I met this guy through work (we dont work together though) and recently over the past month we've been getting to know eachother.

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why isn't he texting me anymore? There was no dispute or anything. everything was okay i thought..

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He knocked out on me one night, and he never replied back. I've been conflicted whether to text him first this time because he usually texts me. Bare in mind, we're both shy and we barely started talking.

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I got insecure when he started pulling away and became needy and clingy. He is giving me the silent treatment. I dont blame him and I'm using the time for myself. But I really like him and I just want to know if there is a possibility I can even get him to talk to me again.

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Was he just being nice?

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Is there a chance of a date?

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Does he like me? A guy friend and I recently started emailing , (a common thing at my school since a lot of kids don't have phones by choice). He is a Gemini, I am a Sagittarius. It is a perfect match. I like him so incredibly much and he sent me a valentine (we celebrated yesterday). On the inside it had a personal reference, but it was anonymous. So, I asked him if he was the one who sent it and he never directly answered when I was in person, but blushed and laughed a lot while smiling (it was so adorable!!!). When I got home, I asked him over email and he said "yes. ;)" but put the wink in bold.. I'd never seen anyone do that before and found it rather curious. Did he make it bold to stand out? I found that puzzling and tried to not read into it too much (even though it kept me up that night). Today, he complimented my creativity and intelligence, which I was completely flattered by. We've shared the same group of friends for around three years, which is about the amount of time we've known each other. Before this month, he and I never really talked outside of classes, and I didn't have any sparks of emotion for him (minus his hair, oh my goodness he looks like a Indian god.) So, what do you guys think? Does he like me? (feel free to ask questions.)

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Why do I feel like thia

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Ok we started off as friends with benefits, we've been spending svery weekend together for the past 3 months and we had a talk and established we don't want to see other people.. So we are semi exclusive but because he has been hurt in relationships before he holds back a lot and that hurts. every now and then he will withdraw but then he will be so sweet he tells me I am beautiful all the time. He is going on a 6 month holiday to london that's why he is kind of withdrawn but that's a while away. What do you do if a guy you really like holds back? Give him space? Maybe seeing him every 2nd - 3rd day doesn't give him time to miss me and that's maybe what I should do? Any advice?
He's started making future plans with me to and wants to go travelling with another couple.
But he also untagged a photo of us two together on facebook.

I admit he makes me crazy hence this crazy message lol

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Is he interested or happy about the compliment?

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So I met this guy on a dating site who seemed to be quite over the top, romantic and a bit off. I am not the best with my choices so this is why I was attracted to him in the first place. When I say off I mean artistic, a poet, just a little bit over the top. I could tell he is the insecure, jealous, clingy guy. I am into all that kind of stuff. Fast forward, he was all over me from texts for 2-3 weeks and then finally we met. There was a lot of kissing talk from texts and he made it very clear he was looking for a relationship and he really liked me and I was beautiful and what on earth was I doing on a dating site. Real asnwer?-Fear of rejection! Anyway, up until we met I felt that he had dived right in, I enjoyed every moment of talking and flirting and I was curious to see if it would materialise. He seemed to really get me. Upon meeting I was utterly shocked to see how different he looked in real life and how timid and shy he was. The way he walked and carried himself he seemed so withdrawn. I was shocked at the fact that he did not smile when he saw me. Not a smirk not a half smile, nothing. From my experience I do feel that he might be depressed. Anyway, I was dissapointed and I am aware I came off as overpowering and quite cocky at times. I did not flirt at all or give him a compliment, quite the opposite. I felt that he was so shy I could not even understand what we were doing there and how he could have even been talking about kissing and all that from text. I could talk to him for hours and he did seem to have essence, I could imagine falling for him but usually guys are quite all over me so this came as a bit of a shock that he was so reserved so I assumed he was not interested. Because I am very insecure myself, I thought since he doesnt like me I should show disinterest aswell. Level of immaturity?100! Anyway. After the date he asked if I enjoyed myself to which I replied that I did but that he seemed bored. Within myself I know he was not bored but that h was extremely awkward and withdrawn. He reassured me he was not bored and that I was beautiful, chatty, lovely, charming and intelligent and do not need a dating site. When I thanked him for his words he told me that he knows he is unattractive and not interesting enough so he knows he will need to keep looking. I was baffled!!! You go on a date with a girl and on the same night tell her this?! He asked me again if I enjoyed it and I told him that I kind of did but I also did not because he seemed bored, and he was not really laughing with my jokes and then he said that he had enjoyed it and literally dissapeared. For 5 days he didnt initiate any contact, and he always texted every morning prior to our meeting. So I thought I should initiate contact and I told him that I had missed talking to him. He only said he is so sorry he has been quiet but he has the flu and he will be well soon. What nonsense?!

