is it normal for a guy to go two weeks no texting after first date?

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Urgent: Am I overreacting...

By eentropy16 | Mar 21 2015

There's this guy I've been talking to for about a week. We talk everyday, but not every second. We called each other two days ago, and we really hit it off. Our first meeting was scheduled for tomorrow, but a storm might mess up our plans. Today is the day before our date, and he hasn't texted me! He usually initiates the conversation, but I always feel as if I'm bothering if I text first. Should I text first? Or wait until tomorrow? Or am I over-thinking this? Lol

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A guy put his number in my phone and said I should text him and hang out, its been 6 days, what should i say?

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What does it mean if he sent me a chat first? He said "Sup. whos winning the super bowl?"

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He studies in my school and is 1 year elder to me. It's been more than an year since we started talking... We talk daily and when he sees me in the corridors.. he smiles.. and my friends tell me that he blushes like hell when he sees me or hears my name.. I want him to make the first move but I'm not sure if he's into me.. I love him alot.. and am afraid that if I make the first move and confess my feelings, I might lose him as a frnd also..

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Should I text him first...

By anon4444 | Jan 04 2015

We were drunk, but we really hit it off. We kissed only, and exchanged numbers. He hasn't texted me. Is there a reason he hasn't? I don't want to misinterpret the situation and go after him. I have classes with him so I have to be careful.

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I'm 23 and I dated this guy, Josh, on and off for 3 years. He would invite me to hang out with him and his best friend all the time. His best friend and I turned out to have a bunch of very close mutual friends and actually went to the same preschool back in the day and have baby pictures together. His best friend and I really hit it off and when josh and I would go on a break, we would hang out just as friends and I would go to him for advice. Once he was hanging out with Josh when we were on a break and asked Josh if it was okay if he invited me (awkward, i know). Then another time, I hung out with his best friend and my friends came along. We all went for drinks and had an amazing time. My friends pulled me to the side and said, "he likes you". I didn't believe them or even care if they were right because I was still in love with Josh. Over the summer, Josh met another girl and asked her to move in and that's when I realized we were officially over. Josh's best friend would like my stuff on social media every now and then, but I was too broken all of summer to spend time trying to keep in touch with people. Then I was at a Jason Aldean concert in October and his best friend was at the same concert, so we met up. He was never my type so we would just hang out as friends. Then 2 weeks ago, I texted him and said that I'm meeting up with some friends at a hockey game and wanted to know if he wanted to join us. He said he actually had tickets to go with his brother and friends, but he'd come sit with me. He then said he was driving separately from his brother and asked if I wanted him to pick me up, so I said yes. He picked me up and we talked about how Josh and I were officially over and just caught up. When we got to the game, he asked me if I wanted him to get me a beer or anything and he asked me more than once throughout the game. He even took a picture of us and posted it on his snapchat and mentioned how Josh might see it so he maybe shouldn't post it, but he did anyway. Then my friends left and he and I went to go meet up with his friend and his friend's girlfriend and sit with them. After the game, the 4 of us went to a bar. He and I sat on the same side of the booth and waited for his friends to get there. We had such a fun time and when the bill came, he paid for me. Then when we walked out, he put his hand on my back and said he had a great time and how glad he is that I got along with his friend's girlfriend and how the 4 of us need to hang out again. He held all the doors open and was the perfect gentleman. On the way to the game, he invited me to go to a country concert at the end of Jan. with him and his friends. He also texted me after he dropped me off saying he had a good time and mentioned something about the game. He's really outgoing, but not when it comes to girls. He's never even had a serious relationship and I honestly doubt he's ever had sex, so I always have to be the first one to ask him to hang out. I asked him if he wanted to go out for drinks one night, but he was out with his brother and friends. He texted me asking if it was okay if we went out another time and that margaritas are on him. I said of course and he did one of those smile emojis and we just went back and forth with the smiley faces. So then 2 days later, he texted me and invited me over for New Year's Eve. I was going to a hockey game, but I said I'd stop by with my 2 friends after. When I pulled my car into the driveway, he came out and walked up to the driver's side and opened up my door for me and closed it. He then introduced me to his parents and his mom said, "he told me you like the panthers" and then introduced me to all his friends. Even though all his friends were there, he sat by me the entire time to talk. While we were playing beer pong against each other, this pretty girl in this really tiny outfit walked in. He looked at her and started giggling with his friends. However, his eyes then went back on me and didn't leave my side unless he was talking to his guy friends. He went inside and a few minutes later, I got a text from him while I was there saying, "you left :/ " . He couldn't find me and assume I left but then found me outside. An hour later, I left to go home and watch the ball drop with my family. However, I went back two hours later, but this time without my friends. When I got there, he was going to walk down the block with his friend to his friend's car to get moonshine, so I went with them. It was muddy up ahead, so he picked me up and carried me to the car so i wouldn't ruin my heels and then carried me again going back. When we got back to his house, his friend told us not to come inside with him and to wait outside...which I found strange being that it wasn't even his friend's house. I felt like it was just weird guy code thing to get us alone since his friend kept on teasing us the whole walk back. Then for some strange reason, the guy I like said we should go on an adventure and walk through the grass and the dark around the side of his house to get to his backyard instead of just walking through the front door. So when we were alone back there, he kept on putting his arms around me and holding me. We then got to his backyard where his friends were and kept his arm around me in front of his dad and his friends. His friend then asked him to be teammates at beerpong but then he asked me if I wanted to play and then got mad at his friend and said how he wanted to play with me instead. After, we went inside and sat on the couch next to each other and it was literally like no one else was at the party because we were just talking and talking and he didn't leave my side and then asked me if I wanted any water and didn't ask anyone else sitting down. before I knew it, it was 3:30 in the morning, so I told him I was going home. He then walked me outside. We stayed in front of his house talkingn and he hugged me and then he said he'd walk me to my car door even though my car was literally right in front of us in his driveway. So we walked me to my car door, opened it up for me, and then stayed talking to me and we ended up talking for 20 minutes. He also said how he didn't like the way his friend who I dated treated me and also again mentioned how he'll take me out for margaritas on him. We then kept on teasing me because of how close I was to the steering wheel because I'm short. keep in mind, while we were outside talking that whole time, all his party guests were inside his house without him. I then left and he gave me another hug and told me to please text him to let him know I got home safely. I texted him when I got home and he thanked me for coming and how he's glad I came. The way he treats me just made me like him as more than just a friend. And when I graduated college, he texted me during the ceremony to congratulate me. Also, he takes a big interest in my job and also says how cool it is, unlike the guy I dated before who didn't take any interest in what I do or love.

