Met a guy on Grindr (not usually my thing) and we had a really fascinating conversation. He suggested we exchange numbers and said he'd blow me up the next day, which he did. We went out for drinks, then ended up going to dinner and having a great time. When I headed home sent me a text asking if I made it home alright, and if I'd be interested in seeing him again the next day. We met again for dinner and drinks and then went to his house. We slept in the same bed, but he said he wanted to hold off on having sex (which was totally cool with me.) He asked me to text him later that evening, but he wasn't particularly chatty for the next day. We made tenative plans for this weekend, but considering he's usually so talkative I can't help but wonder if the communications slow down is a bad sign.

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Should I be stressed over a younger guy I met on Grindr who I shared a platonic night with after a week of hundreds of texts and several phone calls that no longer texts?

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By lagunabchgirl007_2 | Feb 16 2015

I have 2 questions:
1. How do I end it with this guy?
2. Do I tell his best friend^ that I like him?

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There's this guy I kind of like however I had a slight suspicion he may be gay, and I would like some opinions on his actions. I met him by a mutual friend but we have only spoken around two times. The reasons I think he could be gay are:

1) he and our mutual friend (who is a gay guy) have text convos quite often which I think are quite deep convos sometimes, also my friend tells this guy some stuff he hasn't even told me
2) he sent the mutual friend a photo of himself in the bath in which you can see his bare chest
3) I asked him over the phone if he was straight or gay and he asked if it was (mutual friend) who wanted to know, like as if he wondered if he liked him
4) he has rather a few female friends, one of which he is quite close to, and I'm not sure if straight men & women can actually be just friends? So is it not likely that if he was straight something would have happened between them?

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There's this guy that I'm really good friends with, we hang out all the time. I kind of like him a bit but I have a suspicion that he's gay. Basically all his friends are girls, he only has one male friend, he's a bit diva-ish, he's really interested in clothes and his hair. His favourite characters in tv shows are always males. I know this sounds just like stereotypical characteristics of gay people, but the other day even his mum asked me if I thought he was gay, because he never shows any interest in girls. I would really like to find out if he is, because if he is I can just move on from wondering if there could ever be anything between us.

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By ayar | Feb 19 2014

Ex-boyfriend added me on fb after I wished him happy new year. Two weeks later he began to start conversations (job, hobbies) - but sometimes he took days to answer back.

So I texted him "I decided to contact you because I missed our conversations. So without any misunderstanding let's just be friends".

Him : I didn't expect to hear from you, since the way you break up. You are very smart and interesting, so I like to talk to you too. There's no misunderstanding since I noticed that you're in a relationship ! "

Me : "I lost my relationship status at poker, he's gay".

He didn't answer back. I don't know if he has a girlfriend...

P.S : he started conversations before this relationship status, and he knows that I like poker, but instead of playing money it's about jokes.

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So i recently went through a breakup and they guy was one of my good friends. Now i told him that i needed a solid break. We havent hung out or texted (mostly because when he tried i ignored) outside of work. yup we work together too. I have been noticing that since i havent really been talking to him he is coming to my friend at work and asking about me. Am i ok? who's that guy he saw me with? but then went into that he really likes me but he doesnt want a relationship. Which is the reason i broke it off. He needs time. He has also been very attentive to me at work trying to get more information from me in a cute way. It's been a good month and a half since i completely cut it off.

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By honeycakes | Jan 19 2014

Alright so there's this guy i recently met in class. He sat down a couple seats away from me and moved to the seat beside mine, "Is this seat taken?" He's clean, well dressed and very sweet. we were writing notes to each other for the entire lecture. He wrote "you are kind of adorable" and crossed out the kind of. We exchanged numbers and he calls me cutie and girl.... We are meeting for coffee tomorrow (his choice) for no conceivable reason other than to get to know each other. I'm gonna look for the signs tomorrow.. But so I don't mess anything up between us ALREADY, I wanted to know your opinion. My concern is he is gay. I have no problem with being his friend, but I'm also attracted to him. And, of course, I have no issue with him being bi... since I am too!

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Boy I met on Kik. He was on some gay shout out profile.

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So I am gay, and I have been blatantly been flirting with a guy (who I think is straight, but now I think maybe bi) over two group messages. We run cross country together and he already knows I am gay, and multiple times in group messages I showered him with sexual innuendos and like 2 times I told him we should have sex. So he brushed them all off and laughed and slightly played along with heart faces, and he wasn't weirded out at all, and basically paid no attention to these sexually aggressive texts. Also on new years I asked him to be my new years kiss and he said, "U weren't here man! U missed ur chance!" Eventually I decided to straight up tell him I had a crush on him instead of playing games. I basically texted him saying I had a crush on him and I couldn't help it, and I knew I had no chance since he was straight, and I just didn't want things to be weird between us. He replied: "Don't worry, its fine. I figured u did like 3 days ago. Im flattered man, but I do have one rule! No snapchat! I only snapchat girls. Don't worry it won't be awkward or anything."

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Well, we met yesterday at a party for the game. We had a lot of fun and there weren't that many people there, after the game we decided to go out to the gay club, and he would dance with me a lot, but also with other guys randomly. He's pretty popular I think. We exchanged numbers and texted this morning about getting lunch but he had to reschedule. He said he had a lot of fun last night and we should get that group together again and go out. Also, his roommate thinks I'm cute and danced with me too, but I'm not into him. Also, at the club, a guy asked for his number and they exchanged.

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Is something else that made me laugh as I thought about it more and more man handling you its not that easy you so big...lol If you notice as I grab you around your neck yesterday I had reached up. I'm not a tall dude so I dont know if Rodney tall or not/I know.timidity has no place when FUCKIN.

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I texted him to tell him that I was having frozen yogurt with my mom and he texted me:

Yogurt = gay

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By amcoll | Mar 21 2013

Hey You,want to try anal tonight?:)*

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