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I'm in my first year of uni and am living in a flat. When we...

By emmystein | May 18 2016

How do I know if my friend that I had sex with wants to hook up with me again?

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Coworker(guy) drunk texted me(guy) and got real about his life and feelings. Thoughts?

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I know this is our first fight but I feel like this shouldn't be...

By hopelessromantic294 | Apr 09 2015

Red Flags everywhere or overanalyzing?

So I started dating this guy in January and he was everything I wanted and more. He was sweet and kind to me and was nothing like my ex. However, because Ive been hurt, I told him I wanted to take things slow before I committed myself to him. A month later he thought was the right time and then a month after that he told me he was in love with me while we were drunk one night at a party. He said how much he cared for me and tried to have sex with me that night when I told him before I want to take things slow. At the time I didn't think too much into it but now looking back I am so shocked. This past weekend we got in a huge fight and I haven't talked to him the past few days because when he gets angry, he gets angry. I saw him throw things and start screaming and swearing and that was a big turnoff. So incidently we got in a fight and he started acting really rude to me. The reason why we never really fought before was because he would always stop a conversation before it got too far. I also found out that he has been lying to me about smoking pot even after I had asked him to his face if he was doing it or not and he said no. So now I am doubting my trust. We were supposed to talk today but I haven't heard from him yet.

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Overwhelmed a shy guy I absolutely adore???

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Is this a positive text to receive after a hookup?

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Is there a chance of a date?

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Should i answer his text after we hooked up

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By bitterhoney | Feb 10 2015

I met this Australian guy 5 years ago, he was my English teacher for three months. After that, we met occasionally for a cup of coffee or little things like that. He seems interested in me but never told me much. I am confused because when he is drunk he call me through Skype or by phone (even if he is in Australia) showing interest for me...last time he told me: "I love you"...but I know..he was drunk!

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By giiisella | Feb 08 2015

How true do you guys think is the saying drunk words are sober thoughts ??!

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Shall I wait it out and stay on break until there's signicant...

By yesnomaybe | Jan 14 2015

I think he loves me but he is too afraid. what can I do?

This guy and I were friends for a couple of months. we were just good friends who'd hang out from time to time. he'd text me periodically about homework and ask me if I was going to specific events. A month and half ago, we hooked up when we were both drunk. He was super affectionate and there was a lot of kissing and cuddling. ever since, he's been texting me every day but he claimed that he just wants to be friends when I asked him. The day before he left for the break, we spent the night together again. We just talked all night long after sex. He told me that for some reason, he can tell me things that he's never told his other friends of much longer time. Over the break, I went to visit him and hung out with him at his place. we cuddled every night and he always took such great care of me. He'd wait for me when I was staying up late doing homework just to check on me and ask if I needed help. When he was drunk, he went to buy the drink that I told him that I was craving for. He organized my room for me because I was too lazy to do so. He texts me every day. But he's been very hesitant to date me. In his own words, he is scared. He's never felt so strongly about anyone before; the connection is so strong that he knows that he will be devastated if things don't go well. He'd rather just be friends at least we will always have each other. I know him better than anyone else in his life. We get each other. I know that he deeply cares for me. but it hurts me that there's no security in this grey zone relationship. I told him that I wanted us to take a break from each other and think about what this friendship really means to us.

I guess I'm just really confused as I've never dealt with this kind of situation before. I think I actually love him - not infatuation, not just random dates; I feel so deeply connected to him that we never run out of topic and we are always on the same page for fundamental values. I really don't want to lose him.

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I went out of town for NYE. I'm separated and have small kids. At the end of the night I started talking to this extremely attractive guy, but he's 7 years younger than I am. I told him I have kids. He didn't care. I told him that I'm much older than he is. He didn't care. Said he wanted to see me again, got my number. Invited me to his place, but it didn't happen since I was too drunk. Texted me the next day, asking me to come over and hang out. But I couldn't. The chances of this working out are probably slim because of the distance (400 miles approx) and timing. But when he smiled at me from across the room, wow. And our personalities and values are pretty identical.

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By anon4444 | Jan 04 2015

We were drunk, but we really hit it off. We kissed only, and exchanged numbers. He hasn't texted me. Is there a reason he hasn't? I don't want to misinterpret the situation and go after him. I have classes with him so I have to be careful.

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A guy came into my work and gave me his business card. After a while (a little longer than I meant to) I texted him. We hung out and had a good time. The next day he texted me saying that he had fun and that we should hang out again. During the rest of the week he'd text me from time to time just to let me know that he hadn't forgotten about me and he still wanted to hang out but he works for a construction company so he's busy all the time, works 7 days a week. We hung out for the second time and had a lot of fun, found out more about each other. We went to a bar and I wasn't exactly drunk but feeling good. I have terrible anxiety and I over-think everything so the next day I texted him saying that I felt like I had made a fool of myself but I had a good time and thanks. He asked why I felt like I'd made a fool of myself and I said pretty much just by being me. He then said don't worry. We talk on a fairly daily basis, but it's short most of the time because of his work. He's usually the one to initiate the conversation, mostly because I feel like I'm being needy when I text.

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So I met this guy when I was out at at a frat party. We talked shortly and flirted and I got his number so I texted him that night a little drunk. The next few days we had a nice texting repertoire that was fun and sarcastic which was refreshing. He eventually made some comment about wanting to 'be normal and have lunch'. I agreed to meet up.
We had a nice time and exchanged basic conversation. He had a meeting to go to but stayed as long as he could. He is a senior and I am a sophomore and he has made comments about my 'younger' age.

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I dated this guy on and off for quite some time. Over the summer we called it quotes. About a month ago I was thinking about him so I texted him. He responded a couple times then stopped responding. When I texted him again asking how he was doing he just didn't respond at all. So I took the hint and left him alone. A month later he texted me saying "Hey :)" but he sent me the text at 10:45pm and I was already asleep so I never answered. About 2 days passed, I never responded and he didn't try to talk to me again

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so my one of my friend's housemate's apparently saw my on her facebook and thought i was really pretty. He kept asking her to introduce us and onetime I was supposed to be going to their house to hang out, and when he found out I was coming he freaked out and was "really excited". I ended up not going, but also matched with him on tinder, even though I didn't know any of this was going on. He gave me his number on tinder and we started texting a lot, but he cant talk that much because he works almost all day. He told my friend that he thinks its refreshing that I dont get mad at him when he doesnt text back immediately like some other girls, but I understand that hes at work. We made plans after about two weeks of talking to finally meet on my birthday, and my friend said that he couldnt stop talking about how excited he was. I ended up at a party on my birthday and he found me there and we talked the whole night. I went with him and my friends back to his friends house and we hung out for hours and it was a lot of fun. He seemed a little thrown off at the party though, because other guys kept hitting on me right in front of him and at one point he asked "does this happen to you a lot?". I was pretty drunk that night and he was too, but we mostly just talked and then eventually I left with my friends. We didnt' hook up or anything, but it seemed kinda weird that he didn't make a move at all? The next morning he texted me saying he really wanted to make plans again, but I've been busy and he's been busy so its hard for us to find time. We made plans for tuesday, but I feel like it's not gonna happen since he hasn't texted me in two days. My friend who lives with him says hes super busy with schoolwork and he works constantly, so maybe thats why, but I cant help but think he met me and thought I was less cool in person.

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