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I used to be classmates with this guy who I really liked, and...

By sweetlemonchewie | Jun 27 2016

What does a Facebook like mean if he doesn't usually like anyone's photos?

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So I met this guy through friends a few months back, but he has been out of the country, at first he was in contact a lot, then he came home for a few days and we met up and ended up sleeping together (this is after 2 months of contacting each other)- we have been in contact since then (including him contacting me on my birthday), but the last few weeks (while he has been overseas) the contact has dropped off, and he isn't initiating anything, but answering when I write (not often, I'm not bugging him or anything- maybe twice...) but he is still liking my statuses and photos on facebook.

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Boyfriend is abroad and deleted every way I have to get in contact with him, without any prior warning. How should I react?

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I messaged a guy on facebook (never met him) about 4 weeks ago saying he was cute. He messaged me back asking if I wanted to get to know him. He was traveling in South America during this time and got back a week ago. He was sick when he got back and is also moving into a new place. We had some intense texting for three days. He said multiple times we are definitely going out. I invited him out last weekend and he said he was super wiped from moving but that we would get together very soon. We've exchanged a text or two since then and I decided to totally back off and let him make the plans. I'm so ansty, I don't even know if we will like eachother. We haven't talked for two days. I don't want to be pushy and certainly would prefer he come to me and make the plans. I also don't want to be yanked around if he has no intention of meeting up.

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Should I stay in touch or not respond at all?

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Should I make the next move? Does he even like me?

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My ex boyfriend of 1 year+ broke up with me 7 weeks ago. We kept in touch right after we broke up. Mostly texting, one phone call from him and met a few times. 6 days ago I sent him silly casual message about my new shower gel (he also sent me text about nothing to me too). However, since then I got no response of that text and didn't hear from him again, only one like from him on facebook.

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Does he miss me? Or is he just looking for hot pics while he is on vacation?

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Is this how it works? Help

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By stylishgal | Mar 27 2015

he is my best friends best friend. we met for the first time, hit it off, flirted then he added me on Facebook and asked for my number the next day. we both made it clear to the common best friend that all we wanted was a casual relationship. we texted and snap chatted for a couple of days after then he asked me to dinner. we made out a bit after dinner and he called me over the next day. we hooked up but he didn't call after. i bumped into him a week later and he tried hiding from me but it didn't work.

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Should I message him first or should I wait for him to message me?

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I've been texting with a guy for about 2 months, we've gone on one date, but we send each other cute messages every day. Should I keep this thing going between us or should I just give up?

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I recently started talking to this guy who I used to talk to in high school a few years ago, we weren't as close but we would talk a lot mainly on AIM and occasionally facebook. There were times where we were supposed to hang out but unfortunately there was always something conflicting, which ended up us never hanging out and I moved my last year, therefore we sort of lost contact or somewhat drifted for quite a while. About 3 years later, I had this sudden urge of contacting him, so I decided to text him. It was nice to catch up after it's been so long. One of the first things he said was of course we should hangout, "grab something to eat" then said we should do something fun and told me to let him know when i'm available. I agreed to do so, so we planned ahead and about a few days after we didn't text or anything and I was curious if he'd remember or not so I decided the next day I'll let him know, funny thing is I woke up the next morning and received a text from him, and I was actually happy he had remembered and initiated before I even did.

The day we hung out, I didn't necessarily know what to expect nor was I prepared because it was the first time we got to hang out and it was just between him and I. I just went with the flow. He offered to pick me up and didn't mind if he'd take me home, because I live about 20 minutes away. When he picked me up, I got inside the car and he had a smile and seemed enthusiastic about us introducing ourselves properly and finally getting to hang out. We catched up a bit and he started talking about inviting me over for a kickback with his co-workers 2 days later at his place, there was going to be karaoke and stuff, he said "you should come, it'll be fun." Yes, I thought why not. But before I get to that later, I love that during my awkward silences, he filled it up with questions about myself and kept the conversation going so i'd feel more comfortable. Once we reached our destination, he offered to pay, we went go karting, played mini golf and a cheeky air hockey sesh. He was a gentleman, opened the door for me and showed his concern especially asking if I wanted anything (if I was hungry). During our hang out, there was a few times he would tease me, complimented me, and I could sense his body language, whenever we talked he was very attentive, we made eye contact often. Every time we walked, we accidentally bumped into each other because of how close we were standing, he would nudge my arm when he'd joke around and try to make me laugh.