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I met this guy on tinder..we barely messages on tinder and he asked for my number after the second day of meeting him. I gave him my number and we started texting. He is literally perfect in my eyes. I know he would be a very loving boyfriend if we got to that point. But I told him I was shy and he said he is the same way but he wants to hang out.

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Does he like me or not What do you think...

By imapeopleperson | Dec 24 2014

So there's this guy I like, let's call him Brian. So Brian's a really, really nice guy. He compliments every single girl he meets in some way and is just evasively nice haha. I just got his number because I told him I needed a favor and he did...but ever since there I've been the one texting him first..i don't know if this is important but whenever reply to him he takes the same amount of time to text me back that I did to him. Anyways I do see him staring but sometimes it looks like he's mad at me cause it's like super intense and that's kinda creepy haha. Our friends were playing a game where you had to guess the perpetrator and he kept on saying it was me idk if that's important...but I just don't know how to figure it out he's confusing.

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By bb_3 | Dec 17 2014

I cant tell if he has a thing for me or not. He's hot and cold towards me. He jokes around with me a lot. Sometimes he can be a real gentlemen showing he cares for me. And he would want to hug me and he compliments me. Then there are times, he just so comfortable around me, that he burps right in front of my face out of no where. I would respond back like eww youre disgusting. He would even try to say things that would try to get me mad. I know he's joking, but sometimes it does get to me.

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I have a bit of a problem with anxiety and obsessively thinking/analyzing situations. I have posted on here a few times about a guy I had met online and thus far, after a month of talking, and 2 wonderful dates, the general consensus has been that he is into me. He is a great guy in the sense that he is a gentleman, drives over an hour to see me, plans fun dates, texts me just about every day, initiates phone calls, etc.
The new issue that I am obsessing about is this: We had a date on Saturday. On said date he asked to take my picture 2 times: once in front of a Christmas tree lighting we saw and once at dinner. I instead said "Jump in the picture and be in it with me!" He did so. We had a GREAT date. Lots of laughs, good conversation, he complimented me a lot, etc.
At dinner we were discussing a trip he just went on and he pulled out his phone to show me pictures from it. As he was scrolling down, I saw ANOTHER picture of ANOTHER girl --one that he was obviously at dinner with and that he asked to take a picture of, much as he did me. Now, I have NO idea when that picture was, but I am guessing it was before he went on this trip and that was over a month ago. (We had our first date 2 weeks ago). I guess I am just feeling a little insecure about it, jealous maybe.
He texted me about an hour after our date ended, fowarded me our pictures that we took together, was sweet in conversation, and today I haven't heard from him at all. (We sometimes don't text until around 5-9 pm).
Something else to take into consideration is this: I had told him I had deactivated my POF account because of a certain situation. Just last week he called me and I made a joke about the POF site and he said "I deleted my profile about a week ago. I got tired of getting dings on my phone notifying me of an email". He had a PAID page on there... do you think maybe he deleted his account because he met ME or because he got tired of the "dings". He could have very easily turned the alerts off. He also mentioned last week when I said "I know you are super busy with blah blah blah so if you want to meet up XYZ date...." and he replied "I'm not talking to anyone else and I'm not dating anyone else". (I didn't ask if he was-he VOLUNTARILY told me).

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So I've known this guy for about 3 years and we've just recently started getting really close(up until 7 months ago he was dating someone). We aren't dating because he says that he's emotionally not ready for a relationship and I understand that(his last relationship was a train wreck) but we act like a couple. So much so that a lot of people assume we are dating. We talk almost all day through text, we hang out whenever we can, we've fooled around...a lot(if you know what I mean), I've met his friends, and he's met mine. A couple of his friends have said that we should date and all of my friends say that they are waiting for it to happen. We've both told each other that we have feelings for each other and he even once said that he wished he had dated me instead of his ex girlfriend because I don't cause drama like she did. He compliments me sometimes and I do the same for him. We flirt constantly but it just seems like nothing is going anywhere. I don't want to rush him and I don't even know if I'm ready for a relationship myself.

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