I got to a know a guy who goes to the same church as I do. He's 37 and seemed really settled and stable in his career and all. We went out on a date and I felt spiritually and connected to him and I really wish to get to know him better. He sent a polite good night text after the date when he sent me off. However the last 2 days he barely texted back me at all (we met on Friday and today's Sunday) and today when I bumped into him he seemed surprised and then sent a polite have a good evening kind of text.

I don't wanna overthink this but is he interested in me or not? It felt so weird we suddenly stopped talking. I really like this one so I don't wanna be desperate but yet I don't know if he likes me or not. Things seemed so good before the date OMG

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He really does want me to go on the Spring Break trip? Will he ask me to Prom?

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The boy i like from church came into my restaurant- the place where i work- with his family...WHAT ARE THE ODDS!!! And i know for a fact he didn't know i was gonna be there. I didn't say hi thought bc i am awkward and his family doesn't know me and i am kinda shy. But he kept looking at me again and again!!!!! And i saw him at church today when i got baptized and he kept looking at me again!

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He goes to my church with me, i met him through a church trip and we have said hi to each other a couple times. I added him on snapchat and he added me back. I don't know how to start talking to him :(

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I recently started dating or rather seeing a older man. He...

By notheotherwoman | Feb 04 2015

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So there's this guy from my church who I have been in a music group with, and we played a lot together for Christmas, and he has been texting me a lot lately. Asking me about my christmas vacation and stuff. Anyway, earlier this week he asked me what my plans were for this week, and I said I didn't have any. I thought he was going to ask me to do something on New Years, but he didn't. So later I asked him if he had any plans for New Years, and he said no and that he was thinking of asking me the same thing. So I asked him if he wanted to do anything with me and another friend. He said he would check around and see if we could plan something.

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Okay, I've had this crush for a while. We are church friends and he's my dream guy. I finally mustered up the courage to text him. I asked him 'hey what time is the Christmas Eve service?' And he messaged back '6:30-7:30' I said 'kk thanks' and he said 'Np Shan' but he only says SHAN once in a blue moon. Maybe only twice has he ever done it.

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So I'm start dating this guy , aandand well he mentioned that he cheated on a girl 7 years ago, that it was something stupid that he done , he went to therapy, psychologist even got close to church , catholic to be exact... he said that he won't cheat ever again but I have my doubts

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Ok, so I just moved churches and as soon as I walked in I immediately liked this guy. Well it's been a month and a half. He knows I like him but didn't make it a big deal. I am a lil shy how can I gain the confidence to talk to him more. How do I approach him?

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Sorry this is long.

Here's the deal. We met on a mission trip with our church organization in Latin America last July. He's (let's call him Billy) from the DC metro area and I'm from Southern New England. We got along really well all throughout the trip but he was seeing someone and even had plans to propose.

Last October, I was going to a conference in DC and sent Billy an e-mail asking if he and his girlfriend would like to grab dinner with me and another friend of mine (let's call him Bob) who lives in DC (even though Billy was taken, we came back to the US with a strong friendship that I'd like to keep going). I never got a response to that e-mail so I figured that was a no. Then, as I was on a train to DC, I got a random text from Billy asking how I was doing. I casually responded that I was doing well and was actually headed to his area (which, he OBVIOUSLY knew). So we scheduled dinner plans for that Saturday night at 6 pm--Billy, me, and Bob. We had initially agreed to meet somewhere but then traffic turned that to him offering to pick me and Bob up. Well, Bob figured that this was turning into a date and ditched me. So when Billy shows up (at almost 9 pm because of traffic and I accidentally gave him the wrong address; it literally took him 4.5 hours to drive to see me), it winds up being just him and me (he and his girlfriend had broken up about 3 weeks before). Seeing as our initial restaurant of choice was closed, we found ourselves at this rather romantic restaurant and stayed there talking past midnight. I insisted on paying for my part of the meal but he wouldn't hear it, so after paying we walked around Capitol Hill for a while before getting back in his car. He dropped me off at Bob's house (where I was crashing for the weekend) around 1:30 am and went home. He text me around 3 am letting me know he got back safely and that he had fun. After that night though, virtually no communication except the occasional text conversation (usually initiated by me).

