I've recently joined Tinder, and I met a guy I really think I like. He's quite a bit older, which I like, and we've been texting quite a lot. My question is - if he's interested in me from the beginning would he make it obvious straight away, or would he spend time "sussing" me out? He has no problem flirting with me, or asking for pictures, but I hate that our conversation still feels superficial. He doesn't give any personal information, and he doesn't ask, and when I ask he gives me one word answers. Am I reading too much into this or is he 'just not that into me'?

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Not a text, but rather a question I've been asking myself for a while and haven't figured out how to answer yet...

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Is he interested in me Is he trying to friend zone me or like...

By rainbowpooflings | Oct 04 2014

So I recently had a crush on this guy, hes quiet and is reserved and so am I. I finally got the courage to ask for his number and he gave it to me about a week ago. we talk sometimes after school, and he waits for me to walk down the stairs and takes the longer way to, im guessing, talk to me more. He would engage in the convo and everything, and we make plans to hang out. From our recent convo, he asked me who i liked and would take no for an answer, so i finally told him that it was him. He told me that he liked a girl in our spanish class and he loves outgoing girls. All of a sudden, he seems like hes uninterested and it upsets me. There was some signs that he could have liked me. My friend said that there were possibilities, such as he used her to make it seem like hes uninterested. He might like me but would want to get to know me better and everything. Now im doubting if he is somewhat interested in me. After i told him that i liked him, he kept asking if i liked anyone else, then cleared himself saying he wanted to know what kind of guys did i think were cute. I told him two guys from my art class, and i didnt mention him to creep him out.

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known him for 2 years and have a huge crush nowadays.

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I was hanging out with this guy whenever we caught each other at work and we have so many similarities, I'd always make him laugh and he said I was cute and really smart. It sounds silly too but little things like how his voice gave it away that he was really curious about other guys interested in me or like me maybe transferring away for work he'd be like oh you should just stay. i really felt like when we were together at work and lunch breaks etc he'd be fully invested in talking and not just like oh yeah as friends but like we'd talk about futures and ambitions and serious topics too. We would talk for hours if we could.

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Okay I met this guy about three weeks ago. We went out after we met and made out or whatever. Then we hung out the next week and made out and stuff. And he will text me sporadically, but it leads nowhere. He'll say something witty, then I say something witty back and that's it. No asking me to hang out. No nothin'. Sometimes I'll say like....how was your weekend...and he will respond, but never inquire as to how my weekend was. WHY TEXT IF YOU DONT WANT TO TALK?! I don't understand.

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I find it really difficult to understand the texting concept. We are not in a relationship but yet the way we texted is more than friends. we text almost everyday and then all of a sudden he will disappear for a few days, after re-appear again. Then texting as usual and then disappear again after a few days.

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Update since my last question: So I couldn't take the anxiety anymore and I texted him. He's responded and even added a smiley face. He told me when we were on our date that he was more on the shy and reserved side. I'm a sophomore and he's a senior. He lives about 45 minutes away and came down to see me last Saturday and we had a great time. If the last part is important...

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This guy and I have been on one date, hooked up a few times, and he's made me several meals but lately he's been super flakey. He'll text me saying 'when can we get together', we agree on a day but when that day comes he doesnt call/text/whatev. Ive never been flaked on like this by a guy and I have no idea if it means he's really just not that into me or he's just oblivious to plans?

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This guy and I met online; he jus turned 22 and I'm 18.he and I talk about a broad range of topics ranging from philosophy and borderline sexting. Except, I got somewhat upset last time it happened. In this message, I think he was making a sexual jab, hence the ";)" however I pretended not to understand for the sake of the conversation to not turn into a series of sexual passes.
Without the premise of sexting or such, he seems to be very interested in getting to know me and eager to go on dates with me, and even went so far as make a "movie list" for everything we need to watch together.
He hasn't replied to me since that last text last night- and I'm used to "Morning!" And "good night," texts everyday- and he's snapchatted me a few times today and even viewed my snap story, but no text.
This is abnormal, for him. He says that when he's interested in a girl he would constantly keep in touch with her, like through text and such. He's a mature, intelligent guy, and he doesn't seem the type to toy with me, and has persistently asked me on dates.

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By lailai | Feb 10 2014

This guy and I met online. I wasn't really expecting anything out of it, but to me, it seemed as if we developed moderate interest in each other. However, he's significantly older; he just turned 22 and I'm 18. He seems much different than guys his age, we both grew up in strict foreign families so it's a totally different environment and. Upbringing we both understand,

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Hello! Your help is much appreciated, Merry Christmas! :)
Previous post about this same guy http://hetexted.com/users/25578/my_questions...I unfriended him on Facebook a couple months ago ( I didn't need to see any more pictures of him with other "just friends") and he didn't say anything about it. I let my curiosity get the better of me and texted him and we've been exchanging messages the past few days. The messages right before what I was able to fit in the attached picture were these
Him: Post pictures to Facebook! Oh wait...
Me: Tough cookies, thought you didn't care anyway

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He and I are in the same group of friends and have a flirtatious relationship. He lost a bet to me, so I texted him reminding him and telling him that he could pay me with a beer. His answer was that in relation with the bet, it should be more than one beer, and then he said that, anyway, the important thing was that his team won that day.

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I've been on a couple of solid dates with this guy I met through mutual friends. Absolute gentleman (he's only kissed me on the cheek so far). He's also a bit of a workaholic, but kept dropping hints about future plans.

He was out of the country for work for a couple of weeks, and before he left, he texted to say he wished he could have seen me before the trip but was crazy busy with work.

He just texted to wish me a happy birthday and ask if I was around (which I guess means he's back from his trip). I reply about an hour later to confirm my availability, and now, 24 hours later, nothing. zip. zero.

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