By beautifulblue | May 31 2016
How do you exercise caution and tell someone through a text that you don't want to have a relationship with them? They had brain surgery for a bleed (3 weeks ago) and then got into a fight with a recent ex and had a mental breakdown and likely caused the second bleed needing emergency brain surgery again. Then had a fight with his mom that turned into yelling and hitting the wall (he said luckily no holes were made) he said he hadn't been that angry in over 2 years (his 7 yr old son was also there at the time). He was abusive with his late ex (the mother of his son). He was physically abused (and likely emotionally/psychologically as well) as a teen by his step father. Though that doesn't justify his actions. I met him in the ER. I was visiting him in the hospital and we were texting. I didn't learn of all of this till later. I felt compassion and understanding for this person cause I was in as serious accident over a year ago. I know he isn't mentally stable and so I want to exercise caution with what I tell him (text him) cause I can't have him in my life. I've lost all respect and wouldn't be able to trust him.
Thank you for your kindness and for your caring!