Okay so I knew this guy from high school and I'm going to be a sophomore in college and I moved away for college and now I'm back in town we matched on tinder I never expected to click yes on just figured I would because he would only know I did if he did as well and in our conversation he said he was thinking the same exact thing oh and I forgot to mention that I liked him a lot in high school and he knew but he turned me down he never dated anyone in high school or anything and neither did I so after we matched the next day he messaged me on tinder and we just did some friendly talking seeing how each others year had been and then he gave me his number and told me to text him and so I did and we were talking some more and I asked him why he now had interest in me and he also follows me on snapchat so he knows what I post and stuff and I've also lost 40 pounds since high school so I look much more attractive now and he said that he always thought that I was chill and that he had just matured since then which I would agree on I think I haven't seen him in person since high school so I then told him I did t really know that much about him I didn't even know his favorite color so he asked if I wanted to get to know him better and I said only if he wanted to get to know me better and so we were basically playing 20 questions and then we were talking about interests and we both mentioned something that we liked and he said that we should do that together among a few other instances where he suggested us hanging out and eventually he said he was falling asleep and that it was good talking to me and getting to know me better and that he would text me the next night to get to know me better and I texted back goodnight and so the next night he doesn't text until 10 at night he asked what I was doing I told him just got done with some homework and that I was watching tv and he said that he had just finished watching the giants play baseball on tv and so we asked two more questions of 20 questions thing and then I replied something and then I never got a text back it was at like 1 in the morning but it has now been three days and I haven't heard one thing from him but I know that he has looked at my snapchat so I'm just so confused why one night he was making potential plans and the next night he never responds and then I just never hear back from him again and he texted me first both times and since I used to have feelings for him I am just so confused what his intentions were and why he would text me like that and then nothing and I don't know what I would have done to him to play such a cruel joke and lead me on like that when he knew I liked him in high school

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By radvibes13 | May 12 2016

I am very confused and embarrassed. So this guy(a Sr.) that I ( a Jr.)l like is often staring at me. We were in the same prom group with different dates, and my mom who was taking the pictures noticed him staring at me often. I then noticed this at the actual prom and still happening at school 4 days later.

we have hung out in a group together once about 3-4 months ago after a school dance, this is when I realized I liked him) and I got his snapchat from a friends friend, and snapped him a simple pic saying hey. he opened it but didn't reply.

When I noticed him staring at me so much, I thought that maybe he finds me attractive and I now have a shot. I was afraid to snap him again in case he would do the same thing, but I was told to man up and do it, so I snapped him again the week after prom hoping to strike up a conversation by asking him if he wanted any of the rom pics my mom took.

He once again opened it and didn't reply.

Now I feel really dumb and embarrassed and don't know if he just isn't really into snapchatting, as this is his only source of social media, or If his prom date (a Sophomore) is actually his girl friend. she told me during pictures that he was her bf and asked her to prom three days before. I didn't know if I believed her because no one else in the school knew of their "relationship" and during the pictures they didn't act like a couple at all, barely walking next o each other. (they definitely danced like a couple at prom though, but even during some slow sons he and I would make eye contact). I am really scared to see him at school tomorrow in fear he may not like me anymore or something. I want to be able to get his attention before he graduates. HELP! WHAT DO I DO?

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Why is he so vague and confusing when it comes to talking about relationship

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What are we? Where is this going? Should I still listen to my heart?

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Does this guy like me or is he just playing with my mind?

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Okay, so I met this guy on Tinder and we actually matched and started talking on my birthday when I turned 18 so the new matches to guys over 18 opened up. Anyways, my birthday was 9 days ago and out of all the guys that messaged me that day, he stood out most. I gave him my number the next day and we text every day. The texts are flirty and funny and silly and we really get along. He calls me his princess and I call him my nerd and we both said that we aren't even talking to other people. We've met three times. The first time, it was just a random meeting and he came to where I was, which was Target, haha, the second time we were both sick and we decided we would go talk and get Tim Hortons after class. (I'm a senior in high school taking college classes and he is a junior in college, we both go to the same college). So anyways, at Tim Hortons, he kissed me and he even got up to go to the bathroom and came back and said he missed me. We talked for two and a half hours while we were both sick and it went pretty good. The third time I saw him, he was at work and I brought him a slurpee. We are supposed to be hanging out tomorrow after we both get out of class and he says 'I can't wait to cuddle and kiss my princess'.

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How do I handle this situation?

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My best friend is a guy whom I have known for the last 10 years; we met in high school, kept in touch in college, dated after college when we both wound up in the same city, broke up after a few weeks because he "didn't feel that way about me". Now we pretty much live together we spend so much time together...

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This guy I swiped right on tinder goes to my small school (5000...