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So I've met this guy on Tinder. I just liked his profile as it seemed he likes travelling as much as I do. We texted for a bit and decided to meet each other. On our first date we went to a pub where we had a nice conversation. After that he brought me to my bus stop and waited until my bus came. We didn't kiss each other which I found really good as it seemed like he's not one of these jerks. Then I haven't seen him for 2 weeks as I was on holiday, but we texted every day!!! I'm always so glad to hear from him!
On our second date we went to the same pub again..but he was late..when I remeber right he didn't even apologise..on our third date we were supposed to meet at 1.30 but didn't say where we'd meet. So I texted him the day before, but didn't get an answer until 3pm the next day...he overslept...I was kind of pissed as I haven't planned anything else, but he asked if we could meet at 4 and in the end I said yes. I arrived and had to wait 40!! minutes. Is that possible? He seems to be interested, but then I had to wait this long and when I remember right there wasn't an apology either.. but as soon as I see him I forget about everything...I also kissed him the first time on our third date and we had a long chat about the fact that girls should make the first move.
We are still texting every day, but I can see that he's been online on Whatsapp, but hasn't replied. It can't be that he's been busy with work because he's also been online on Facebook and Tinder (I don't use Tinder anymore, deleted it, but downloaded it again to see, if he's still online). I am really worried that he is still looking for other girls..
The last time I've seen him, I asked him if he's seeing other girls and he said "no", but as I've told you he is still on Tinder..

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We went out yesterday night,we had a dinner and a drink afterwards.
when he left my at home he gave me a little kiss.
this morning he texted me to say "thank you for the dinner,i loved go out and the most ,the company"

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I was set up with a guy through mutual friends. He is probably the nicest person I have ever dated in my life. I just am not feeling that *spark*, but he is definitely feeling it with me. I don't want to lead him on by continuing to see him, even though I do enjoy spending with him.

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We have been texting and he always texts me first and frequently too but not everyday. The problem is he has nothing to say! He will send one word responses and sometimes I don't reply to those until the next day with a "Good morning" and if I don't reply he will be the one to text me the next day or afternoon.

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I am very confused I don't know what to think basically just made...

By brianaisabelhigareda | Nov 17 2014

Okay so I've been talking to this guy since March of this year. I met him through the family, we started going on dates in August. it was a problem of him not texting me or him not calling me. there would be times where I would text him he wouldn't text me back only thing was I never call him on the phone. We would go on a date and a whole two weeks passed and I wouldn't hear from him, I was the one always approaching him then he would approach me whenever I wouldn't text him..... Just last week I invited him over my house we cuddled watched movies and of course we had sex for the first time I wasn't looking forward to that but I really really like him I can see myself marrying him in the future and I can see myself with him.... I always tell myself he's the one.... Before we even had sex we had a conversation go on talking about where would we end up if this happened (sex) he told me he really likes me he's very attracted to me no he's not in love with me but he's not ready for a relationship right now.... He said I have a lot of my plate and you have a lot on yours I'm not saying I will never be able to Love you later on or you can also love me later from here.... He told me I don't want you to give me your heart right away cause I don't want to reject it..... He said he doesn't want to hurt me but it's weird I'm confused he told me in October he was going to commit to me that he was going to be loyal and faithful to me, why commit to me if he's not ready to be in a relationship? He said no I don't have a girlfriend no I'm not talking to my daughter's mother and no I'm not talking to anyone else you can look through my phone right now..... Anyways the day after we had sex I invited him to come with me to my family's house and he told me sorry I won't be able to I'm at the gym I have a racquetball tournament so I said okay.... Since parents wer on vacation I talked to him later that night saying what are you doing he said nothing resting how about you I said I'm here at home alone bored ALONE :( LOL he responded ( LOL good night)..... < this response. Made me feel like shit..... So I took that in the next morning I woke up called him I said do you want to come over I want to cook dinner today and It will be nice if you can come over and have dinner with me he said sorry I have plans with my family in Chicago tonight they're having dinner at their house i said oh okay. After that he never responded back I never texted him it took him two days to text me back all he said was "hey"

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So, I went to the mall today, and a gorgeous guy who worked there was totally hitting on me. I'm 99% sure he was interested because only about 2% of our 10-15 minute conversation was about the product/service/whatever they were offering. I was completely interested, but I was also completely nervous and shy, so when he finally had to talk to a couple of customers I was unsure of what to do, and I just left without even saying bye. I've been mentally kicking myself all night.

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I've had a crush on this guy from my chemistry class for a very long time but I'm not one to let that show. Since the reopening of college, we've not been speaking to each other as much as we used to; in fact all we say now is "hi" when we see each other in the corridors. Last year it felt like he was possibly interested in me - because one of his friends kept telling me that he thinks I'm cool and because of various incidences where we ended up in each other's personal space - but this year it feels like he doesn't like me and that he thinks I'm a bitch (because I blanked him a few times by accident).

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