By dev21 | Jul 14 2015
Is he no longer interested in me? Should I have the exclusive talk with him by text?
By saracherie | Jun 28 2015
Does this mean we are exclusive? Or can we still talk to other people?
By ace80 | Apr 11 2015
He always texts & never calls despite my expressed request that he do otherwise. Is he a degenerate, trying to get a rise out of me, and/or not interested?
By burmeseapple | Mar 26 2015
I have been dating a guy for about 1 month from Tinder. Once we got exclusive I asked him to not have dating sites on his phone. He said he deleted them off his phone, but while 'checking' on him after a few weeks it said he was on '15 minutes ago'. I confronted him about it by showing up the screen shot, after he denied it. I felt so hurt and sad that he said one thing and did the other. I have really deep feelings for him, but I told him if he wants to be lovers or friends, because both come with differnt rules. He says lovers, but I want to be friends, but I dont want to loose him. I told him everything and he got defensive so I am giving him time to think about what I said and process his feelings. Yet I am being rational right? It was wrong for him to say something and do the opposite. My girl friends think I am right, and my guy friends think it is not a big deal.
By jf123 | Mar 09 2015
Okay so I met this boy last month and we started texting and hooking up (no sex) and we went on dates met each others friends and stuff, so essentially we were dating. Apparently he really liked me and I really like him so then this past saturday he took me to the aquarium and dinner and then we came back to my dorm and just hung out and had fun. We had the talk on how far we've gone and stuff to make sure we were on the same page and he is more experienced than I am if you know what I mean but was fine with what I told him about what I am and am not comfortable doing and when I apologized he said not to worry he just doesn't want me to feel pressured or anything. I then asked him if he had or was hooking up with anyone else and I wouldn't get mad since we never agreed not to I just once again wanted to make sure we were on the same page. He said no and then asked me the same question to which I responded no as well, since I haven't nor have I wanted to. An hour or so later he said one more question and said I wasn't going to ask yet because I wasn't sure but since we've mentioned it, do you want to be exclusive. I said yeah if he wanted to and he said he wanted to as well so there we were now officially a couple. We hung out for a while longer and my roommate and her bf hung out with us then this morning he texted me hey can we talk in private at some point and I asked what about since he was making me nervous and he said about last night and some stuff he said. When he came over to talk he told me that he had lied and felt terrible he was just scared of hurting me since I had just told him the last guy I sort of dated hooked up with someone while we were essentially still sort of dating and how much it hurt. The guy today told me he had hooked up with someone because he assumed I was but it wasn't like a couple weeks ago, it was friday night and now when hes telling me this its sunday morning. He told me one of my "best friends" saw him with another girl so he assumed I knew but felt terrible lying so had to come clean and would understand if I didn't want anything to do with him anymore. I said he was being too hard on himself we weren't exclusive so it's fine I am just hurt/hate the fact that he lied but respect him for now telling the truth. We agreed to continue dating since I mean first tiff the first day, bound for success at this point...but we do like each other but things are a tad tense since he feels bad and I am sad about it.
By lpioiuy | Feb 28 2015
so me and this guy have been best friends for years and we've always been kind of attracted to each other and then one night we were at a party and me and him were dancing and he asked me to hook up and I asked him what about the other girl that he had gotten with a week or two ago and if they were exclusive or not and he said they weren't exclusive and that it was a one time thing and that he wanted me so then we hooked up and it turns out the other girl thought they were a thing and it started a fight between all three of us and he fixed things with the other girl right away and now a month later the boy only texted me to apologize and has made no other effort since Im not sure what to do or say because i miss being friends with him because he's been one of my closest guy friends up until now and always been there for me but he's changed a lot recently and what he did was really wrong
By lostinlove_3 | Jan 04 2015
Hi :) I'm 21 and have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. We met on tinder (I know, not too romantic...) He's lovely and caring and sweet when we talk. But the problem is, he only really sends me one text a day (it hit me the other day when I was having a bad day and told him, and he didn't reply until the evening of the next day) and he is terrible at replying. He hasn't brought up the concept a girlfriend/boyfriend situation yet, and runs for the hills whenever I mention meeting my family or friends. I don't just want to end it without having a good go at talking to him about what he's not doing right in my eyes first. I feel like if I didn't give him a chance to talk about why he got so distant (he used to be amazing at texting and talking for the month or so after we met) I'd regret it.
