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This guy and I have been dating for 2 months now and he still has not DTR. I don't know if it's a little early for that or not but what is bothering me is that I don't know what he wants. We have been sleeping together for a month now or so now... And everytime we do sleep together, he invites me to spend the night over, we cuddles, he often kisses me on the forehead. Even after we have slept together, he still reaches out to me and ask me on dates (outside his place); like we go to the cinema, we go eating, etc. The thing is he texts me once a week or we see eachother once a week (We both are pretty busy during the week). He's the one who starts the conversation all the time; but when we text sometimes he takes 4 hours or even more to reply to my texts... I don't know what to think of that. He's sending me mix signals. Does he still reaches to me because he wants the sex ? Or is he looking for more? I really want to have the dtr talk because I don't want to continue somthing that will lead to nowhere but I'm afraid its too early for that...

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I asked him if there was any future for us and he said I dunno what to say what do u want me to say

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Okay so I met this boy last month and we started texting and hooking up (no sex) and we went on dates met each others friends and stuff, so essentially we were dating. Apparently he really liked me and I really like him so then this past saturday he took me to the aquarium and dinner and then we came back to my dorm and just hung out and had fun. We had the talk on how far we've gone and stuff to make sure we were on the same page and he is more experienced than I am if you know what I mean but was fine with what I told him about what I am and am not comfortable doing and when I apologized he said not to worry he just doesn't want me to feel pressured or anything. I then asked him if he had or was hooking up with anyone else and I wouldn't get mad since we never agreed not to I just once again wanted to make sure we were on the same page. He said no and then asked me the same question to which I responded no as well, since I haven't nor have I wanted to. An hour or so later he said one more question and said I wasn't going to ask yet because I wasn't sure but since we've mentioned it, do you want to be exclusive. I said yeah if he wanted to and he said he wanted to as well so there we were now officially a couple. We hung out for a while longer and my roommate and her bf hung out with us then this morning he texted me hey can we talk in private at some point and I asked what about since he was making me nervous and he said about last night and some stuff he said. When he came over to talk he told me that he had lied and felt terrible he was just scared of hurting me since I had just told him the last guy I sort of dated hooked up with someone while we were essentially still sort of dating and how much it hurt. The guy today told me he had hooked up with someone because he assumed I was but it wasn't like a couple weeks ago, it was friday night and now when hes telling me this its sunday morning. He told me one of my "best friends" saw him with another girl so he assumed I knew but felt terrible lying so had to come clean and would understand if I didn't want anything to do with him anymore. I said he was being too hard on himself we weren't exclusive so it's fine I am just hurt/hate the fact that he lied but respect him for now telling the truth. We agreed to continue dating since I mean first tiff the first day, bound for success at this point...but we do like each other but things are a tad tense since he feels bad and I am sad about it.

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So this guy on Instagram messaged me and he was really cute so I decided to talk to him. we exchanged phone numbers and he started texting me saying sweet stuff like "you're my wife" "we're married." which could be something he could just be saying to get inside my pants. I have doubts mainly because he's realky good looking and really popular with the girls on Instagram and most guys who Ive talked to on instagram have been this way and just wanted sex.

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So I've been worth this guy for 6 weeks. I met him on tinder and we've been on 2 dates so far. We have so much in common and we truly understand each other. The only problem is right now he's a freshman in college and I'm a senior in high school... So communication has been limited these days. I understand he's busy with balancing school, a job, family, and friends. I'm worried that he's losing interest because he's so busy! I'm just not sure if it's a great time for a relationship right now :/

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By kittypurryyumyum | Jan 03 2015

I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months. However, he has not tried to DTR at all. We still hang out all the time and I do really like him. Most of his friends assume I'm his girlfriend. He also mentioned to me that he likes me "more than a lot."

Recently, he and his friends have been talking about a 5k that they have been training for. None of them has invited me to this, even though I ran a 5k with him before and we had a great time. This really bothers me.

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My question is: is it still worth putting in all of this effort...

