Hey, my boyfriend and I are both 19 and have been together for coming up to 2 years, over this course of time I have caught him speaking to multiple girls at a time some flirty and others not - I'm no angel either I have flirted twice in the 2 years both times admitted to. He's going to college relatively soon and I just have so much anxiety about what will happen, he has never physically cheated but I'm really nervous that this boundary will be crossed. I have confronted him and he says that he wants to change and that he only sees a future with me but that his change wont be immediate - do you have any advice on what I should do and how I should approach it?

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Okay so I knew this guy from high school and I'm going to be a sophomore in college and I moved away for college and now I'm back in town we matched on tinder I never expected to click yes on just figured I would because he would only know I did if he did as well and in our conversation he said he was thinking the same exact thing oh and I forgot to mention that I liked him a lot in high school and he knew but he turned me down he never dated anyone in high school or anything and neither did I so after we matched the next day he messaged me on tinder and we just did some friendly talking seeing how each others year had been and then he gave me his number and told me to text him and so I did and we were talking some more and I asked him why he now had interest in me and he also follows me on snapchat so he knows what I post and stuff and I've also lost 40 pounds since high school so I look much more attractive now and he said that he always thought that I was chill and that he had just matured since then which I would agree on I think I haven't seen him in person since high school so I then told him I did t really know that much about him I didn't even know his favorite color so he asked if I wanted to get to know him better and I said only if he wanted to get to know me better and so we were basically playing 20 questions and then we were talking about interests and we both mentioned something that we liked and he said that we should do that together among a few other instances where he suggested us hanging out and eventually he said he was falling asleep and that it was good talking to me and getting to know me better and that he would text me the next night to get to know me better and I texted back goodnight and so the next night he doesn't text until 10 at night he asked what I was doing I told him just got done with some homework and that I was watching tv and he said that he had just finished watching the giants play baseball on tv and so we asked two more questions of 20 questions thing and then I replied something and then I never got a text back it was at like 1 in the morning but it has now been three days and I haven't heard one thing from him but I know that he has looked at my snapchat so I'm just so confused why one night he was making potential plans and the next night he never responds and then I just never hear back from him again and he texted me first both times and since I used to have feelings for him I am just so confused what his intentions were and why he would text me like that and then nothing and I don't know what I would have done to him to play such a cruel joke and lead me on like that when he knew I liked him in high school

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We have been together for months, everything fine and then out of the blue stopped texting me… I'm confused what has happened?

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I've gone on dates with a guy recently, and we kissed yesterday...

By libbythomas | Apr 15 2016

Am I using him, or making the most of an opportunity?

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Met a guy on Grindr (not usually my thing) and we had a really fascinating conversation. He suggested we exchange numbers and said he'd blow me up the next day, which he did. We went out for drinks, then ended up going to dinner and having a great time. When I headed home sent me a text asking if I made it home alright, and if I'd be interested in seeing him again the next day. We met again for dinner and drinks and then went to his house. We slept in the same bed, but he said he wanted to hold off on having sex (which was totally cool with me.) He asked me to text him later that evening, but he wasn't particularly chatty for the next day. We made tenative plans for this weekend, but considering he's usually so talkative I can't help but wonder if the communications slow down is a bad sign.

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I went to hs with this guy and we haven't spoken in years. We match on tinder, decide to meet up at a bar. Everything was great, we kissed. We've been texting every single day. After our first meet up we've been meeting up at his place since. One time he said he couldn't stand it and met me at the library to give me a few kisses. However after that all we do is meet up at his place, and things get pretty heated. He tells me he really likes me, that he only wants me. He calls me his, while cuddling one night he said he wants me to be his girlfriend. Today I've gone on tinder to check and see if he's been on and it says he has.

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Does my best friend have feelings for me? / Do I have feelings for him? / Does it even matter?

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Is he into me or am I just a side girl?

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me and my crush texted on thrusday and Friday then he never texted back and 18 days have passed.Why?

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What does he want?

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Boyfriend blindsided me and dumped me? Long?

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my crush texted me this

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what does he really mean?

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Tindered

We met at a thrift shop then headed to my place. This was...

By lovelessone | Jan 10 2016

So, I met this guy from Tinder a few days ago. We met up that same night. We went thrift shopping, then I invited him over to my place. However, I totally said upfront that I'm only down to chill...like make out and fool around. No sex. No Relationship stuff. He comes over, first thing he does is make out with....that's totally fine. That's what I wanted. Then, we make it to my bed in our underclothing. There's just a lot of touching and kissing. However, we do a lot of talking and laughing, holding hands and things seem to be going great; didn't intend to have chemistry with this guy. So, of course, I catch a feeling like an idiot. I mean...it's perfect. It's been like 3 hours. It's 12am. He's like...let's take a shower and I'm like naaaah. Then we just got back in the bed. And know, he has work in the work. He asks me if I do and I say no. In my head, I wanted him to stay so badly. But, sometimes when I don't want to be vulnerable with guys I pretend that I'm not interested. And he's like..."man, it's 1am." And I was like, "bye!" Then he got up and left. I have no idea if that was a cue for me to invite him to sleep over or what. Because, after we went thrift shopping - he walked me to my car and just stood there...looking. I guess that was a cue that he wanted to come over. I asked him, "so, you wanna come to my place?" So, I'm confused. Before he left, I told him to text me when he got home to make sure he made it there safely. He texted me he was safe and that was it. The next day, I was like...if you ever wanna hang out, I'm totally down. Then like hours later, I asked if he wasn't interested. No response. I haven't texted him anymore because I don't want to come off as clingy and crazy. I'm just curious as what happened. If it was me that pushed him away; I honestly did not mean to tell him to leave in a bitchy way - that's a total defense mechanism for me not wanting to appear vulnerable. I've done it before with other guys. But, I just wanted your take on this. Do you think I could have possibly pushed him away or do you think that he just was not that into me? Thanks!

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