One thing that stood out was that he was open with me, he'd share some of his personal experiences, his childhood, etc. Generally didn't mind admitting to things even if he felt embarrassed to. We sat next to each other, bonded on different things like food, karaoke, and places we've been to or want to go. It made me realize that he must truly want to know more about me and spend more time. We both mentioned how we used to talk a lot back then, the moment when he said "I wonder why we stopped talking". Another thing that stood out was in the middle of talking, he jumped into talking about places and events. We would talk about them and he would say "Oh! that's where we have to go!" and asked if I've been hiking before, I said I have and he went in to say that we should go hiking. Most of the events we talked about happen later in the year and so on. Just by making these future plans with me, made me engage on what his intentions are. Going home, we were cruising around and enjoying the moment, listening to music. We passed by a restaurant he loves to go to and we bonded over the kind of food they served, although I've never been there, he said that we should try it next time. When we were near my place, he complimented that my lotion smelled nice and I thanked him for the day, I initially was going to give him a hug but it looked like I was already getting out of the car and he was like "I don't get a hug?" or "Do I get a hug?" and smiled and I looked back and of course gave him a hug, and it wasn't a second it was more like a few seconds and he even gently rubbed my back like a little warm embrace. Overall I had a great time, and it was generally a nice feeling knowing we got to know one another better.

A few hours had passed, he sent me a message that he had fun that day and that he was hoping that we could see each other again for his kickback I talked about earlier. So I hung out with my best friend the night before his kickback, and our close friend came down to visit so we all had a few drinks. I told her about his kickback, i'm thinking she definitely forgot about it the next day. He knew I was bringing my friend along and I told him that we would come. I watched a movie with my best friend first thinking we were still going, then after the movie she was like "hurry, we have to go" (she had somewhere to go) I was bummed at this point because she never told me anything sooner, at this moment I knew we weren't going to make it and I felt bad that I wasn't going to go. I told him and he was kind of bummed, he thought I was going to go, an hour later I fell asleep and woke up that he texted me "Hey there's no way you can make it? ):" and I didn't see it right away neither did I know what to say, it was late. I told him my situation a day later, which I shouldn't have waited and rather done it the next day. But he said it was fine, he'd have another some other time. We still texted a bit and we basically mentioned we both can't wait for break again, because we're currently in school, and he said he's been busy all day everyday. He works as well, so I understand he's a busy bee. But after that conversation, we hadn't texted in almost 2 weeks now. I feel as if he indicated that just to let me know what's up (him being busy and what not) in case we don't talk as often i'm guessing.

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So I was seeing this guy for about 6 months, we decided to take it a little slower when my grandma passed away cause I had a lot to do and deal with. We had started talking and hanging out again. He was telling me he thought I was a woman he could put a ring on and could picture himself with. He asked me if I thought I was ready for a relationship now and I told him I was. He waited 6 hours to respond, then told me that he wasn't sure we communicated well and wasn't sure if he was ready. Then said goodnight luv and that was it. So I got mad and sent more txts then I should have I will admit but how do you go from ring talk to idk. And now even after I apoligized sincerly for texting too much he blocked my number and blocked me on facebook. What gives?

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By mary_4 | Feb 26 2015

What does it mean when a guy asks if you are going to the same party he is attending?

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I matched this guy on tinder and we had a lot in common off the bat so he asked for my number to text me. He texts me fairly regularly, sometimes it's questions to get to know each other better, some times its witty small talk, other times its flirty, but we're meeting for the first time soon. He doesn't always initiate conversation but always replies to me instantly. He didn't suggest the meetup, I did. He mentions things he would do with me (not sexually) like "I'm a good cook I can show you how to make this" and "Oh we both like the same music we should hit up a show" but sometimes does bring up the sexual thing and I tease him a lot. I mean he is a guy I've met from tinder and we've only been talking for a little over a week, and only text he hasn't asked for facebook or other social media.

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