By hopeless_romantic94 | Dec 22 2014

There's a guy that I have been talking to. He and I dated a couple of years back and we have recently had a big issue with him just pushing our friendship off to the side and then him coming back whenever he wants. Obviously this doesn't sit well with me, so we fixed things up over the summer, liked each other but didn't say anything, admitted our feelings to each other 2 months later, then he stopped talking to me again and we got into another argument over the same thing. Currently, we like each other again but have decided not to act upon anything because neither of us want a relationship. It's kind of hard to be friends with someone you like when you know it's not going to go anywhere though.

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I have been seeing a guy for about 6 weeks. We see each other about 3 times a week. We play basketball together, go to movies, go out to eat...
6 weeks ago he said "I'm chillin" but also said "I don't usually have sex with girls whom I don't want more from"
We have hung out with his friends and been bowling n to lunch, and he always comes to outdoor movies with my friends and the he watched my basketball game.
I'm just wondering if we are dating? And if I wanted more do I just keep doong what we are doing and by all means not bring up "the talk"?

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We had been on a few dates and texted for weeks. He invited me over and all the sudden I was no longer a virgin. I had not expected to have sex with him for my first time! Once I had sex I wanted to try it more and more times so I stuck with the same guy. We continued or fun and agreed on the label of Fwd. Now six months later I find us talking all night. Laughing together about jokes. Spending the night and eating breakfast together. We even call each other cute names...

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So I've known this guy for about 3 years and we've just recently started getting really close(up until 7 months ago he was dating someone). We aren't dating because he says that he's emotionally not ready for a relationship and I understand that(his last relationship was a train wreck) but we act like a couple. So much so that a lot of people assume we are dating. We talk almost all day through text, we hang out whenever we can, we've fooled around...a lot(if you know what I mean), I've met his friends, and he's met mine. A couple of his friends have said that we should date and all of my friends say that they are waiting for it to happen. We've both told each other that we have feelings for each other and he even once said that he wished he had dated me instead of his ex girlfriend because I don't cause drama like she did. He compliments me sometimes and I do the same for him. We flirt constantly but it just seems like nothing is going anywhere. I don't want to rush him and I don't even know if I'm ready for a relationship myself.

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By brianaisabelhigareda | Nov 17 2014

Okay so I've been talking to this guy since March of this year. I met him through the family, we started going on dates in August. it was a problem of him not texting me or him not calling me. there would be times where I would text him he wouldn't text me back only thing was I never call him on the phone. We would go on a date and a whole two weeks passed and I wouldn't hear from him, I was the one always approaching him then he would approach me whenever I wouldn't text him..... Just last week I invited him over my house we cuddled watched movies and of course we had sex for the first time I wasn't looking forward to that but I really really like him I can see myself marrying him in the future and I can see myself with him.... I always tell myself he's the one.... Before we even had sex we had a conversation go on talking about where would we end up if this happened (sex) he told me he really likes me he's very attracted to me no he's not in love with me but he's not ready for a relationship right now.... He said I have a lot of my plate and you have a lot on yours I'm not saying I will never be able to Love you later on or you can also love me later from here.... He told me I don't want you to give me your heart right away cause I don't want to reject it..... He said he doesn't want to hurt me but it's weird I'm confused he told me in October he was going to commit to me that he was going to be loyal and faithful to me, why commit to me if he's not ready to be in a relationship? He said no I don't have a girlfriend no I'm not talking to my daughter's mother and no I'm not talking to anyone else you can look through my phone right now..... Anyways the day after we had sex I invited him to come with me to my family's house and he told me sorry I won't be able to I'm at the gym I have a racquetball tournament so I said okay.... Since parents wer on vacation I talked to him later that night saying what are you doing he said nothing resting how about you I said I'm here at home alone bored ALONE :( LOL he responded ( LOL good night)..... < this response. Made me feel like shit..... So I took that in the next morning I woke up called him I said do you want to come over I want to cook dinner today and It will be nice if you can come over and have dinner with me he said sorry I have plans with my family in Chicago tonight they're having dinner at their house i said oh okay. After that he never responded back I never texted him it took him two days to text me back all he said was "hey"

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I have been talking to this guy for almost 7 months now. He's from Argentina and he came to America to play a sport for a couple of weeks. We met and had a really great date, but then he had to go back home. That was 5 months ago and he's coming back again after he graduates in December for a bit.

