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How can I express my filling to the girl whom I love ❤???

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Hello everyone
I already posted here a couple of months ago about a guy (it didn't work out), but now I'm back :)
I would like to know if anyone here has ever dated a Japanese guy ?
I met this guy from japan last week, we were both at a party and really drunk, made out, exchanged phone numbers. He's since texted me a few times, being really nice, and a couple of days ago he asked if I wanted to go to lunch or dinner or something together. I said yes, he said he'd like us to meet on friday. I said yes, okay, where ? And am still waiting for his answer. He takes ages to answer (like 24 hours). I'm just wondering if he's really interested or if he felt like he had to ask me out ? A friend told me that in Japan they always feel like they have to be extra polite and always give back, so I'm wondering if he feels like he HAS to ask me out at least once on a date because I made out with him ?

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So I met this really nice guy about 3 weeks ago while I was out. We've gone on a couple of dates and we really hit it off. After the first date, he added me on Facebook and Instagram. Upon viewing his pages, I saw a TOTALLY different person than the one whom I'd been on the date on. He was super wild, had outrageous flamboyant style, and some pretty vulgar posts on there as opposed to the calm, well-dressed, kind gentleman I met. I'll admit this scared me and turned me off a bit, but I know a lot of ppl who can have a different persona on the internet, so I decided to give it a 2nd chance/date. And once again he was so "normal" and pleasant, as he was on the 3rd date too. But everytime I come across his page again, it's some other vulgar or weird nonsense. He is very eager to get to know me, but yet so openly flirtatious with several women online, who have the same kind of style as he does on there.

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My best friend is a male. We talk for hours every day and he tells me all his deep secrets. I feel strongly about him, but I have never told him explicitly. We could never really be together anyway, because we both come from separate (but equally strict) cultural backgrounds and our families wouldn't be cool with an intermarriage.

Anyway, yesterday he started telling me about a girl he met at work and suggesting that he might like her. I did feel insecure at that point because she is very knowledgable about things like politics which I am not so well informed about. (He's big on political discussions too.)

Some of the messages we exchanged are below - please read them from left to right. I have tried to include most of the relevant points of our conversation, but left out texts in between that were about something else.

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So my best friend is a guy. We talk for hours every single day. He shares all his deep secrets with me. I secretly love him but have never told him - we could never be together because we both come from separate but equally strict cultural backgrounds and our families wouldn't be OK with intermarriage. Today he told me that he met a girl at work and he thinks he might like her.

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We had a seven month lasting relationship with 170 km between us. Everything was great for 4 months until he started to hang out with Mormons. I was okay with that but then things started to change, he started to change. We started to have lots of problems. He rather hung out with his church people than with me. We only saw each other like once a month. I gave him time when he asked that. We both made some mistakes. Now, the last time he was here was about a month ago and then everything was fine, he even said he wanted to move in with me. I was surprised. After that things started to really fall apart, he drifted away, I was trying so hard to do the right things - gave him time about two weeks with NC, talked calmly after that in the phone about our problems.. until a week ago last Sunday we officially broke up via phone. We both saw it coming long time ago and I think we were broken up already before, but last Sunday it happened officially.
We didn't talk for a week, and now on Friday night a drunk called him, not to get him back but to just talk. He wasn't very keen on talking and insisted that I'd go sleeping. Well, I did end the call but instead of going home I went to the train station and spent my last money to buy a train ticket to his city.
When I got to the place he was living at and called him he came out but was extremely angry. I tried to talk to him, I tried to make things right. Not to get back together. Just to end things on a good note. Maybe even be in contact sometimes.
What I didn't expect was this coldness. He was so.. numb. He didn't seem to care at all. So I ran out from his car.
I sat at a bus stop for hours, just.. thinking. Or something. Finally I called a former friend/fuck buddy who was living in the same city. I didn't know what else to do. I had stopped communication with him before I got together with my boyfriend. But we didn't end this fighting.
He came to pick me up and took me home. He stayed the night. I didn't really know if I wanted company or not.. I felt I would have prefer for him to leave but when I imagined being alone I thought this thought was much scarier.
I called my ex boyfriend the next day, I had written some questions on a paper and asked him could we talk and could I ask these questions. I said I just didn't want things to end like this. He agreed. We had a really calm and adult conversation until he asked how I got home and after hearing I got home with this friend he asked did I spend the night with him. I don't like to lie so I did say that yes.
He got furious. He said that it showed very well how much our relationship meant for me. He said that he thought I had come there really because I cared about him but now he saw it was all bullshit. I tried so much to explain him that I dealt with getting over him already during the last month of our relationship because I knew it was going to end.
He didn't listen to me, and finally ended the call though I pleaded him not to. He didn't pick up anymore.

