Coworker(guy) drunk texted me(guy) and got real about his life and feelings. Thoughts?

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Does he really wanna hang with me?

Ok so at 9:21am today I asked him if he wanted to hang out he wouldn't reply till I said plz reply he said Maybe so I waited till I felt wen I should txt him again. I wa sgonna wait to ask again at last min but wanted to kno

So I asked at 9:31pm ik same time I didnt do that on porpuse but I felt like he wouldn't gonna txt me bak an well I didn't give him enough Time but when I said I wanna see him b4 I moved to Florida he text back fast with the reply yea heres the text

Me: hey are u down to chill tommrow? I got money if u wanna get something to eat or something an I'm packing now(no reply)
Also I wanted to see you befor I moved to Florida

Him: yea
Me:yup ill be ready around 4-6
Him: ok

Detail: things are a little wierd im guessing bc the guys I stay with is bossy an liked to tell me wat to do always talk shyt get mad an i cannot do nothing an if I get caught talking to anyone he will kick me out anyways last week long story short we did it an well from there he seemed distance he tells me to be careful bc he doesn't want me to get kicked out or in trouble so yea but when I leave he always tells the guy I live with to get me an not leave me in the streets bc they don't well him mainly to be on drugs an streets again.

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I met this guy when we where on high school and we have that strange thing but we weren't dating and after few months we were just friends.
We stop seeing each other 3 months ago, but 2 weeks ago we met casually at college, we talk for like 10 minutes and then we leave.
The thing is, two days ago, he asked me if i wanted to go to a dinner with his parents and his cousin next friday... and I don't know what to think.

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Why does it seem like he's so distant?

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His mom is Druze. He loves me but how do I know if it can last?

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Met a guy at a party about a month ago, hit it off and hung out the rest of the night, went on first official date a week later, and have gone on 2 more dates/hangouts since. Also been talking consistently ever day since we've met. However, he's claimed to be busy lately and I'm just not sure if he's being honest or I'm being played. The last time we saw each other he did tell me that he had a lot going on the upcoming weeks, but he wasn't acting strange or anything and still kissed me goodbye. We still talked the following week, typically him initiating contact, but I was busy over the weekend so we didn't see each other (but still talked, sent photos for most of it). In the past week, we've still been talking, but no mention of meeting up, until last night when he said he had something funny to tell me, but in person. He was spending a day with his family out of state today, but said he wanted to see me if he was back in time. I haven't heard back from him since.

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Relationship

Well, he is a kind of fuck buddy. We live in differents cities....

By isobel_carolina | Mar 04 2015

He asked me to go with him to the wedding of his godfather. What does that means? it´s important rigtht? I really like him

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I've known this guy for 2 months now. He's met my parents and I've met his. The thing is I really like him and I'm ready for a relationship... I know he likes me too but I'm not sure how ready he is to be in a committed relationship.

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My boyfriend's dad has been pumping me for information about my boyfriend's job and school status. I was really direct with his dad that I didn't want to get in the middle and that his questions should be directed to my boyfriend instead. He kept subtly pushing and I let slip that my boyfriend had been fired by our former boss. I later asked my boyfriend if there was anything he really didn't want his dad to know and, of course, he didn't want his dad to know he'd been fired. I'm not sure why my BF doesn't want his family to know he was fired, but I do know it wasn't my information to share, and I feel pretty guilty now. I'm almost positive that his dad isn't going to mention anything to him, but I'm wondering: should I bite the bullet and let my BF know I spilled the beans, or hope it gets swept under the rug and move on?

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Is it just friendly talk ?

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I have been dating a guy for three months now. Things have progressed pretty quick. We see each other five times a week if not more. I met all of his best friends from almost the get go, he has met my parents, and last week asked me to meet his sister and brother in law which is a big deal for him because he tends to keep his love life and family life separate unless he feels like things are getting serious. The other night after a few drinks and in the heat of a moment I whispered "I love you." When I woke up the next day I had a pit in the bottom of my stomach. I didn't want to be the first one to say it, and I don't even know if he heard me. We got together after work as always, made dinner, and everything seemed normal. He never made any mention of my three little words which leads me to believe he did not hear me say it. Knowing him, he would bring it up and say something like "Do you remember what you said last night?" in his jokingly taunting tone. Should I even bring up that I said anything, or just let things run their course? I also never thought I would be the girl to fall in love in three months, but I guess crazier things have happened. Let me just note that I would really like to say it at a later time when it is more appropriate and I was not looking for him to say it back by any means. Just because I feel this way already does not mean he should as well.

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I dunno if he likes me or not

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I dated this guy and we had amazing chemistry like truly amazing. However I learned that he really likes to party and that wasn't my thing so I stop texting him back. What a shame. Two weeks later, I was late and tested pregnant.
I waited until I had my first ultrasound to tell him. His reaction was no less than what I imagined! He told me to "fuck off" and that he wants nothing to do with it! And that's he's NEVER paying for child support because this is all my fault. So I left him alone but now 2 months later.. He won't text me at all and ignores all my calls. I just ask him to speak like adults. Let's figure this out.
The fact is, I don't want him to come to me years later asking for custody with his kid. It's not fair to my baby. Being in and out of his life like that. I know I can't change him! He needs to do that himself. But he needs to realize that for me? This is a very serious and permanent decision. Is it wrong for wanting him to realize that he's being a selfish bitch?

