By victoriamaddisonellis | Oct 30 2014
I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months and he has a really bad coke addiction hes so low and depressed he usto be all romantic with me txt me and call me alot he works away monday to Friday so I only see him on weekends he gives me his keys to the flat but last weekend he has deep off with me he didn't see me last weekend and only txt me a couple of times through the week I suffer from depression and it doesn't help with i keep getting thoughts that he cheating on me or going off me or he gonna end the relationship I asked him do you want me to walk away he says I never want that he says to me on txt that he doesn't ever want to loose me .But he's messed up in his head with things he txt me saying he loves me but sometimes al txt him and he doesn't reply I go on fb he's on line I go on my whatsapp he's on i dnt understand he wants me to go his dad Sunday for roast dinner but I think av messed it up i have stuff at his flat and I told him to bag my stuff I think he's took it the wrong way he txt ed me saying ok never heard off him since av asked to see him this Saturday nyt but I think he might go cold on me we never argue I support him in everythink I look after him I need help I dnt know what to think
By byeforever | Jul 20 2014
There was a guy I met during a program before school started. It was a month long, and he was definitely way more into me at first than I was into him, but then eventually I started to really like him. We started hooking up but we never slept together because I didnt want to sleep with someone while I was outside of a relationship. We hung out all the time and he was great with me, and it was obvious that he did care about me a lot and we were great together. There was a 6 week long break between the program and school and before we left I asked if he wanted to be exclusive. He told me that he did, but that he didnt want to force me to. I said we should wait and see until school started. after the program ended I went to a concert and hooked up with a random guy there. I told the guy I liked immediately because I felt terrible, but I was on a lot of drugs and it was just a dumb thing to do. He pretended like he was fine with it, but then every time he would get drunk he would text or call me and be really emotional and cry and ask why I hooked up with someone else. I explained that I literally just kissed a guy at a concert and that I was on a lot of Molly and it had nothing to do with how much I liked him. Things seemed fine for a while, but he would always get drunk and tell me how much he hated me because of how much he liked me. He said he felt like every girl was evil, as he had just gotten out of a 3-year relationship with a girl he hated. He was fine when he was sober, but would just be miserable when he was drunk and I never knew what to say and it hurt me to hear him say that I made him so miserable. Towards the end of the 6 weeks we stopped talking as often and I started to think he was over it. Then when school started we started hooking up again, but we weren't spending as much time together as I wanted. He always told me that he thought I was too good for him, especially when he was drunk, and he never believed how much I liked him. Then I asked him if he wanted to be exclusive and he said no because he felt like I was gonna hurt him. I told him we should just be friends because I wasn't going to just be hooking up with someone if he felt he could get with other people too. I tried to be friends with him but he made it difficult because he was always scared to be around me and he told me its because he felt like shit for what happened. I never hooked up with him again, and then a few months later he started dating a girl who he told everyone he didnt like. His friends say he's dating her because shes obsessed with him and he feels comfortable, but I dont think that makes sense. This whole year has been crazy because I was a huge bitch to him because I was so mad to him when I was drunk at the beginning of the year, but he still talked to me all the time and told me that he deserved how mean I was to him. His girlfriend hates me and got really drunk and told my friend that she thinks he still likes me, and his friends say he does too but that he just doesnt know what to do. He still talks to me whenever I talk to him and will honestly do anything for me. From leaving his bed to come to a party at 2 am to help my drunk friend to coming to get a slurpee with me at 3 am with me because I wanted him to while his girlfriend was in his room waiting. I want to think that he still cares about me and that we can be together at some point, but I just cant believe that a person can like someone different from who theyre in a relationship with. Its obvious to everyone that he doesnt like her as hes not as caring or cute with her as he was with me, but I still just cant believe it.
By badidea | Jul 15 2014
Hi and thanks for taking the time to read my problem.
I am 33 and am an alcoholic. The individual in this issue is also a user.
It directly relates to my story. I met him one night as he had no where to go as his girlfriend kicked him out as she doesn't allow him to use. We slept together and I allow him to do whatever he wants after all who am I to judge.
He continually talks about her and one day he just went back. This cycle keeps repeating itself. She kicks him out, I take him back, he leaves. I can't say no to him. I'm in live with him and having a drug problem does not make you a bad person. I recently found out while he was away he wrote to her everyday pages of letters. He says he hates her and she's crazy and he's using her so why write letters and keep going back when he can stay here. He left again and said he's not going back this time. He's also trying to get better.
By olivia_2 | Jun 17 2014
He text me 24/7 about how perfect I am and stuff yet he dose drugs and many other not so good choices
By meganhey | Apr 21 2014
There is this guy that i really like, and I think he might like me too. The only issue is that I think he smokes weed and i dont exacty agree with that. He's one of the nicest guys i know and he is very kind hearted.
By laurenhoffs | Mar 24 2014
So, here's the deal..
I've known this guy for 4 years now and we always got along well. We wouldn't see each other often though. We do have great chemistry and a few friends say he's always had a thing for me. Last year, he told me that he had a crush on me while we were dancing (on a party). Obviously there was some alcohol involved and because of his history of being a real ladies man (player), I pretended that I didnt hear it.
A year went by and he got in a serious relationship with a girl, which lasted a about year. He would still ask my friends how I was doing (we didnt really talk to eachother for that period of time).
After that break-up he started texting me. We hang out as well , no kissing etc. just a very relaxed date(?) A couple of days after that, I heard that he takes XTC and sometimes spends the night away from his parents (he's 17).
By kenyagates | Jan 31 2014
So I'm a sophomore at a community college, and I've been friends with this guy for about a year and a half. Almost exactly a year ago he helped me with some mental issues I was having like anxiety and depression, and I really appreciated it. He's a super nice guy, very caring and so sweet to me. However, he does have a bit of a drug problem. I'm not sure if he's an addict exactly, but he spends A LOT on pot and LSD and things like that. I myself am clean and have never tried drugs. He also has a tendency to be overly permiscuous (like many college guys) and although it doesn't make me particularly uncomfortable, it kinda makes me wonder sometimes.
By pautenia111213 | Dec 22 2013
I work with him. He asked me out , we went out for drinks, had great conversation and ended up making out. we proceeded to go out the next night where we had a huge conversation about deal breakers. my deal breaker was a guy who does drugs. 10 minutes later , "the Brussels sprouts he had for dinner were bothering his stomach". he proceeded to not speak to me
much for 2 months. last week , he asked me out for a drink.
By na23 | Nov 13 2013
He sounded interested in the convo them just stopped... Said he was going to visit theSe places then just slept all day. He's addicted to shooting up and has been out of town for work making a lot of money.
By na23 | Oct 24 2013
By texasgirl1982 | Oct 11 2012
What are you doing later? Chillin my posse. Where? couple of my gay friends and I are going to sushi We get pretty wild. Yea right. You don't believe anything I say. Nope. I wanna see you. Sorry this is an all night thing. Whatever. So you doing drugs tonight? No, why so mean?