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I'm nearing the end of highschool, I have a cynical view of...

By chaptonella | Dec 03 2015

Okay so I have had very strong feelings for one of my best friends (let's call him Idiot), and I have never been entirely sure of his feelings towards me due to his flirtatious nature and various exploits with other girls. I was finally ready to move on, and have entered into a developing potential relationship with another guy (let's call him Fez.) who I really like. 2 weeks ago, I was informed by Idiot's (male) best friend that I should not pursue Fez, and "wait for Idiot" as he had recently realized his feelings for me, and wanted a relationship. I held back on Fez because I wasn't sure and I was still deciding whether even after trying to moving on, I should try something with Idiot. After lots of deliberation I decided I couldn't do that to Fez and I also didn't want to risk mucking up my friendship with Idiot, and so I chose Fez. However, last night, I was hanging out with Idiot, as we usually do as friends, and he asked me if I wanted to try a relationship. It was horrible because I had to tell him no at this point, and so he cried, and we hugged for over an hour and I felt devastated over what needed to be done. Now I don't know how to act around him as we were always quite close physically and we had a very strong bond that I am terrified of losing. It's not as if I don't still have feelings for him, but I know it would be a bad idea, especially with Fez in the equation. How much space should give, and how should I initiate the 'rekindling' of our once very close friendship without it seeming forced or awkward?

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We met through mutual friends at club this summer. It took him FOREVER to approach me (i'm quite unapproachable, unintentionally). My friends said he liked me, and had to push him to make a move after 2 months of him just staring. Anyways, we texted for 2 weeks, and because we're both a bit shy convos were abit hard to keep going. and then he ignored a text out of nowhere. And retexted me 10 days later. but the convo was really short, so and I took it as a sign, so I didn't pursue to not appear clingy. I have NOTHING against him. Literally haven't spoken since summer, but when I go out to this club he's always there. Even after no contact, there were/are still many signs he's still into me. I say hi if we go out with the same group of friends, but if I see him from a distance i'm too shy to go over. And when I do say hi, I actually want to stay and have a convo, but I just don't know what to talk about, so we just ignore eachother the entire time. Like one time at a party, we were literally 2meters away from eachother, but didn't acknowledge eachother. He probably thinks I'm pissed at him but it's literally that i'm too scared to approach him, or that he'll just talk to me out of politeness, and not really care about the convo.
Another time, at the end of the night he was standing outside with his friends and I was walking in that direction. He kept turning his head towards me. He obviously saw me, but then as I passed he didn't say hi. I didn't say hi either. So technically we're both in the wrong. I'm not saying he's an as*shole for not saying hi, cuz the exact same could be said for me.

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how to deal with an older guy, who works with you? Avoid awkwardness and remain friends?

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I met this guy who is 35 and I am 24, we met on an app and met up after 2 weeks of talking every day, He was really sweet but very reserved and quiet, unlike me.. Since then we have met up once of twice a week for a month and a half and we text constantly all day, although he always texts me first I do make all the effort with questions.

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It happened a couple days ago in school...

By coxart | Mar 15 2015

So my friend told me that her friend liked me. and i mean i've known of him for a while. we always wave hi to eachother in the mornings. so my friend told me that the guy was gunna talk to me the next day and he did. so it was really awkward b/c we didnt know wat to say. then the day after that he wanted to make it less awkward between us so he asked me out. i said yes but its still really awkward and i really like him. he is just nice and really different from anyone i've ever met. i mean one day wen i was just feeling tired at school i had my head down and he walked up to me and asked if i was ok, and he asked if i was sure, and i saw this concerning look in his eyes like he really cared about if i was ok or not. we never really talked before, i mean there was very short conversations. i have seecaught him glaring at me but i never thought it was anything major.i mean he is really great and it must have took so much confidence for him to confront me and ask me out.btw this is how he asked me out, we were at lunch and he said "so i want to make this less awkward, and i really really like you, and i wanna be more than friends". i really dont want to mess this one up so my question is how do i make it less awkward between us?

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Friend set me up with a guy she had met...

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I see have to see this guy every summer who professed his love and I don't return it. What can I do?

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We had a really really good date. We got along, laughed,...

By tnbrown | Feb 23 2015

I need help seeing if this guy wants to go on a second date, without being to forward.

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He said : I would date you but it's hard right now.
How to I get him to just ask me out

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How do I keep my long-term relationship alive?

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1.) I have been kinda casually dating and hooking up with this...

By lagunabchgirl007_2 | Feb 16 2015

I have 2 questions:
1. How do I end it with this guy?
2. Do I tell his best friend^ that I like him?

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The boy i like from church came into my restaurant- the place where i work- with his family...WHAT ARE THE ODDS!!! And i know for a fact he didn't know i was gonna be there. I didn't say hi thought bc i am awkward and his family doesn't know me and i am kinda shy. But he kept looking at me again and again!!!!! And i saw him at church today when i got baptized and he kept looking at me again!

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Why din't he allow me on Facebook?

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What do you do if a guy you barely know but you met on the internet asks you to help him cum?

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Is he interested or happy about the compliment?

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