I found out the name of his town from a mutual friend and in February, I *conveniently* found myself at another conference in Billy's actual town. I let him know that I'd be going to the area a few weeks in advance so we agreed that we'd hang out at some point during the time I was there. When I'm already there, he texts me to ask if I'm free that evening and we make plans to grab dinner. So picks me up at my hotel about an hour late (he had just gone through a few all-nighters studying for midterms and had fallen asleep in the parking lot across the street while he was waiting for me to get back from the conference site) and we go to this Thai restaurant. He initially said he had to leave early to meet with his personal trainer but then we wound up staying and talking past closing and finally the owner had to ask us to leave. When we got back in the car, he randomly asked, "So what about your love life?" and I told him I wasn't seeing anyone or really interested in anyone I knew in my area. The conversation shifted again and we just talked casually the rest of the ride back to my hotel. When we got to the hotel, I managed to impress on him to come in to talk in the lobby area and he said he'd stay for 30 minutes (turned into more than an hour). Finally, he realized the time and that I had to be on the road to the airport in a couple of hours so he left. No kiss on the cheek, hug, handshake, just a wave goodbye. I text him when I got to the airport that morning and he replied "glad you made it safely" and then again nothing heard for a couple of months.

So that brings us to the current situation. My brother and I are taking a road trip and one of our routes would take us through his area. So, last night I e-mailed him:
"Hey Billy, Hope all is well. I recently replaced my phone and lost your number" (okay, I may have lied here) "but wanted to touch base with you because I'll likely be driving through your area next Sunday morning and thought I might stop by your church/ Thought? Best, ME"

He responded with:
"Hey, That would be awesome. The address is........ Look forward to seeing you! Also, my number is .... Thanks, Billy"

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Basically i met this guy at a church class. He was new so i went and sat next to him, and started a casual conversation. He seemed to be really happy that i sat next to him. We talked for about 5 minutes after the class and i ended the conversation. I didn't really see him again after that, but we connected over facebook. I saw that he had a bunch of pictures with a girl. I assumed he was dating her, and didn't think about him again. Then last weekend there was a Young Single Adult conference. I was surprised to see him at the Friday night activity, a dance/rollerskating. He said hi to me and was eager to see me. Then during the dance we danced a few times. Then he asked me to slow dance. Then we just kind of talked throughout the night. Then he went rollerskating with his friends, and told me to join. I said no, then decided i would. So i told him i was going to go get rollerskates and told him to wait for me. So when i got them on, i went out on the rink and his friends left, so it felt sort of like a date. We just had a blast. Then i asked a friend to talk a picture of us, and he told me to send the picture to him, and gave me his number. Then we stopped rollerskating after awhile. We then were just hanging out next to the dance floor, when a salsa dance came on. He was saying how crappy he'd be at salsa dancing and i'd be great, so i said let's try! and we attempted salsa dancing which was terrible, but was a ton of fun! Then there were 2 more slow dances at the end of the dance and he asked me to dance to those 2 dances, while dancing i decided to go out on a limb and asked if he was single, he said he was single. So i don't know what's going on with the girl all over his wall. It's obvious that they were dating but aren't according to him. Then he hugged me twice when we left. Then i text him Saturday night asking if he was coming to the next activity that night and he replied that his brother was having a get together and was invited. Then i saw him Sunday at church. Right when the meeting ended he came up right to me and gave me a hug, which i've observed that he doesn't give anyone hugs. Then i text him that night to ask if he was coming to the activity that was going on that night for the Young Single Adults. He said he wasn't coming because he had to get up early the next morning. Then Monday night text him to tell him where the activity for that night was, and he never replied. So i never texted him again. Then at the activity i decided to leave a little early. I was walking down the hall and saw him come out of a different room. He said he was in there playing the piano. Not sure why he didn't come into the activity but whatever. He gave me a hug when we saw each other, we talked for like 15 minutes, then when saying goodbye he gave me a 2 hugs. I haven't heard from him since. I haven't tried texting him since he never replied to the text i sent monday, and he can always text me. We're both LDS so it's hard to tell if we're just friends or not. So both of us are traditional people when it comes to dating.

