It was like a movie...now what?

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My best friend and I kissed!

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Almost half a year ago I met this guy at work. We felt an instant...

By lightprincess | Apr 04 2016

Should I just ask him if he wants to be in a relationship?

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What do I do Hpw do i get him to like me...

By fandomgirl394 | May 02 2015

The guy i like likes my best friend and she doesn't like him and i want him to like me.

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Met someone on tinder and its turned complicated was it a second chance of happiness chatered?

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Why are guys so complicated...

By emdabliu | Feb 20 2015

I gave a guy a card on a Valentine's Day. Now he's telling me that he is confused because "a guy should give a girl such a card, not a girl to a guy. you gave me that and I have nothing for you in return". He seems shy by the way and I think that maybe he likes me. What does it mean what he said about that card? Is he really confused or is it just being nice?

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What is he trying to let me know...

By mimibohorquezgonzalez | Nov 21 2014

Okay so I like this guy but he is complicated we were talking and he said he likes girls thatmake the 1 st move I told him i like guys who make the 1 st move how did the conversation end up likes i asked him that my friend needs help she likes this guy but the guy. She likes is complicated.

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I have this guy friend who I met in 1st year of college. He was in a relationship at that time, and he is a good looking guy. I started liking him since day 1, and I became really good friends with him. I usually did things for him, and he often took me for granted but at the end of the day he was a very good guy, he was there when I needed something, mostly, at least. His girlfriend, I got acquainted with her, and we became friends too and I usually had 1-2 occasions of being the third wheel, which I made clear to him I did not want to be, and he respected my judgments. We became closer as we did college events together, and he made it a point to delve into my talents and appreciate, compliment them and encourage me. We made a common friend and and we are called the 'trio' in our college for our friendship. In between, he stopped talking to me ( or for that matter, anyone) in college because his girlfriend wanted more time of his, which he tried giving. Then the second semester of college started and his visits to his girlfriend lessened. We had our usual friendship going on. In between I told him I liked him, but he told me that he has a girlfriend already. I told him I do not want a relationship or something, I was just letting him know, and he appreciated it and took it in the positive stride. It made it easy for me that he was okay with it. Meanwhile, I used to flirt with guys and he used to make fun of me with their names. His making fun was often mocking at me, and it was weird, because others teased me but when he teased, it felt weird. As if he were saying I know you like ME so why put the garb of liking someone else? But this might be me just overthinking.

Anyways, so our friendship grew deeper and I took a trip to his hometown, and we had long walks and long chats together. Before going to his hometown, he had broken up with his girlfriend. More like, she had broken up with him, because he was not giving her time, plus they had come to a decision that they wanted different things in their lives. Their relationship had been physical, and it was a long time one, 4 years strong.

I told him how beautiful my friendship was for him and he also reciprocated the same. We held hands and walked together.
During the trip I got a message from his ex saying I should not come in between them and destroy what they have for each other. Here is where he acted very weird. When I told him this, he told me to ignore her. While on the same day, he went and dropped her off to some station as she was leaving somewhere. He easily managed to keep both the parties happy. Pretty clever of him, is not it? I was pretty angry, that he did not take my side, did not advocate for me, because she was being pretty rude.
Then she said Sorry, and I acquiesced.

Coming back to college, everything was normal and he and one more friend of mine got close to my mum too. My mum has a habit of being friends with my friends, and she is not one of those nagging mothers, but she is often the cooler of the lot. She is actually a 18 year old at heart. So one day when my mum came to college, he and the other friend of mine welcomed her with really beautiful surprises. It was really sweet of both of them. This intensified my feelings for the guy.

Both of my friends decided to come to my house . Which they did.

Here is where a weird thing happened- This guy became very close to me. In college even hugging was problematic to him ( plus I myself am not a person who hugs easily). I had a habit of pulling his cheeks which he detests, and often scolded me for it. But at home, he became really free and different. He touched me by my waist, held me in his arms, once I sat on the bed and pulled me towards him.
He became emotional while seeing my childhood photos, so much so that he clicked photos of my childhood photos for keeping with him.

And, the clincher of all- one fine day at my home when my parents were sleeping, my friend, he and I were watching a movie. Both of us were in a separate sheet, and my friend was in the other. This guy hugged me, put his legs on mine, clenched me, and dug his face on my neck.
Then he felt me up. All over. ALL OVER. And I did not stop him, because well I was emotionally inclined towards him and I felt that he has feelings too.

But coming back to college, he became normal, again. Very stand-offish. When I confronted him, ( via text), he told me that he did it without analysing or weighing, something he wanted to do once. I told him I did it because I had feelings, he said regardless of feelings one could have stopped, and if I had stopped he would have stopped. And he told me not to think of him as desperate. And also, he told me to get over him. He said it is high time to get over him, to do good to both him and I.

Then, he has lessened conversations with me. He is in his formal best, as if he and I dont know each other. he does not give me good vibes at all.

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I have been best friends with a boy for about eight months now. We're really close, we tell each other everything but we don't act like brothers and sisters, the way most platonic relationships are described. All of our friends are constantly convinced that we should be dating because we're "perfect" for each other. He told me that he doesn't want anything serious whereas he knows that I want to have a boyfriend, and not friends with benefits. At the moment, he is having a friends with benefits relationship with another girl that lives about 40 minutes away from the city we both live in. I have accepted that maybe we are 100% just best friends, and I'm fine with that...but why does he keep holding my hand? (Note: he only does this when we have no friends around) and he constantly puts his arm around my shoulder while we're walking and hanging out, even with other friends around and he punches my nose..which are all flirty signs in my opinion.

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Do you think he likes me or is being a nice guy....

By lcduffy_3 | Oct 02 2013

So last year I broke up with this guy I dated for almost two years from high school, and I had a class in college with a guy I went to high school with that I wasn't entirely close with but we still sat and talked to each other in class. We became very close and as friends we went to the movies together on valentines day and we had lunch here and there. Than in the summer we didn't talk at all really and his other friend actually liked me but nothing happened there at all! But this school year started and we started talking again and going to some parties together and hanging out. We text but usually I text first or start the convo 9 out of 10 times. And I met all his guy friends at college, and they are nice to me and like hanging out. But he is so shy compared to me and hard to read.

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I know that in these days is your anniversary. My damn memory doesn't remember which. In any case I hope that this will be the happiest year of what you have had in life by now and it will serve you to become a woman even more amazing and special than you already are. Kiss.

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We are friends that were always attracted to eachother and even liked eachother for a while and now "finally" got with eachother after being in a complicated situation for a while... but after it happened he now just wants to hang out and it seems like he just wants to be friends...

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Me & dude met in 2008 & been together for almost 5 years on & off.

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Him: so do you like any one?
Me: yeah, kinda (i like him) do you?
Him: i do but it's weird
Me: what do you mean?
Him: it's just complicated.. does he know you like him?
Me: nope, does she?
Him: no

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me To bad, for all the ppl who might get lucky to get a priv session in the bathroom. HER: hahah yep! ALL this ppl tht im lucky enough to get with! ME: im sure they would be enough ppl but u are always to shitfaced to make it even into the bathroom HER noooo you just always make out with me in there

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