By julieparis | Mar 23 2015
I talked to this guy online and we decided to meet for a drink.
One week later he hadn't sent me any text (and I hasn't either) so I sent him a text saying: what should I think of such a silence? He answered: what do you mean? I said: weren't we supposed to have a drink a week ago? He answered: well yeah but we hadn't set a date, wuth pleasure, when would you be available?
We decided to meet a week later but the day before the first date he cancelled, apologizing, and asked me when I would be free for a new date. I suggested we could meet another week later.
On the day of the date, I sent him a text 1h30 before the date telling him I would be on time. He started answering something (I could see the small dots moving) but finally didn't send any answer. I sent him another text: tell me yes or no so that I don't wait for you. He finally answered me 30 minutes before the supposed date time: good evening, we have to postpone, I am sorry, I am sick, I will get back to you. I haven't answered and have had no news since.
By j9chi | Mar 18 2015
I started dating a guy two months ago. He travels a lot for work. Initially we texted a lot. Then it died down to every few days. I was ready to move on (thinking I had been ghosted) when he sent me a text on a Sunday asking me out for Friday. I responded, but didn't really hear info on plans until 4:45pm the night of the date. We went out, I spent the night and when I left he started making promises about hoping to see me sooner. We were texting every few days again when he said something came up and he had to fly home soon to see his mom, and that he'd let me know ASAP when we could make plans for another date. I texted a couple of times during the week just to see how he was doing, but didn't really get much of a response. I started to write him off again when he texted that he was just leaving to go visit his mom (I seem to always get texts when he's leaving for another trip). Is this a "slow fade" and should I just move on?
By alalz | Feb 22 2015
Dated a guy for three months five years ago. I was young, dumb , stupid and screwed things up and he ended it.
By bevcam | Feb 09 2015
We have been talking for a month. He works a lot so whenever he has a chance to see me, he does so. We have gone out on a couple dates, but most of the time we spent is at my place cuddling while watching Netflix. He's always punctual and when he says he will come he does so. He makes me smile like no one else can and I feel happy and safe whenever I'm around him.
By annaj | Feb 03 2015
So I invited him over for dinner at my place. 3rd time meeting him. Had to cancel making dinner because I need to work late. He texted back "can I bring pizza over'? I said ok. He said "see you then with massage slippers and a martini."
By yourgirl | Jan 22 2015
I've been talking to this guy since early November. We met on tinder but started texting soon after. We hit it off and had talked every day until 6 days ago.
We talked about literally everything, we haven't met because our schedules are polar opposites. I have classes in the mornings and he works second shift. We were planning to meet last Friday but something came up, (I cancelled but he also had something to do). But the times before he cancelled. Anyway we talked Saturday, normal conversation, but that night I didn't get a text back. I've reached out twice this week. Nothing had change and there were absolutely no signs that I was bothering him or that he was losing interest. I'm pretty good at telling when a person is losing interest.
He just disappeared. He hasn't been on Tinder and he's not texting me back. I don't know his last name so I can't Facebook him. What should I do. I hope nothing bad happened. I was actually starting to develop feelings for him. I'm worried.
By blahhh | Jan 13 2015
went on four dates with a guy, slept over a few days ago. after i said i had a nice time and we should hang out soon. today he texted me to see how i am and then said "do you still want to hang out again? I have work this week but maybe we can this weekend?"
By sjcorn | Dec 03 2014
So I started speaking to this guy a few weeks ago that I met on a dating site. He seems really nice and says all the right things like he can't stop thinking about me etc. we have swapped pictures and he said he thinks I'm amazing and always gives me compliment which as a women I clearly love. I'm not so sure on him, I know it's quite shallow but looks wise he isn't what I would normally go for, but don't get me wrong his body is amazing! So I arranged to meet him next weekend but didn't really want to wait that long and neither did he so I made plans with him for Tonight. So at 2 today he texts me to say he doesn't think he can make it as he cant get away from work and can't make it over this evening. Tbh he does live nearly an hours drive away so I can understand but he hasn't mentioned making any other plans with me
By jessicavanmuyen | Dec 02 2014
By someoneyoudontknow | Nov 14 2014
Last year i met this guy at school, and we were so close and we always hang out together in public, he would always tell me that we belong to each other and that he is mine and im his and then he asked me to be his date on the prom which was in 2 weeks and i agreed. we kept talking for a short period then suddenly he stopped talking to me for no reason and he kept on ignoring me each time i ask him what happened and i ended up not going to prom and this year i still see him, he's always around me and he sometimes stares at me but we haven't spoke.
