So i went on a date this weekend with a guy in the royal navy. The date couldn't have gone more perfect. We went for a lunch date but ended up not finishing until after midnight. He paid, he was complimentary, we shared quite embarrassing things that we were both embarrassed about that we both understood and had amazing chemistry. He even planned to take me out the following evening halfway through the original date. Next day comes i text and i didnt get a reply. I then whatsapped him as on his current ship he sometimes doesnt get signal. He later replies much later to both my text and whatsapp saying that work is hectic and he would call me when he is done. He doesnt. I then whatsapped him the following day saying that i had a great time and understand if work is busy but i would like to see him again but upto him. He has read the message and not replied. He has been online on and off all day and looked at my snapstory but no reply. I dont want to scare him if hes busy but i dont understand how he cant text me when he was so keen on the date. Extra info: hes in my town until end of week but based about 30miles away. He also discussed picking me up for a date as he had the car i wanted to get when he was back at his normal base. I just dont know if i should text again or just leave it. Help please because honestly it was the best date ive ever been on and he said the same....

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I got to a know a guy who goes to the same church as I do. He's 37 and seemed really settled and stable in his career and all. We went out on a date and I felt spiritually and connected to him and I really wish to get to know him better. He sent a polite good night text after the date when he sent me off. However the last 2 days he barely texted back me at all (we met on Friday and today's Sunday) and today when I bumped into him he seemed surprised and then sent a polite have a good evening kind of text.

I don't wanna overthink this but is he interested in me or not? It felt so weird we suddenly stopped talking. I really like this one so I don't wanna be desperate but yet I don't know if he likes me or not. Things seemed so good before the date OMG

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Some background info: I'm a sophomore in college, haven't had a...

By wishfulthinking | Nov 17 2015

How to proceed from here?

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I messaged a guy on facebook (never met him) about 4 weeks ago saying he was cute. He messaged me back asking if I wanted to get to know him. He was traveling in South America during this time and got back a week ago. He was sick when he got back and is also moving into a new place. We had some intense texting for three days. He said multiple times we are definitely going out. I invited him out last weekend and he said he was super wiped from moving but that we would get together very soon. We've exchanged a text or two since then and I decided to totally back off and let him make the plans. I'm so ansty, I don't even know if we will like eachother. We haven't talked for two days. I don't want to be pushy and certainly would prefer he come to me and make the plans. I also don't want to be yanked around if he has no intention of meeting up.

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Is texting 'have a good day' a closure after sleeping with someone on the first date.

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Should I stay in touch or not respond at all?

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is it normal for a guy to go two weeks no texting after first date?

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I'm feeling calm and anxious. On one hand I want to be cynical, on the other I want to be hopeful. And I am both. A little bit of both. And also really chill. Like okay, I set my cards out, your turn. But what if they crumble around me. What do I do?

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Had a great first date with a guy the other Friday night. both of us got on great and had lots of fun. he organised the date, followed up etc.

I texted him the next day to say i had fun and if he wants to do it again let me know.
He replied saying he had a great time and would love to do it again. A few texts back and forth over the next few days but no 2nd date confirmed.

I texted him last night in a cheeky text saying come have a drink with me Saturday night.. and not to say maybe.

He texted me this:

"Ahh Bollocks, I wish i coudl say Maybe, I've got to say no though sorry :( I've got dinner on Saturday. I might be able to do Sunday but I'm going riding and dunno when I'll be back. Not sure if you are free though? Next weekend?

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Exchanged a few messages on Tinder, which led to whatsapp and a first date. Now we both know we will be away for Easter...

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I got insecure when he started pulling away and became needy and clingy. He is giving me the silent treatment. I dont blame him and I'm using the time for myself. But I really like him and I just want to know if there is a possibility I can even get him to talk to me again.

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I'm sorry this is so long .

A couple of years ago I met a guy went on a date (where we had quite a bit of chemistry), but I ended up sleeping with him on the first date and we became FWBs. All throughout that time, we would meet up for sex like once a week and he would text me all the time (not anything flirty, dirty or deep) but just everyday conversation. Also, we'd have dinner or catch a movie together and he was always respectful. At the time, I thought nothing about our situation because I always thought we were just FWBs (though we never spoke about what our agreement was) because whenever we were together seemed really withdrawn around me (he wasn't like that on the first date before I slept with him, he was really open back then).

Eventually, he stopped texting and after 2 weeks he sent me a text asking if we could do something other than have sex and I replied that it was cool with me then he didn't reply back. I just figured that he found another FWB who he was more physically attracted to or that he wanted to find a real relationship with a woman who was right for him.

A few months after not speaking to each other, he sent me a message on FB asking me how I was then sent me a friend request. At the time, I had a boyfriend so I just totally ignored all of those messages and declined his friend request. Nearly two years have passed now and I recently sent him a message on FB asking him how he was. He replied quickly and asked for my number but I told him I wasn't comfortable with that because I was still with my boyfriend.

We ended up messaging daily just catching up then he replied, "Maybe you should take me out to coffee one day " which I ignored. Eventually (and all of a sudden) he asked how long me and my boyfriend have been together and I told him. He figured out that I had met my boyfriend a few months after he and I stopped seeing each other and he sent a blushing emoticon with that message. I then asked him about his marital situation (just to catch up) and he said he's single then I replied. He's read the message but now he hasn't replied after a few days when before he was replying back to me within a hour.

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Friend set me up with a guy she had met...

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Is he interested or giving me a soft blow off?

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1st date text ,he left sick, feel rotten & hope you don't get this , stay healthy. Rejection text?

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