My ex texted me to meet but cancelled it. I should not call back, should I?

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Why did my ex text me and ask personal questions if he doesn't want to start a conversation?

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Almost half a year ago I met this guy at work. We felt an instant...

By lightprincess | Apr 04 2016

Should I just ask him if he wants to be in a relationship?

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I have been in a relationship for the past 2 years now. On the...

By cherelledegroot | Jan 05 2016

Is there any chance we could be back together?

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Hello, I have a question and would prefer another perspective on it :)

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We met through mutual friends at club this summer. It took him FOREVER to approach me (i'm quite unapproachable, unintentionally). My friends said he liked me, and had to push him to make a move after 2 months of him just staring. Anyways, we texted for 2 weeks, and because we're both a bit shy convos were abit hard to keep going. and then he ignored a text out of nowhere. And retexted me 10 days later. but the convo was really short, so and I took it as a sign, so I didn't pursue to not appear clingy. I have NOTHING against him. Literally haven't spoken since summer, but when I go out to this club he's always there. Even after no contact, there were/are still many signs he's still into me. I say hi if we go out with the same group of friends, but if I see him from a distance i'm too shy to go over. And when I do say hi, I actually want to stay and have a convo, but I just don't know what to talk about, so we just ignore eachother the entire time. Like one time at a party, we were literally 2meters away from eachother, but didn't acknowledge eachother. He probably thinks I'm pissed at him but it's literally that i'm too scared to approach him, or that he'll just talk to me out of politeness, and not really care about the convo.
Another time, at the end of the night he was standing outside with his friends and I was walking in that direction. He kept turning his head towards me. He obviously saw me, but then as I passed he didn't say hi. I didn't say hi either. So technically we're both in the wrong. I'm not saying he's an as*shole for not saying hi, cuz the exact same could be said for me.

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Why did my ex text me happy birthday?

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There is this guy, he became friends with me a few months ago. I had hinted to him that a girl in my dorm liked him and a few days later he asked her out and she said yes. They kept dating for about 2 months or so, and I didn't know but things weren't going well between them and meanwhile we became even better friends, I started noticing that he spent more time with me than he did with her. I was into someone else at the time so i just thought he was being friendly. Well she broke up with him about a month ago , and he didn't feel too badly about it, then he started hanging out with me even more and even increased the amount of times he texted.
I still thought he was being friendly, then we closed school for Easter break and we both went to different places, but the moment school opened he seemed to be different, he even started flirting and stuff. And I actually realized that I liked him. He asked me out and we started dating.
But now I just found out that his ex claims that they supposedly broke up with him cause he kept hanging out with me, that I was the problem, that because of me they couldn't hang out. But when I had personally asked her why she broke up with him she said it was a mutual agreement and also cause he was too clingy.
I am so confused on what I should do! Like what the hell? Should I confront her, or just leave it be? Because I talked to him and he admitted that he already liked me even when he was with her, he didn't want to hit on me while he was with her.

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Me and my ex have been broken up for about a year and a half now, probably closer to two years. A lot has happened since we broke up, and I have told him how I feel about him and that I want to get back together. He told me that he didn't want to be with me right now, that he wanted to focus on graduating college, finding a job, and getting his life together for when we graduate. I asked him if I had completely lost my chance to be with him again, and he told me no that wasn't the case.

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So I just got out of a bad relationship and went out of town for the weekend. Ended up meeting a guy and went back to his place and had to catch my flight early the next morning. But besides the sex, I honestly had a great time talking to him...he texted a bit today, but I just would like a distraction right now as I'm getting out of this relationship...is there a way to keep a conversation going without coming off as clingy?

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IS HE SHY, DOES HE NEED A FRIEND, OR IS HE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO PASS HIS TIME WITH?

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My ex boyfriend of 1 year+ broke up with me 7 weeks ago. We kept in touch right after we broke up. Mostly texting, one phone call from him and met a few times. 6 days ago I sent him silly casual message about my new shower gel (he also sent me text about nothing to me too). However, since then I got no response of that text and didn't hear from him again, only one like from him on facebook.

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What does it mean when your ex who's taken texts to see how you're doing every few months?

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I broke up with my ex of 7 months a little over a week ago. It was pretty much a relationship where we were both taking each other for granted. He eventually ended it by coming over to my house and I simply said 'I know what you're going to say, it's not working out' before he had a chance to. I then rushed him out the door saying 'you should leave now' and when he tried to say bye to my Labrador I was really rude. I essentially said 'what are you doing?! Just get out'. The worst part was that when we got the door I opened it merrily and then said in a sing song voice 'byeee!' and then when he said 'see you soon?' I said 'no you fucking won't' and slammed the door. (Apologies for all the speech in the middle of text). I feel so terrible about ending it in such a cold way after the relationship ending was both of our faults. On social media he seems to be doing fine, but I feel awful and like such a bitch. My friends keep telling me not to text an apology as I might look like a desperate ex trying to get back together. However, I genuinely just want to give the poor guy an apology.

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He really does want me to go on the Spring Break trip? Will he ask me to Prom?

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Crush on ex-BF's best friend, I think he likes me too, I told him how I felt and now we aren't talking.

So, I dated a guy 3 years ago, it was a pretty intense year-long relationship but he broke up with me and it was pretty messy for a while afterwards. Since then we've been able to patch things up enough to remain friends and hang out. Through hanging out I met and gradually became really good friends with his best friend. It got to the point where the best friend and I were texting or talking online almost every day for over a year and started hanging out every weekend. Everyone else noticed it and my ex even once told me, "I'm fine with you dating anyone. else, just don't fall for my best friend."

He's never made a clear move on me but it was really clear we were really close and cared a lot about each other (e.g. he left work early when I was having a bad day to cheer me up).

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