By paula_2 | Nov 10 2014
I've been texting a guy back and forth for about 3 weeks. I finally decided to ask him if he wanted to hang out and he replied:
"Sorry I just got home and ate but yeah sure I might not be able to for a bit since I have layout for yearbook all week and work this weekend but yeah totally"
I told him to let me know when he was free so we could hang out- this was only last week, we continue to text but he hasn't said anything
By nunyak | Nov 04 2014
Just recently came back from Brazil over the summer and was introduced to Tinder while over there, well I came back home and decided maybe I can meet a guy closer to home. Well I met this guy who lives about 3-4 hours away from me and we were talking back and forth for I will say a few months then all of a sudden he stopped texting me. In a sense I get it because he is going to school and he says he is always busy so I don't blow up his phone that much. Well, since we didn't talk for a few days he texted "you don't wanna talk to me anymore :(" and of course I replied yes I do and we started talking again for the next few weeks or so.... Same thing happened again he didn't respond back so I waited a few more days and I decided to text him first.... Mind you I have started the convo quite a few times more than he has I guess but he always kept the convo going afterwards... Anyways this may have been a big mistake but I decided to play his game and ask him the same thing "I guess you don't wanna talk to me anymore :(" he replied back with a bunch of hahaha and smileys and commented he actually enjoyed receiving my text messages bcuz he looks forward to seeing my messages in his phone... Soooo after that we texted a bit more for a few days and then again the texting stopped from him... I texted him like 1 or 2 times saying hi how are you hope you have a good day and no response... But before this had ever happened with the pause in texting each other we mentioned we would want to meet each other sometime and we actually tried but it never happened and other stuff too.... Soooooo i don't know what to do?
By catara14 | Nov 03 2014
So I started dating a guy I met on tinder. We went for a coffee on tuesday and afterwards he texted me saying that he had a great time and that he if could grade the date he'd give it a 10. I did had a great time too. We went out on friday on a double date with some friends of mine, we hold hand and kissed. More than a make out session it was a like a sweet kisses moment. He brought me home and we kissed at his car for a while, he end up asking what was I doing tomorrow night and decided to go to the movies. At the end he canceled saying he was too tired, I know is true. But the conversation hasn't keep on.
Btw, since we matched and agreed to go out I stop swipping on tinder and on saturday I got online to delete my account and saw he was online just after he dropped me home.
By spielesammlung | Oct 28 2014
So I met this amazing guy on OkC a month ago and we have been texting on a daily basis ever since. He is really smart and sweet and he always initiates the conversations, which never turn dull or boring. The problem is he is currently very busy :( I've asked him if we're ever going to meet in person, but his answers are vague and so far I don't see him quite interested (he says things like "hey, now that you mention it, I do want to go out with you, but there are some details that need to be taken care of, since we don't live so close to each other" or "hey we could maybe go to this restaurant ... but I'm not sure if I'll be busy next weekend") He also told me he never checks his profile anymore, but I see him online quite often.
By fuze13 | Oct 23 2014
I met this guy on tinder. He messaged me first and used a lot of exclamation points when he replied. He lives 30 miles away. He owns his own business too.He seemed interested. Asking me a lot of questions. He said we should grab coffee or go on a hike sometime which I thought nothing would happen because he lived so far away. About an hour drive. But I said we could go out to dinner and he agreed. We added each other on fb during the mean time. Anyway, the day before our date he messaged me in tinder saying that he was terrible at remembering dates and that he had to take his parents to the airport which would probably be about 2 hours from where he lives and he said he would see if he could make it back in time. I said it was okay we could reschedule. Well I waited that day and all of the next day and he never responded. He wasn't even showing active on tinder any so I decided to message him on fb and he says I'm so sorry! That he had a big order come up and the last 2 days have been terrible.blah blah. Well we talk like normal for the next few days and he doesn't try to reschedule so I finally just ask him and he said that it sounded great! We went hiking and out to eat and I felt like both of us had a good time. I got home and messaged him saying I had a great time. He messaged back that he did too and he had a lot of fun. I waited a couple of days and have messaged him again and he's been active on fb but hasn't opened my message. I think he's avoiding me all together.
By getitgirl | Oct 19 2014
21f here. I've been seeing this man, 28M for about a month. It's great and I really like him. We really click well in person and he texts me throughout the day, every day (which can get really annoying but we're working on that).
During the first two weeks or so we hung out extensively and went on many outings in the span of 2 weeks. I met one of his really good friends and we had a great time. At this point I knew he was really into me, he would send me many texts along the lines of "you are so amazing, I can really see us making something wonderful out of this" or "thanks for another great date! I'm so happy we've clicked and I can't wait for our next date".
However, I haven't seen him in about a week, which is fine. We've both been really busy. But we did make plans to hang out on Saturday.. And he bailed to hang out with his buddies. He said he was really busy and it was just bad timing. I was pretty upset and let him know so and he promised to make it up to me the following night (Sunday). So from the span of Saturday to Sunday he texted me lots of lovey dovey things about how he misses me and can't wait to see me tomorrow. He even told me he wants a relationship with me. Great! Well Sunday rolls around and I hit him up to see if we were still on. He avoided answering the question for a couple hours and then asked if it would be alright if he went out "with the guys". I said it was fine and I could spend the time catching up with my own friends, he was so happy and thanked me for being understanding however he made no effort to make other plans... Yet he continues to text met throughout the night about what I was doing and how he missed me so much and just a slew of lovey dovey things.
I'm sitting here wondering, "if you're so into me (which verbally he seems to be) then why ditch me twice in a row?" I know his friends are really important to him and I wouldn't ask him to put me first in front of anything however, I'm a little surprised he picked movie night with friends over sex especially when we hadn't seen each other in a while.
(To sum it up: 28m I've been seeing keeps ditching me yet texts me 24/7 about how into me he is. Getting confused by all the mixed signals)