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But of course fate has a twisted sense of...

By mermaid | Jan 24 2015

So I am this awkward shy/hopeless romantic person. Some time ago I fell hard for a guy (let's call him M) I knew from work. Nothing really happened, maybe we were too shy, I too awkward, or he wasn't sure what he felt. But I think, or at least like to believe, that he liked me too, because there was always some magnetism between us. Whenever I met him I was a nervous wreck, and he just stared and at me and smiled. If we had a conversation, I would always say something sarcastic and weird because I obviously turn into a crazy person when I'm nervous. It took me a while to realize I can't dwell on it forever. I just could't go on hoping and wishing anymore, it was too agonizing. I decided to forget M and it's been going well for the last couple of months.

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Went for coffee with guy in my class, is he interested or was it just friends?

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I've been out on three dates with this guy.
The first date was drinks, we had a good time and he texted me three days later saying he wanted to go out again.
The second date was dinner and a drive. I ended up spending the night at his house. He texted me two days later.
Third date was last night, wouldn't really call it a date though, he came over for the night. He is going away this weekend and asked if he will see me before he leaves, I said ok. When we was leaving he gave me a kiss and ask I text him tomorrow. (He had also previously asked if he could come over the next day).

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He is the leader of the band, and I sing harmony. He drinks too much and smokes too much but I can't help but want to touch him all over (especially his fucking gorgeous beard)... We have had sex twice in the past but I've always put the kabosh on the situation because I know I could find someone cleaner, sweeter, with more ambition etc.

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I left my old job and continued speaking with people there and hanging out with them. One guy, who I was more an acquaintance with, said that we should go out to celebrate my new job, on him. I said sure, as I was attracted to him and no longer working there, and we spent about 4 hours at a candlelit bar, and he walked me to the bus. We hugged goodbye and texted when we were home that we both had a good time. Two weeks later (in the midst of the holidays), I asked if he wanted to join me and a friend at a bar, and he couldn't so I said I wanted to see him and to make it happen- he arranged for us to get drinks that Saturday. We spent 5 hours chatting, he didn't want me to take the subway, so he took his taxi to drop me off and then went home from there, easily doubling his taxi fare. Again a hug goodbye. I know I'm someone who comes on strong and have little filter, especially since I'm a girl (a lot of times I take jokes a step too far...) but I was definitely interested in seeing where this went because we clearly got along really well. I asked him to a movie this week (texted him at 8pm last night, he was working until midnight, he responded by text this morning at 8:30) and he replied with:Sorry i was working late then i crashed myself. Bummer but this week is going to be really tough for me i have my sister coming into town and some buddies from home as well. Let me know how it is if you see it!!" I responded with a will do have fun! And then asked how work was.

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This guy and I met on okc about a month ago. The first date was pretty low key. We talked at a bar for a while and went to a show together. We were both pretty tipsy by the time the show started and somehow we just started making out. Then on the way back, we made out again in his car. the chemistry was great - I don't think that I've ever had such great physical chemistry with someone right away. Anyways, sometime during the next week, he texted for another date. He ended up canceling it in the morning because he got sick. I didn't really care and sent him a text to see how he was doing a couple days later. He said he was much better and would like to see me. so we grabbed dinner and had a great conversation which surprisingly intellectual. I really appreciated his thoughts. Anyways, he drove me home and we made out again in the car with some touching. I texted him afterwards and thanked him for the ride and the good time. He texted me back right away and had since been in daily touch with me. I had a couple of finals during that week so I didn't have time to see him. He checked on me a few times and offered to bring me food the night before the exam. I really appreciated his sweet offer and told him that he should stop by to say hi since he was 10 min away from where I was. He came and we hung out a bit. a lot of kissing and making out, finally things got a little heated and he was about to turn off the light. I told him that I wasn't ready to sleep with him yet because I get emotionally attached easily with sex and I wasn't afraid of getting hurt. He was nice about it and said that he understands and I should always be honest with him. The night went on well and he kissed me goodbye a couple of times and told me to let him know if I wanted to hang out over the weekend. There was a party at my school on that weekend - so I texted him later and asked him if he wanted to come over. He sounded a little hesitant. Then I got a little worried because I realized that he could have mistakenly thought that I was asking him to hang out with people in my life. I just played along and canceled a few days later. We ended up going to a movie; he was just very affectionate as usual. lots of touching my hair, kissing my forehead and hand, and hand holding. Anyways, ever since that night, he started to cool down. I had a couple of exams after that weekend. he texted me on the Tuesday to check to see how things went and wished me good luck on the next few things that I had. I liked that he remembered what was going on in my life so I thanked him. I contacted him on Wed and told him that I was done with my test and I was happy. All I got was "woohoo". so I thought maybe he was busy with work. so I asked him how's work. he told me that he was having a very long day. I offered to visit him and bring him food/drink. He declined nicely and said that he just needed to go home and collapse. I just told him to not worry and get rested. That was 2 days ago; I still haven't heard anything from him, which pisses me off. He acted like he was into me for like the past two weeks; and this week I only got a couple of texts from him with minimal content. He's just been not responsive. I don't plan on contacting him unless he reaches out to me and show some genuine interest in seeing me.

