Is it okay for your boyfriend to be texting another girl daily - morning, noon, and night?

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I have been dating a guy for about 1 month from Tinder. Once we got exclusive I asked him to not have dating sites on his phone. He said he deleted them off his phone, but while 'checking' on him after a few weeks it said he was on '15 minutes ago'. I confronted him about it by showing up the screen shot, after he denied it. I felt so hurt and sad that he said one thing and did the other. I have really deep feelings for him, but I told him if he wants to be lovers or friends, because both come with differnt rules. He says lovers, but I want to be friends, but I dont want to loose him. I told him everything and he got defensive so I am giving him time to think about what I said and process his feelings. Yet I am being rational right? It was wrong for him to say something and do the opposite. My girl friends think I am right, and my guy friends think it is not a big deal.

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What is he doing/thinking...

By megr339 | Feb 10 2015

So he and I dated a while back but never officially so I left but he would get jealous and check in with me randomly. We hooked up a couple of times twice of which were when he was in a relationship (I didn't know that he was either time) I know I'm stupid for those times. But he said that I was always part of his life because he cared about me and doesn't want to loose me. (This is all when I confronted him about cheating on his girlfriend with me.)

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I dated this guy and we had amazing chemistry like truly amazing. However I learned that he really likes to party and that wasn't my thing so I stop texting him back. What a shame. Two weeks later, I was late and tested pregnant.
I waited until I had my first ultrasound to tell him. His reaction was no less than what I imagined! He told me to "fuck off" and that he wants nothing to do with it! And that's he's NEVER paying for child support because this is all my fault. So I left him alone but now 2 months later.. He won't text me at all and ignores all my calls. I just ask him to speak like adults. Let's figure this out.
The fact is, I don't want him to come to me years later asking for custody with his kid. It's not fair to my baby. Being in and out of his life like that. I know I can't change him! He needs to do that himself. But he needs to realize that for me? This is a very serious and permanent decision. Is it wrong for wanting him to realize that he's being a selfish bitch?

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I have a strictly physical relationship with a guy (his choice).
He goes long periods of time without seeing me. We had sex 5 days ago and im dying. He hasnt asked to see and has turned me down twice. I thought strictly physical would mean we'd at least see each other more

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There's a guy I was with a few years ago. We knew each other from childhood and ended up dating. Long story short, I broke up with him because he started talking to a girl I'm no liner friends with, AFTER I told him about her. He lied about it but I found out from social media. Confronted him and broke it off. He made it his business to have me in his life some way and after a year or two we became friends.

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About 8-9 months ago I met this guy on Whisper, he was super cute, very flirty and incredibly fun to talk to. We exchanged snapchats and we talked much more and got to know each other and since we only lived a half an hour apart, there was some hope for us. We started talking more and it lasted for months like this and I was happy. He would say he loved me and always flirt with me but he would say that were not really official because of the distance and it would probably only stay in text. We even added each other on Facebook too so it's not like we were hiding each other. And a couple months ago I saw that he had moved a couple of extra hours away, and it broke my heart that he didn't tell me. But we still talk and he's actually come down a couple times to see me since then. Now he doesn't talk to me as often anymore and he comes up with excuses. But what I don't understand is the he told me he wanted to end up with me but still talks and is romanti with other girls.