By shethehoopstart22 | Jan 19 2015

Why is this guy texting me at 5am

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This is not a question about romantic involvements, but I thought it might be a good place to get some advice. I have a close guy friend who I have known since junior high. We've been good friends for about 7 years, and in the same extra curriculars and classes in high school. He now goes to college near where my family lives, so we've been able to connect when I come home for breaks. This friend has struggled (at times very severely) with depression. There have been a couple times where he's had a break down and I've either been in person with him or talking to him over the phone. I've tried to be a supportive friend in these times (usually talking to him and making sure to get someone else involved who actually has knowledge on how to deal with the situation, like a school counselor.) these breakdowns are scary and especially upsetting if he calls over the phone and I feel helpless miles away. I know that there is nothing I can really do besides listen and ask for outside help if I think he's going to hurt himself. Regardless, these episodes are upsetting and make me worry. In the past couple months he has seemed to be better. I came home for break and when he found out I was near him he seemed really eager to hang out. However, the next day he didn't mention it so I let it drop. He went on vacation, and when he got back we were hardly in contact. Randomly he said we should hang out but then when I asked if he had any ideas he said no and again the issue was dropped. During this time I know he was hanging out a lot with another old high school friend. In combination with his seeming lackluster interest in our friendship and our increasingly spread out, dull text conversations I had decided to fade and give the friendship space and silence. Well, tonight he text me saying he ran six miles. I said that's nice. He asked what was wrong and I basically said that he just seemed disinterested in our friendship lately. He went on to say that he didn't mean to come across that way and that he has been so busy making huge changes in his life (being healthier, getting more sleep, and doing his school work) and that he had also been spending a lot of time with the old high school friend. I was very pleasantly surprised to hear that he was making these changes and sounded to be doing really well. However, I'm kinda bothered that he stopped communicating with me during this abundant time of life improvement. There have been times in our friendship where we have lost contact for a bit of time, but usually he would share something like this lifestyle change, as would I. I should mention that he has been there for me when I've had troubles, like going through a stressful time or a breakup. Its not always me being the for him. But I've never gone through anything compared to his breakdowns.

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for three months. We're seniors in high school, and we live a half an hour away from each other, so we typically only see each other for a few hours on Saturday night. Over Christmas break, however, we've been seeing each other A LOT more often, probably 7 out of the 14 days of break. And it's been awesome. I wondered if we would get bored of each other, but we've had so much fun learning about each other, goofing off, getting to know each other's friends and families (and even extended families--he introduced me to his grandparents at a family-only Christmas gathering on Christmas day itself), and having deep meaningful conversations. I've actually walked out of the past two weeks deciding that I'm falling in love with him. He asked me to prom, which is four months down the road, so he's obviously feeling secure about the relationship too. The only thing that bothered me was that when I mentioned the other day that I didn't know how I'd be able to transition back into seeing him only one day a week, he responded, "Or every two weeks. Sometimes I busy on the weekends, you know." At the time I just shrugged it off, figuring he really didn't mean anything by it. Today was the last day of break, and he just came down with a cold that I passed onto him. When I was sick a few days ago, he came over with a little "get better" kit and spent several hours watching movies and chatting with me. So, naturally, when he came down with the same thing, I felt guilty for passing it to him and offered to make some soup and bring it over to him. And that's exactly what I did this afternoon. I dropped the soup off, spent an hour chatting with him, and then had to rush off to another engagement. But as he walked me out to my car, I think we just started our first ever argument. I asked him if I'd get to see him this weekend (knowing that he previously mentioned he didn't have any other plans), and he snapped (yes, literally snapped) back, "Well I do have a life you know, since I'm in public school and all." (I'm homeschooled, but this has never been an issue between us, and I'm always just as busy as he is). I was totally taken aback and responded, "Well are you saying that I don't have a life, too?" Then he got extremely defensive in his tone, saying "NO! Of course I'm not saying you don't have a life." He said bye and started to walk away, but I stopped him and said in a soft (probably even pathetic--I was still a little shocked) voice, "Hey, you've got to kiss me one more time. You can't leave it on such a sour note!" I tried to tease, but I could still feel the tension. As he turned and left, I said "Really, if this Saturday doesn't work out for you, I won't be heartbroken." He nodded, laughed, and walked away, but I still felt really hurt. On the way home, he sent me a text: "Thanks for stopping by. I feel a lot better ;)" which I think was supposed to serve as some sort of an apology.