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So I've met this guy on Tinder. I just liked his profile as it seemed he likes travelling as much as I do. We texted for a bit and decided to meet each other. On our first date we went to a pub where we had a nice conversation. After that he brought me to my bus stop and waited until my bus came. We didn't kiss each other which I found really good as it seemed like he's not one of these jerks. Then I haven't seen him for 2 weeks as I was on holiday, but we texted every day!!! I'm always so glad to hear from him!
On our second date we went to the same pub again..but he was late..when I remeber right he didn't even apologise..on our third date we were supposed to meet at 1.30 but didn't say where we'd meet. So I texted him the day before, but didn't get an answer until 3pm the next day...he overslept...I was kind of pissed as I haven't planned anything else, but he asked if we could meet at 4 and in the end I said yes. I arrived and had to wait 40!! minutes. Is that possible? He seems to be interested, but then I had to wait this long and when I remember right there wasn't an apology either.. but as soon as I see him I forget about everything...I also kissed him the first time on our third date and we had a long chat about the fact that girls should make the first move.
We are still texting every day, but I can see that he's been online on Whatsapp, but hasn't replied. It can't be that he's been busy with work because he's also been online on Facebook and Tinder (I don't use Tinder anymore, deleted it, but downloaded it again to see, if he's still online). I am really worried that he is still looking for other girls..
The last time I've seen him, I asked him if he's seeing other girls and he said "no", but as I've told you he is still on Tinder..

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First online date with a guy, went really well hung out for hours and a kiss at the end an he texted me this the next day: Thanks for a fun night, loved that bar you showed me. Hope you got home ok, I ended up waiting ages for a taxi. X

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A guy came into my work and gave me his business card. After a while (a little longer than I meant to) I texted him. We hung out and had a good time. The next day he texted me saying that he had fun and that we should hang out again. During the rest of the week he'd text me from time to time just to let me know that he hadn't forgotten about me and he still wanted to hang out but he works for a construction company so he's busy all the time, works 7 days a week. We hung out for the second time and had a lot of fun, found out more about each other. We went to a bar and I wasn't exactly drunk but feeling good. I have terrible anxiety and I over-think everything so the next day I texted him saying that I felt like I had made a fool of myself but I had a good time and thanks. He asked why I felt like I'd made a fool of myself and I said pretty much just by being me. He then said don't worry. We talk on a fairly daily basis, but it's short most of the time because of his work. He's usually the one to initiate the conversation, mostly because I feel like I'm being needy when I text.

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PLEASE READ THIS AND HELP ME OUT. I've known this guy from Tinder for a year now. We matched last November and have been in touch since then. He came to California in the summer (he has family in NorCal) and drove down to my town (2 hours from him) for two days. Our first date was laid back we went to a pub ate dinner and had beers and played darts. After that we cuddled and kissed a little. A day later he came to visit me again and we went to a beautiful spot around my area and relaxed, went to dinner, and watched a movie. We made out a little more in his car that night. He stayed in touch until he went back to school for finish his last two months of his senior year. We stopped talking for the whole month of October but we started talking again on November 1st when he texted me and told me has emerged from the darkness and he's out of the dog house. We started talking again and he mentioned how he's going to be coming back to California for long term. He would text me every day or every two days to stay in touch. He asked if he could call me babe and he was very sweet before we planned to meet again for our third date. He always mentioned how he wanted to slow dance when he visited and he spoke about visiting me OFTEN. We had our third date two weeks ago on a Monday and this is how it went...

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so i was bored and joined tinder back at the end of september and i ended up talking to one guy who was really cool. i actually had met him before and i didn't realize it. i had been a customer at the bar he works at. we started talking non stop every day, we talked on the phone sometimes too. he asked me to hang out all the time, but our schedules didn't line up for a couple of weeks, but i would see him at the bar where he worked every weekend and we would chat there. we got a long really well, and the day to hang out finally came and he blew me off. i texted him to check in on our plans and I got no response. i didn't hear from him for a week and when he finally texted me again he didnt even mention blowing our plans off.

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I met a guy at a bar and we hung out for an hour or so and when I was leaving he asked for my number. The next day he wasn't texting me so I decided to text him first and said that I had fun and enjoyed hanging out with him. He replied and said that he also had fun and had fun hanging out with me and he also said he was sorry for being kind of shy. I told him that I was being shy too but then he never responded and it's been two days.

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this boy who is in my classes took me home from a bar one night and we watched netflix and had sex. it was fun i made him laugh and he gave me a lot of compliments. we agreed to be fuck buddies and started to consistently meet up for a casual bang sesh. But now we end up texting for hours and flirt a lot and joke around whenever we're together.

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