By lashida | Oct 23 2014
This guy and I had a class together this past spring semester. We got to know each other after the semester ended, and I had a pretty big crush on him. We hung out a few times, (smoked, drank, chilled out) and one day in July I decided to tell him how I felt...over text. It turned out that he said that it would be better if we stayed friends, so I agreed. Then when I asked the next morning to hang out he never replied. This was in July, and it's now October. Since then I've gotten back together with my boyfriend who I was with before I started hanging out with this guy. We've been happy, and now all of a sudden, at midnight he texts me asking to hang out and that he's pretty high right now. I said I have to work early in the morning which I do, and that's it for now. I want to know what that means...
By byeforever | Jul 20 2014
There was a guy I met during a program before school started. It was a month long, and he was definitely way more into me at first than I was into him, but then eventually I started to really like him. We started hooking up but we never slept together because I didnt want to sleep with someone while I was outside of a relationship. We hung out all the time and he was great with me, and it was obvious that he did care about me a lot and we were great together. There was a 6 week long break between the program and school and before we left I asked if he wanted to be exclusive. He told me that he did, but that he didnt want to force me to. I said we should wait and see until school started. after the program ended I went to a concert and hooked up with a random guy there. I told the guy I liked immediately because I felt terrible, but I was on a lot of drugs and it was just a dumb thing to do. He pretended like he was fine with it, but then every time he would get drunk he would text or call me and be really emotional and cry and ask why I hooked up with someone else. I explained that I literally just kissed a guy at a concert and that I was on a lot of Molly and it had nothing to do with how much I liked him. Things seemed fine for a while, but he would always get drunk and tell me how much he hated me because of how much he liked me. He said he felt like every girl was evil, as he had just gotten out of a 3-year relationship with a girl he hated. He was fine when he was sober, but would just be miserable when he was drunk and I never knew what to say and it hurt me to hear him say that I made him so miserable. Towards the end of the 6 weeks we stopped talking as often and I started to think he was over it. Then when school started we started hooking up again, but we weren't spending as much time together as I wanted. He always told me that he thought I was too good for him, especially when he was drunk, and he never believed how much I liked him. Then I asked him if he wanted to be exclusive and he said no because he felt like I was gonna hurt him. I told him we should just be friends because I wasn't going to just be hooking up with someone if he felt he could get with other people too. I tried to be friends with him but he made it difficult because he was always scared to be around me and he told me its because he felt like shit for what happened. I never hooked up with him again, and then a few months later he started dating a girl who he told everyone he didnt like. His friends say he's dating her because shes obsessed with him and he feels comfortable, but I dont think that makes sense. This whole year has been crazy because I was a huge bitch to him because I was so mad to him when I was drunk at the beginning of the year, but he still talked to me all the time and told me that he deserved how mean I was to him. His girlfriend hates me and got really drunk and told my friend that she thinks he still likes me, and his friends say he does too but that he just doesnt know what to do. He still talks to me whenever I talk to him and will honestly do anything for me. From leaving his bed to come to a party at 2 am to help my drunk friend to coming to get a slurpee with me at 3 am with me because I wanted him to while his girlfriend was in his room waiting. I want to think that he still cares about me and that we can be together at some point, but I just cant believe that a person can like someone different from who theyre in a relationship with. Its obvious to everyone that he doesnt like her as hes not as caring or cute with her as he was with me, but I still just cant believe it.
By meganhey | Apr 21 2014
There is this guy that i really like, and I think he might like me too. The only issue is that I think he smokes weed and i dont exacty agree with that. He's one of the nicest guys i know and he is very kind hearted.
By manveen | Nov 13 2012
Sorry I was not in my senses. Couldn't meet you properly yesterday. I was high on stupid things. But I was really happy to see you.Gud night