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I'm a Junior in high school and there's this Freshman that has caught my eye, only problem is that he's one of my (not so close)friend's little brother and one of the staff member's son. He says one girl is his gf, but my friends say she won't really date him. I'm worried it might be weird if we ever dated. I also don't know if he's into me, he's a major flirt with everyone but seems to mainly flirt with only me when I'm around, I have him on my snapchat but don't know if I should start talking to him. My other friends say he flirts with every single girl but it just seems a little different between us. Now that's half of it, there's also my ex-boyfriend that is like my best friend, my rock,and my saving grace,and I guess that's cool, but when we broke up it was because he didn't have enough time for me and didn't want to put me through that. I'd be fine if he found a girl that was better for him but I think he thinks the girl that would be good for him are out of his league.

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Im 20 years old and have never had an official boyfriend. In high school i was always shy plus guys just never pursued me. My freshman and sophomore year no one approached me either plus any time a guy would try to get to know my i would just shut down and get panick. Then my good friend told me about tinder and how she was talking to all these guys. I was curious and so i made one. Its like crack every time i match with someone im attracted to because my biggest fear has always been rejection. Ive always been told im beautiful but the flirty guys on tinder just made me feel so sexy! Once i got more comfortable I started meeting up with the guys. Ive hooked up with 5 guys since having a tinder in may. Ive been physical with only those 5 guys. they all were hookups and only one wanted to become more but i wasnt into him. I want more with a person who i actually want but they dont want me that way...I was kindof seeing them all at once but recently i ended it with 4 of them. Then a couple of weeks ago i had sex with one of the guys who id been talking to since september. He was the biggest douche ever and he even knew how i felt about waiting until i was in a committed relationship. I was also a virgin. He just made me feel like i was being stupid for not doing it with him so i just did it. Ive been ready to have sex so i dont regret it i just wish he respected me more. I ended it 2 days after and now hes an even bigger douche and hes rude to be. Now he just completly ignores my texts. I dont want this to happen to me again. A guy ive had a crush on for 2 years has been texting me booty calls and Its been really hard to say no especially because im no longer a virgin. I dont want to rack up my numbers though and it just sucks the one guy ive had sex with i cant be with anymore... I have no idea how to be in a healthy relationship and keep a man. Plus i work 3-11pm 5 days a week so dating and meeting people are really hard.

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My bf and I are still both in High School and my bf broke up with me after 4 months of being together. I thought we were doing well because he kept saying he was happy with our relationship and he kept mentioning seeing us together in the future. He said he wanted to break up because we are of different faiths and he can't be with somebody who doesn't believe in his faith and that he wants me to find somebody that will make me happy. I agreed to the break-up but he asked to reconcile after a week promising he will accept me for who and I am including my faith and I took him back. He was very attentive for the first 2 weeks, but in the past week he has been texting less and is always in a hurry to leave. He still tries to see me as much as he can at least twice a week, took me out to breakfast and texts me to say have a good day and goodnight and calling me every night to say goodnight but we don't seem to talk as much. His excuse is that he had been helping his family prepare for the holidays and his parents had been sending him on lots of errands. He saw me yesterday morning and spent 3 hours with me but he said he needed to leave because he needs to help his parents again. He called me to say goodnight, talked about how he helped his parents all day but said goodnight after talking for 15 minutes because he said he's tired and he wants to go to sleep. He usually sleeps late so I was surprised when he wanted to stop talking at 9:30 in the morning. He still tells me he loves me and that he doesn't need anything else. He denies being interested in anybody or texting/talking to anybody. He is affectionate when he is with me but he did complain to me that he feels he is being ignored beause I don't show him affection. I had to admit that I since the break-up and even after we got back I have not allowed us to make-out or do anything intimate except to kiss. We have not had sex and I told him I have no plans to have sex with any boy until I get married and he agreed to that. Last night after he said goodnight too quickly, I sent him a goodnight text saying I hope he gets a good rest and that I'm sorry we don't talk a lot anymore and wish him a good day next day. He didn't respond back and he hasn't responded up to now.

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So what do I do ...

By lexa | Dec 17 2014

That one maybe be a douche well his ex-girlfriend confronted me today saying how he was her first time and he screwed her over. After high school they plan on getting back together bc none of his relationships work out. So i listened qnd i believe half of the story. After she told me that four people came up amd said they over heard her talking and she is just crazy. So of course i told the guy his crazy ex girlfriend talked to me and he told me this has happened before and so I was like okay maybe she is crazy, but I feel at the same time he is just a huge player.

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So here it goes.

Me and him have known eachother since high school I'm 22 now and he is 24 I was totally in love with him back then and found out later he had feelings for me. After that year of high school I moved and we have just liked each others posts instagram random posts. I messeged him about 5 days ago and told him my feelings from high school just that I liked him... now we are talking every day and he wants to see me soon like next month. I'm scared I'll get hurt but I like him alot. He and I have sexted a bit but he has told me he liked me before all of that.

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