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This is a follow up to something I wrote before about a guy I'm dating not making it official after 4 months and still not wanting to meet my friends/family. I saw him today, and tried to casually bring up that I want us to be official by saying 'it's been 4 months, I'm ready for something more than casual dating'. He said he really liked me bust just needed more time because he doesn't take the term girlfriend or boyfriend lightly and normally waits until he knows someone very well to take on those labels.

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I've been working with this guy for 5 months now... He knew I was single and didn't go out with anyone and hadn't in a long time.. A month ago he came up to me, like it was some kind of emergency & asked if I would go out with him... I've been attracted to him since day one... I got flushed & said ya, ok.... He said how do I get reach you... so I gave him my number & we set up a date for Tuesday... He picked me up, we stopped for a couple of drinks, then went to a movie, then my place to watch another movie... We kissed and touched, but nothing else... I told him I was not into making life decisions based on sex... So we set up a second date the following week... This time he asks "So, are we together, or what"? I said, I guess so... then he proceeded to the next step... I said no, but he couldn't control himself... It's not like we are kids, we are both between 48 and 52... So it wasn't that big of a deal... then we kept texting, we have to keep this a secret at work because dating co-workers is strictly prohibited.. One night he has late ops and wants me to come and hang out with him... but found out another co worker was going to be there.. so he asked if he could come over for a few... He just wanted a quicky really... He scooped me up into his arms and took me... We have great sex, it is amazing actually... He is so sweet, gentle and loving... He calls me sweetheart, says he can't wait to smell me and touch me again and just spend his time looking at me, because he can't do it at work for fear we will be found out... So he comes up to me on Sunday at work and asks me out again for Tuesday... we both have Tuesdays off... I said yes... He texted me he can't wait to be with me... Then the night before our date, he say by text...Something came up with my family that I can't get out of, so I can't make it, I'm sorry, I hope you understand... (No details of what's going on with his family or anything)... He is not married, never has been, no kids... It's just his mom and sister... so it didn't set well with me... I hadn't dated for 2 years because I am sick of games and crap like this... This is actually the 2nd date we've cancelled... the first one was he found out a fried of his was going to die... I gave him a pass... This second one, I may have over reacted... At first I said it was ok and I understood, but I don't want to be that girl that is so unimportant that he feels it is ok to cancel our plans at the last minute... So I sent another couple of texts, to which he did not reply... I said as long as you don't make a habit of this... no reply... I'm sure he has access to his cell phone... he can't reply??

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Does he like me I really want answers...

By elegantdancer | Jan 03 2015

Okay, bare with me this is a long story. So this guy has been trying to talk to me for a while . I kept igroning him because he flirts with muplite females . He asked my friend "why wont she talk to me?" . she will respond by saying , "you have to come to her as a gentleman . She's not like the other girls". So he continued to talk to me , but I kept igroning him . Until, one day he approached me on instagram saying ,"text me". I rejected him by saying "no". Eventually he explained hiself stating that he liked me & he wanted me to give him a chance for him to get to know me. I gave in & started texting him. I knew he was bad for me but, I was giving him a chance . I talked to around guy while talking to him because I felt we will never be serious . He asked me me out , posting pictures of us saying this my girl , making me his wcw, texting me good morning everyday and asking me to him so he could see me . I rejected his offer of him asking me out. He would check my messages & realize I was talking to someone else. He would get upset . I knew he could probably be talking to other girls too, but whenever he showed me his phone there were numerous unread messages. The other guy I talked to never did that for me. He wouldn't respond as fast when we texted . I was worrying if I made a bad choice . Eventually , he cut me off telling me , "I think we aren't going to work". I responded back caring less saying "lol okay" . He deleted all the pictues of us on his instagram.As those three days passed by I started to miss him
While , I was eating with my friends . He grad my belonging and I walked towards him asking for it back. He asked did I miss him. I said no because you act like you don't miss me . He told me to text him. I tried to see him later. He was like you better text me tonight. I wrapped my arm around his but, he saw this girl and moved away from me and talked to her. I did late at night . He texted me goodmorning like always . Then , I asked about it and he said back you know your my only baby . We continued to text but I felt like I was boring him . I asked him He laughed and said no your not. I knew he was talking to other girls but I didn't worry about it . He asked for me to cone to see him but I couldn't. Then one day , I asked him could he be my mcm & he said yes. I made him my mcm & he commented a kissy face . Few minutes later , he posted a picture of him and a girl say , me & the home ... I was jealous yeah . the thing that bothered me the most he never took it down . He asked for me to see him on new Years eve . he was over his friends house. he wanted to pick me up but I said no I'll come. My mom dropped me off. He asked if that was my mom. O said yes you want to see her . He said not yet but I'll wave . I played with hand while we made small talk . He paid his friend to take me home because they were going to a party . we kissed for the first time. He continues to talk to other girls though. he always texts me first but I feel its not even. I feel I deserve it because hurt him in a way.

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