By rainbowpooflings | Oct 04 2014
So I recently had a crush on this guy, hes quiet and is reserved and so am I. I finally got the courage to ask for his number and he gave it to me about a week ago. we talk sometimes after school, and he waits for me to walk down the stairs and takes the longer way to, im guessing, talk to me more. He would engage in the convo and everything, and we make plans to hang out. From our recent convo, he asked me who i liked and would take no for an answer, so i finally told him that it was him. He told me that he liked a girl in our spanish class and he loves outgoing girls. All of a sudden, he seems like hes uninterested and it upsets me. There was some signs that he could have liked me. My friend said that there were possibilities, such as he used her to make it seem like hes uninterested. He might like me but would want to get to know me better and everything. Now im doubting if he is somewhat interested in me. After i told him that i liked him, he kept asking if i liked anyone else, then cleared himself saying he wanted to know what kind of guys did i think were cute. I told him two guys from my art class, and i didnt mention him to creep him out.
By girlygirl | Sep 18 2014
So there is this guy, he is 3 years older than me and I have been friends with him for 2 years or so now. Just recently he invited me to his birthday party, and there were only guys there and then afterwards he asked me for my number. We have chatted every day all day, and we have a lot of laughs together. Sadly he lives a few hours away from me, but he asked me to go to a concert with him. He also, since we are family friends we all went camping. He was really sweet to me, and cuddled me when I was cold, gave me his towel, and complimented me, he would also find any way to talk with me. Also, before bed he asked my brother since they are friends if I liked him. Now yes all of these hints, may seem like he likes me, but a few days this week he has been a little distant off and on. Maybe and I am probably just paranoid over something very silly. He one minute will be all flirty and then the next call me sis, and all of those things. I am just very confused, and I would love some tips on how to tell if he likes you, signs a guy liked you through all of his mixed messages and all of that! Just please help! I am seeing him in 2 weeks and we are going hiking down where he lives.
By itsmelydia | Jun 09 2014
This is going to seem long-winded but I need advice!
I met this guy through a friend about two months ago. We got on really well and spent most of the night together and ended up sharing a bed (not doing anything naughty mind!). The next day again we were joking and laughing together. I didn’t get his number but I added him on facebook and we were talking every weekend (because I work in the week and I’m too tired) flirting a little and just chatting.
We met again this weekend for a festival where we spent the majority of the day together, wondering off to get drinks but often getting distracted. He offered to buy me all my drinks and any food I wanted; and forced me to share his food when I politely declined a full meal.
Now this is the difficult bit. My friend who introduced me had told him on the phone a day prior to the festival not to be flirty with me because he’d mentioned to her that he wasn’t looking for a relationship at the moment. It seems she has made out that I fall in love really quickly and am a vulnerable person (cringe). He’d said to her that he would love to kiss me again but didn’t want me to get hurt if it didn’t end up in a full on relationship. Fair enough; decent guy.
But as the afternoon went on he was more and more flirty; in a really cute way, not sexual as much. Someone even asked him if he was looking for his Mrs. (I had wondered from him and he was looking for me) and he said yes…!? He also went on to invite me to Winter Wonderland with him later on this year, asked me what kind of height I look for in men, and made a joke about the film Pompeii in which a girl falls in love with a guy after he kills a horse, and he said ‘would that make you fall in love? If a guy killed a horse for you?’ and I laughed and said ‘Oh yeah of course’ to which he replied ‘Ahh, all I need to do is find a horse then huh?’