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This guy and I met on okc about a month ago. The first date was pretty low key. We talked at a bar for a while and went to a show together. We were both pretty tipsy by the time the show started and somehow we just started making out. Then on the way back, we made out again in his car. the chemistry was great - I don't think that I've ever had such great physical chemistry with someone right away. Anyways, sometime during the next week, he texted for another date. He ended up canceling it in the morning because he got sick. I didn't really care and sent him a text to see how he was doing a couple days later. He said he was much better and would like to see me. so we grabbed dinner and had a great conversation which surprisingly intellectual. I really appreciated his thoughts. Anyways, he drove me home and we made out again in the car with some touching. I texted him afterwards and thanked him for the ride and the good time. He texted me back right away and had since been in daily touch with me. I had a couple of finals during that week so I didn't have time to see him. He checked on me a few times and offered to bring me food the night before the exam. I really appreciated his sweet offer and told him that he should stop by to say hi since he was 10 min away from where I was. He came and we hung out a bit. a lot of kissing and making out, finally things got a little heated and he was about to turn off the light. I told him that I wasn't ready to sleep with him yet because I get emotionally attached easily with sex and I wasn't afraid of getting hurt. He was nice about it and said that he understands and I should always be honest with him. The night went on well and he kissed me goodbye a couple of times and told me to let him know if I wanted to hang out over the weekend. There was a party at my school on that weekend - so I texted him later and asked him if he wanted to come over. He sounded a little hesitant. Then I got a little worried because I realized that he could have mistakenly thought that I was asking him to hang out with people in my life. I just played along and canceled a few days later. We ended up going to a movie; he was just very affectionate as usual. lots of touching my hair, kissing my forehead and hand, and hand holding. Anyways, ever since that night, he started to cool down. I had a couple of exams after that weekend. he texted me on the Tuesday to check to see how things went and wished me good luck on the next few things that I had. I liked that he remembered what was going on in my life so I thanked him. I contacted him on Wed and told him that I was done with my test and I was happy. All I got was "woohoo". so I thought maybe he was busy with work. so I asked him how's work. he told me that he was having a very long day. I offered to visit him and bring him food/drink. He declined nicely and said that he just needed to go home and collapse. I just told him to not worry and get rested. That was 2 days ago; I still haven't heard anything from him, which pisses me off. He acted like he was into me for like the past two weeks; and this week I only got a couple of texts from him with minimal content. He's just been not responsive. I don't plan on contacting him unless he reaches out to me and show some genuine interest in seeing me.

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I met this guy at a pub in 2010, I was behind the bar and he was fun, smart and flirty. Something clicked, I realised we were in the same University and be became friends on Facebook. We met a couple of times at random uni things during the year, he had a girlfriend at the time and nothing came of it. I finished my course and left the country. In the course of the last 4 years, he's messaged me whenever we were in the same part of the world and we never met(it's only happened twice though). Recently, I came back to the country and just dropped him a line letting him know that I was back and we got to talking regularly. He's still a lot of fun and he's really gotten better with age.

A friend of mine was sending me a parcel and I mentioned it to him in passing, he joked about how he travels a lot(work-related) and if he was in her part of the world he'd pick it up for me. I laughed about it and left it at that. A week later he tells me he's going to the exact city she's in and if she hadn't sent it already he'd pick it up. She hadn't gotten around to posting it and so he picked it up. At this point I was grateful, but didn't think anything else of it. He lives about a 4 hour drive away from me and I told him I'd drive down over the weekend to pick it up. He said he was busy for the next two weekends and said he'd let me know when he was free. However, on the second weekend(the one where he was supposedly busy) he called up and asked me if I minded him driving up, his calendar had just opened up, he needed a break, etc, etc. I usually have quiet weekends and this one was no different so I said I was free and he said he'd drive up on Saturday morning. He turned up mid-afternoon, that spark from all those years was still there and long story short we spent most of the weekend in bed.

I specified to him that I don't have time for a relationship, I'm simply too busy with my career and plan to stay that way for the next 10 or so years. He was fine with it, thrilled even, said that he wasn't looking for one either, his past ones had left him too scarred to trust in them again. It was an ideal situation, he's a nice, caring, smart, funny, slight wicked(in a good way) guy and we click very well together.

The problem with it is, I think I might be in a relationship and not realise that I'm in one. We're chatting on Skype, Snapchat, Facebook inbox, whatsapp, Hangouts through the course of the day, sometimes simultaneously on more than one of them. We're on call every second day, even if they're short 4-5 minute calls. We've hooked up 5 of the last 6 weekends. I've hung out with his friends, he's hung out with mine, I've even made tentative summer plans with one of his girl-friends. And as I'm listing all of this out I'm kind of realising that I might have answered the question I'm going to ask. But this all hit me last night when we were on call and he told me that he wanted to kiss me the very first time he saw me and how it sucks that we never managed to meet more often and how he wishes we'd hooked up sooner.

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What the hell does he want...

By bellaleon | Nov 16 2014

Got into a huge fight. I told him I don't want anything to do with him anymore. He was supposed to come and explain to me the reason we're fighting (something to do with fidelity and how he thinks I come off too strong).

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I dated a guy for 2 months and did completely the wrong thing. I looked at his phone messages (I know - I hate myself for it). Being honest, I told him and said I was so sorry and never done that before (and I haven't).

I sent him a couple of texts (I have never sent the first text before) and he responded saying "we need a break and see how we go" and I asked it was a permanent break and he said "not permanent!!!"

I sent two other messages to him - stupidly and he didn't respond.

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Any advice in how to get him to talk...

By provenzee | Sep 28 2014

So we've been dating for almost a year but lately we've been fighting a lot and he seems really distant. I sent him this text right after an argument.