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I've liked a boy from my church for six months now, I have such an urge to tell him how I feel but I'm so scared of rejection. There is the rare occasion where I stop and think, "Is this a sign?" Then I think it's just him being friendly. I mean 99.9% of the time he talks to me no different than if he was talking to any other girl. A few could be signs given are as follows: - Sending several kisses to me via text on Christmas Day, sending a blowing kiss smiley along with two kisses on a regular day after saying goodnight - He once called me babe and baby and in between both of these statements he said, "I really like you" inadvertently, the way he came out of it, I don't think he realised he said it but I'm almost certain he meant this in a friends kind of way (we were discussing football at the time and I joked and said I support Chelsea, much to his disappointment) lol. - I was with him once with the rest of my church bible class, during which he stated loudly and clearly that he wanted to stand next to me during a group photo (it was a special occasion) this same day he grabbed my hand, in time for group prayer as if to say, he wanted to hold hands with me in particular but again, I could be blowing this out of proportion.

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I know this guy for years now if don't even know how long, he was kind of dating a friend of mine long time ago! we were just friends! then 2 years ago I went to another country to serve a mission for my church, he is from the same church! during that mission I wasn't able to use email every day except for one day a week and only to email family! so we wrote couple letters in those 18 months I was there! he started seeing someone when I was gone which was fine I wasn't into him! until I came home last October and we started talking over whatsapp every single day for whenever we could use our phone during the day. 2 months ago his girlfriend broke up with him and he was heartbroken he told me everything and yesterday we finally saw each other again after 2 years! it was so good I think I really like this guy! but I never have luck with love in my life guys always back of from me! I fall easily!

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By sam_2 | Mar 20 2014

Their is this guy that likes me. But I'm not to sure what he's playing at he texted me twice once on friday and another on sunday. I was frustrated at him because he never talks to me when I see him. But he texts me. I never do. But I texted him yestarday because I felt bad that I was ignoring his texts. He responded very quickly. Eveything was fine before he use yo call me sit beside me at church etc. But after I aplogized for being mean things went sort of sour. Now he seems to runaway when I see him. Its like he lost his self confidence or something all he does is text now. And its starting to annoy me now. Why text? Is he playing around, wants revenge. I really don't know what to do anymore. Its like he giving me mixed signals. Will he snap out? Or is he playing around.

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So I met this guy a couple weeks ago at youth group. My friend invited me to youth group and I met this guy at youth group. He's a couple years older than me but he's one of the nicest guys ever and has never asked about why I don't have hair. He treats me like I'm a normal person. So last Sunday we sing in the beginning of church and I look over at him and he's staring right at me. I kind of laugh and wave at him while he was playing guitar for the church and he smiles at me. That day he was translating for me because I'm not fluent at Spanish and we were shoulder to shoulder and I was blushing because I'm very shy while being close to someone. My friend could see I was a little uncomfortable so she moved over a bit and I moved over a tad and we were back touching shoulders and he put his arm around the chair. I don't know I just feel like he may have something for me and so does my friend.

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There is this guy at my church that likes me. He hasn't said it yet but his actions speak louder than his words. I barley know him, I know of his 2 brothers (they have no sister.) Anyways He asked to sit beside me and ever since than he has. Invites me to church programs etc. There was this one time where I missed church for a couple of weeks and I don't know how he got my number since I didn't have a cell phone and he called my aunts house ( that's where I'm staying at.) He called still to see how I was even when I came back to church. He seemed very concerned. Than I got a cell phone and He started texting me. But there was this one time when I was sort of being mean to him and he gave me the silent treatment. I phoned to apologized. He text me saying don't feel bad I didn't do anything. ( even though I know I did.) Couple days later he texted me saying how's it going etc. I never text him he always initiates the text and I end them. The thing is I find frustrating is at church ( he doesn't talk to me or anything just hi and bye.) every time he sees me he like sort of runs away or keeps his distance. He always says hi and bye but that's it and it's confusing. Why be like this and still text me. Why does he have to be like this. I saw him at the bus stop he seemed really shy and intimated by me but I don't understand before he was fine.

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