By pastel | May 18 2014
He text "Thinking of you as I fall asleep. Then I realize it's a group text and it's not the fact that he text other girls which is fine because were not exclusive or even on that level, but i do fault him for his stupidity and laziness.
By sarah5 | Apr 21 2014
So I've been seeing this guy for a month.. He keeps saying he doesn't want me to send pictures or be with any other guys.. So this is kinda our exclusivity chat....
Me: so you want me to yourself huh? Only if the same rule is applies to you... Xx
Him: Yes !!!! Haha .. :) xx
Me: sooo... I guess that means we're exclusive? Xx
Him: exclusive as in :P .. Xx
Me: Erm... Being together.. Not seeing anyone else :P xx
Him: time will only tell ;) xx
Me: well if you don't want me to see anyone then it has to be the same for you... So that"s basically being exclusive with each other right? Nothing changes, just know for sure where we stand... :P xx
Him: yh indeed hahahaha .. Okay night then xxxx"
By amylyn1126 | Apr 02 2014
I asked him if I could take him off the market and he could just be mine but first he said sure and now if I ask him if his feelings are mutual he say yep. I just can't be to sure with those to words.
By twippy567 | Feb 25 2014
We have been talking for four months. Made the decision to be exclusive in the very beginning of the relationship. What I didn't know was that he was still with his girlfriend. I was told and so foolishly believed that 1.they never really dated and 2. He was over her but she wasn't over him. Anyway fast forward, she hates me because she thought I knew they were still together and I thought she was just obsessive and crazy. We talked and found out he was playing us. Then I still took him back but I had to move because of personal issues and he told me he wasn't with her then he blocked me on Instagram and put up a picture of them together for woman crush Wednesday then tried to lie about it. After we hashed it out I stopped replying and we haven't spoken in almost two weeks then today he sent this.
By slb1990 | Feb 07 2014
By ladybug_2 | Oct 18 2013
I met this guy 18 months back. We hit off pretty well and he asked me out two weeks later. He asked me to be his date for that night to a event that one of his girl friend asked him to. Ever since, we have been seeing each other about once fortnightly. He is a workaholic as far as I know, we are in the same industry and its not difficult to verify that. He has a regional role and therefore he is sometimes away. Early this year, he took me along during his business trip for a week and we had alot of fun. So other than the first date we went out was with his friends, after that it was always just the two of us. We would go chill or party together, or we would just hang at his place. Yes we were sleeping together ever since the first night together. But recently, he started to bring me out to see his friends too. I know that he has bad experiences with girlfriends in the past and he has told me from the start that he does not want to commit. I was cool with that. Appreciate men stating all these clear so I wouldn't expect too much. So time pass, we are still seeing each other, he is amazing, we can talk about everything under the sun, and i dont have to try and be happy when I'm with him, cause i am happy when I'm with him. I know he sees me as someone special too. He stays alone and has a toothbrush for me at his place. On my birthday he sent me flowers to surprise me. Ultimately, I know he is very into me, just that I want to know if does he have any intention to make our relationship exclusive. Actually I have no idea if I am the only girl he is seeing. If I'm not, I would want to know. So at least I can try to drop the thought of being with him long term.
By woobeckeroo | Aug 29 2013
We were just hang out buddies, and then we started hooking up two weeks ago. I asked him if maybe we could be exclusive, and he said he would, but he's about to leave for a month and he's been planning this trip for ages so it's not a good time for him. I was super disappointed to hear that, and we haven't really talked in 2 days.
By penpenguin | Apr 30 2013
Him: Well you should come over.
Me: Does this mean I have to cancel my facebooking and napping plans?
Him: If you would prefer than then pursue it by all means!
Me: I mean, it's a tough call... I might actually like you more than napping.
Him: Whoa liking me more than naps is a bold statement
By misssexy | Mar 03 2013
your on hoilday so will do what you want anyways, i mean I cant stop you from doing anything its trusting you dont want to