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So the shortest little backstory I can write: we live in different countries, met while he had a girlfriend, amazing chemistry on both sides, started off with e-mails after they broke up (their choice entirely, I had no doing), then texting, occasional calling (English not being my native language, I kinda try to avoid the calling part), finally had sex and... things progressed! I mean messages went from once or twice a week to almost daily, visits got longer, discussions more serious. He does pen me in when he talks about future plans, but he does not see this as a relationship right at the moment, us not being and never having been together in the same place for more than a couple of days (and the sane part of me agrees 100%). He said he's not sleeping with anyone else, he said he loved getting texts from me so I should stop waiting for him to text me first, when we're together it's just like a normal, steady relationship, some of his friends know me by name, not his mom though... Bad parts? He travels a lot with work and I strongly believe that he has a "me" in every country, partly because I see his FB friends number increasing after every journey. Mostly girls, always from the country he was in. Didn't confront him about this yet, but I'm sure he'll just say they added him and he's a friendly guy, which can be true, because I saw him doing this firsthand, showing me his phone, after a large number of girls added him after a day of work.

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Do you think this means they had a physical affair ...

By sallytaylor | May 28 2014

Found this on my husband's phone. She is on the left, he is on the right. She is a colleague who knows he is married. I confronted him about it and he refuses to discuss with me. Won't acknowledge anything at all.

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Does he really forgive me and does he really like me ...

By curryricebowl | Apr 28 2014

I went on 2 dates with this guy I really liked (i'll call him W) However I really messed up. I know it's terrible what I did and it was a big mistake but here it goes.. Before our second date I met another guy. Who was really, really into me (I'll call him S). He showed a lot of affection and it seemed like i'd fallen in love with both. Because I wasn't sure if the W actually liked me or not (he was way to out of my league) and I knew he was going to leave the country after a year because he was only here for internship. I decided to stop going out with him. However he convinced me to meet up as "friends". That night we had intercourse and afterwards I felt so guilty because I was basically dating S. Somehow my sister started talking to me about them and out of guilt and shame I told her W sexually abused me. (I know this is so wrong and I regretted it for so long, the issue only got bigger and bigger) My sister pushed me to tell my parents. The night after, my parents saw W in a bar and confronted him. Of course W didn't do anything and they got into a fight. I didn't talk to W for about 5 months and the relationship with S didn't last as well. Last weekend I saw W in a taxi and I knew he saw me too. When I got home I send him a message and explained everything. He told me he actually really quite liked me and thought we had a lot in common. He said he doesn't hate me and if i'll be honest from now on he'll forgive me and we can pick up where ever we left off and see if we still share stuff in common. I told him he had no clue how happy that made me and he said: "actually no I don't, as far as I was concerned I was a distant past to you" "So you have a lot to prove to me ha". I asked him to meet up sometime soon and proposed some days. He reacted with: "Oh okay.. Yeah that's fine then I'll let you know"

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Does he really forgive me and does he really like me ...

By curryricebowl | Apr 28 2014

I went on 2 dates with this guy I really liked (i'll call him W) However I really messed up. I know it's terrible what I did and it was a big mistake but here it goes.. Before our second date I met another guy. Who was really, really into me (I'll call him S). He showed a lot of affection and it seemed like i'd fallen in love with both. Because I wasn't sure if the W actually liked me or not (he was way to out of my league) and I knew he was going to leave the country after a year because he was only here for internship. I decided to stop going out with him. However he convinced me to meet up as "friends". That night we had intercourse and afterwards I felt so guilty because I was basically dating S. Somehow my sister started talking to me about them and out of guilt and shame I told her W sexually abused me. (I know this is so wrong and I regretted it for so long, the issue only got bigger and bigger) My sister pushed me to tell my parents. The night after, my parents saw W in a bar and confronted him. Of course W didn't do anything and they got into a fight. I didn't talk to W for about 5 months and the relationship with S didn't last as well. Last weekend I saw W in a taxi and I knew he saw me too. When I got home I send him a message and explained everything. He told me he actually really quite liked me and thought we had a lot in common. He said he doesn't hate me and if i'll be honest from now on he'll forgive me and we can pick up where ever we left off and see if we still share stuff in common. I told him he had no clue how happy that made me and he said: "actually no I don't, as far as I was concerned I was a distant past to you" "So you have a lot to prove to me ha". I asked him to meet up sometime soon and proposed some days. He reacted with: "Oh okay.. Yeah that's fine then I'll let you know"

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