine’s evening! I send you 1000 hugs for your evening (hug) (hug) (hug) For me, I am at home alone, enjoying watching a movie keeping warm on this cold rainy night. I hope you are feeling better and I wish you a good evening and weekend (heart)
And I am wondering again....

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Is he into me? With this particular guy, I went out twice. Date two was really great: started out with drinks and appetizers, then went to another place to dance, and he still asked me if I wanted to go to another place although I declined since it was late. Soooo much chemistry between us: long eye gazes, touching hands, holding each other, kissing, hugging etc... - mainly as PDAs. I want more but don't want to mess it up somehow.... By when should he ask me on another date if he's into me?

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We have been talking for a month. He works a lot so whenever he has a chance to see me, he does so. We have gone out on a couple dates, but most of the time we spent is at my place cuddling while watching Netflix. He's always punctual and when he says he will come he does so. He makes me smile like no one else can and I feel happy and safe whenever I'm around him.

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Why do I feel like thia

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He is ill and feels it's better we don't talk. This, when he barely maintained any contact over a month when we were both travelling.

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