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So I dated this guy Anthony for a year. We had an amazing relationship for the first 8 months, he was in a major car accident and we became so close during that time. He was my best friend, my sounding board, made me feel so beautiful and safe and just taken care of. The sex was MINDBLOWING and I have never felt that way with anyone else. The last four months we hit a wall. We've always been opposites in some ways (mostly political views and morals). It seems like the last four months we just argued all the time and fought over petty things. He broke up with me because we had been arguing a lot that month and we fought over how much time we were going to spend at each of our families houses for the Fourth of July. It's been two months, filled with late night conversations and a couple hookups between the two of us. He's been with other people but I haven't since we broke up. He took to a wild streak and partied and drank and got kinda reckless. I took up running and focusing on my career. After a few weeks of no contact (we would just text every now and then) Last Saturday he called me, while I was asleep. The next day I got ahold of him and we went to an ice cream place then a few parks. In that time we ended up kissing, he told me that I looked beautiful and he missed me. He played me a few songs he had found that reminded him of me. The whole time we hung out the sexual tension was insane, so I mentioned that and I asked him...what we were doing, why we were hanging out? I told him that I wanted him again but that I was enjoying me independence and he agreed. So then he suggested that we decide to start being friends with benefits...which neither of us has never done. Of course I was like hell no at first. But then I thought maybe...so long as we are only with eachother because that's just gross. And it wouldn't be adding to my number of partners. So after setting some conditions, we agreed to start casual sex with the intentions of getting back together. Sort of a trial run. So he came back to my house, we had sex, he basically just confessed his love to me and held me all night and we pinky swore that if things go right for us in the next few months that we will be together. I went to his house last night. We made pizzas and watched tv, cuddled, then had sex. I left because I had to work but he walked me to my car and for 10 min we tried to say goodbye for the night and he just kept kissing me and saying how much he loved me. Then I got home and he asked me if I missed him and said he missed me like crazy. We text all day. He tells me he misses me and he loves me, we're hanging out today and he texted me today saying after today e can't see me till Saturday because he's helping his uncle move. So we have plans for Saturday.

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I met this guy at Uni.We studied together and usually first semester and we just say hi to each other.Second semester we exchange numbers and start texting but mostly school stuff,Now our program is nearly over we text each other daily about many stuff,I said to him that I start to have so feelings into him and he said he havent think about us in such way and he consider me as a close friend,
After that we still talked we met yesterday and he drove me home,saying also that I look lovely on my promo video from work and asking if I go for a party nxt week,when I said I am not as I am working he said it will not be fun without me (we never party together before).

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So recently, I’ve gotten interested in Korean Culture. And the local beauty supply lady knows this and since my mom tells her everything. The lady (who happens to be Japanese) told my mom about this Korean guy that works at my favorite sushi restaurant. I had never seen him because he didn’t work the days I went. Anyways, the Lady told him all about me and how I’ve been trying to self teach myself Korean and if he’d teach me. He told her yes. She asked him if he was single and he said yes. I forgot what else but she told him but it was lot. He actually thought I was Japanese when he first heard about me because of the lady. He was surprised to find out that I'm American and apparently thought it was cool that I was interest in his culture and stuff. I was introduced to him by the lady when we went to go eat on the day he worked.

So now, when I go in he says hello and bye (it was nice saying you) to me and smiles and everything. But in the last month I hadn’t been in on the days we worked. So the other day, I went with my friends and he was working. At first, he didn’t say Hi. It was pretty busy and since I hadn’t been in in a while thought he maybe forgot me. Anyways when he came over to our table and saw me he instantly smiled at me and said hi. When we finished our meal I didn’t try to wait and say bye to him and awkwardly bow at him like I usually do since it was busy However, while he was walking away and already past our table he noticed I was leaving and so he stopped, backed up and then turned around smiled bright and said good bye at me. I’ve noticed he doesn’t say bye to a lot of the customers unless they are walking by him same with saying hello.

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How do I ask him to not touch me without offending him...

By dreams_of_roses | Jul 05 2014

So I'm the only female at my workplace at a grill in the mall, and all the guys there are from Uzbekistan. I really like working with them -- they're all friendly and nice, and are easygoing. The thing is one of them seems to be making advances, but I can't be sure. He and I talk a little bit and he's always happy to see me when I come in. I'm a henna tattoo artist, so when I have a new design on my arm he notices it and takes my hand to look at it closer (which I'm fine with), but he brushes his hand over the new design and he does that a lot, and he touches my back a lot. I think it's supposed to be friendly, but something doesn't feel right. I don't know him very well, and I don't know how to ask him to stop touching me without offending him. I don't know if he likes me or that's just the way he is or what...

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So there is this guy from south American and I invited him over for dinner he lived it and was smitten with me for a week after that, but when I saw him at a meeting I didn't want to talk to him because I didn't want to serm desperate, so he came up to me and some friends he struck up a convo and I asked him what is his type, he tried to evade the question so I said what have your previous gf looked like he said two girls from europ and one girl from spain, but he said some of his closest friends are asian, but whenvthis European lokking girl walked by his whole body turned toward her, but he said it doesn't matter the race it depends on personality

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