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So I met this guy on a school trip with another school and we started talking because of a mutual friend, anyway we really got along, we like the same music and stuff, so I started tonlike him. After I got back from this trip I told some friends about him and they said I had to ask for our mutual friend for his number, which I eventually did. We started texting and are often until midnight just talking about stuff. He says 'I love you' and 'I miss you' and things like that a lot with ';)', for example I insulted him about something and he said, 'it's okay, I forgive you because I love you so much ;) xx' and things like that.

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I have known this guy for 13 years, we went to school together, I moved away and we lost touch for about 10 years. In July he found me and message me, we exchange numbers and I've been talking everyday since. We still have about 45 minutes away from each other, and we've talked about seeing each other, but we have a busy schedules. I like him, and I think he likes me, we talked about future plans and what we like in a mate. Whenever we talk, it's good conversation, we laugh and joke around as well as what's going on in our lives, or what's bothering us. But lately, it seems like he gets upset when I tell him I'm going out with my friends. I know that he's been hurt in the past by other women, and has trust issues. But he gets upset with me like I'm the one who hurt him or is going to hurt him, and that's not the case at all, but we've yet to discuss what we really are or where this may be going.

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I've been seeing a guy for about five months and we really click. We have so much fun and laugh a lot and get along really well. We agreed to be exclusive about a month into spending time together (but still don't have the boyfriend/girlfriend official title). He has decided to go back to school until January, and this takes up a lot of his time, leaving us with 1-2 times a week that we can have for each other. I'm willing to wait for the next few months and be patience with his schedule and stress load because we both agree that we really like each other, but my question is...

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I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now, and by seeing I mean having amazing sex. But that is not all we do. When we first met we did the typical dating activities ( dinner, movies, drinks etc.) for a month or so before having sex. But once we did that is all we did and it is great. However, there are a lot of gray areas with our FWB "relationship". I'm fine with the FWB status but confused with the other areas. For starters, while he will text me " do you want to come over" or "when are you coming over" that is not the only time we text or talk. We will have full conversations via text and phone, sometimes it's a simple "how are you" or "what are u up to". When we are on the phone the conversation can literally last for hours. The contact between us is usually intiated by the both of us but more so him. Another gray area is our hookups, sometimes it's his house sometimes it's mine, but for the most part it's his. I have never been over to his house and just had sex. Typically, he will cook, we'll have drinks, watch tv and it will turn into multiple rounds of sex. Instead of leaving he wants me to stay, I'm not saying I don't want to but its to the point where he doesn't ask me to stay anymore it's expected that I stay and we cuddle all night. The morning involves more gray matter. His work and school schedule is extremely different then mine so during the week when I have to go to work he will tell me to bring my clothes and get dressed in the morning from his house. Which I do at times. If he is off and it's a weekend we will sleep in all morning. When we get up he will cook me breakfast or I will cook for him. BTW he loves to cook. If it is a weekend and we both are off he will ask me to stay the entire weekend with him. I live less then 10 min away from him. I will sometime stay all weekend and we will hang out, go shopping, to the gym, movies, get drinks etc.. We also do things for each other for example he has taken me to the airport, fixed items around my house, and I have walked his dog while he is at work or picked up something from his house if he forgot it and can't leave his work. The gray area is truly evident as there are times that we hang out and don't have sex. He'll call me over for dinner or just to chill with him, we will lay in the bed cuddle and not have sex which is super hard to do. Last gray area are the things we talk about, we know so much about each others lives and he has opened up to me so much and visa versa. I help him study for school, he's a grad student and we talk about everything and anything.
Here is where reality sets in. I know he is sleeping with another girl and the reason I know this is because he has told me. Another reason I know this is because 3 is a crowd if u know what I mean. Another dose of reality is that when he is off during the week I will see him frequently, however there are times when he is off that I don't see him, I don't hear from him, and I know he is with her or maybe someone else. Lastly, reality will snap me back after I realize that although we discuss everything we don't discuss us and what we don't talk about if we want more or where our relationship is going. I don't bring it up and I have never brought it up. He doesn't bring it up and he never has. So we just go about seeing each other living within the reality of gray.

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