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help my boyfriend is lazy!

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It was like a movie...now what?

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My best friend and I kissed!

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went on a dinner date (5th date to be exact) on Friday and haven't heard from him since

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How did I spook this guy?

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By deadhearts | Nov 09 2016

ive been dating this guy for seven months now. he tells me how beautiful I am and how attracted he is to me... but he still follows a bunch of provocative Instagram accounts of half naked models... I've been trying to think of a way to mention how uncomfortable and insecure it makes me feel... but I'm not sure how to yet... because every time I try to I just get sucked back into the "I only love you..." he's been cheated on before and he says that he's against cheating, but the girls he used to like are all so much prettier, and he still stays in contact with most of them.... I just don't really know if I'm overreacting... or really how I should respond...

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Been seeing a guy for 15 months, not sure what's happening and where this relationship is going.

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Sex on first date, now what?

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the next morning after a hookup. we spent hours in my bed kissing and talking and cuddling and he was really sweet. He kept telling me how beautiful I am and how he's been thinking that for so long. Don't know if i'm into him yet but I had a fun night and would be open to a second date (i know, i shouldn't have hooked up but I have issues). Anyway, when he left my house he texted to say that the cold made him realize how well we were underneath the covers and wished me a good day. I answered a not very interesting reply and went on with my day. At night, i wrote to say i hoped he had a great day at work and he replied that he spent the whole time in a little cloud and said good night beautiful :) .

this is all super nice but I am used to guys being more direct if they want to see me again.

If he really was interested in a second date he would ask, right ?

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How and when to respond to his message?

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What just happened?... was it me? I dont know where or what went wrong...

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Do you think he will eventually start acknowledging the things he did wrong?

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So I'm going out with this French guy and I've read that French guys will make it obvious that they like you. So the date went great and he texted me straight away saying he had a nice time and that he wants to see me again. I replied quickly saying yeah I'd love to go on another date and he's seen the message but hasn't replied. Is this okay? Should I text him wishing him luck for a test he has or is it better to play it cool?

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Hey, my boyfriend and I are both 19 and have been together for coming up to 2 years, over this course of time I have caught him speaking to multiple girls at a time some flirty and others not - I'm no angel either I have flirted twice in the 2 years both times admitted to. He's going to college relatively soon and I just have so much anxiety about what will happen, he has never physically cheated but I'm really nervous that this boundary will be crossed. I have confronted him and he says that he wants to change and that he only sees a future with me but that his change wont be immediate - do you have any advice on what I should do and how I should approach it?

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My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and we love each other with everything we've got. I'm just... I'm just worried. There's another girl that's always been flirty and touchy even while knowing that him and I are dating and even while I've actually been standing right in front of them. I had a conversation with her at the beginning of our relationship where I asked her to please respect our relationship and understand how doing what she did was unacceptable and very very disrespectful. (This was after she had jumped onto his back and made him carry her at least 3 or 4 times in front of my face, clearly i was upset.) She stopped for a while and then a couple months later started up again. We've argued about her for almost TWO YEARS. He always says that's just how she is and that I'm just jealous and I alwayssss explain that it's not jealousy but simply anger over the fact that she has absolutely no respect for our relationship whatsoever. What erks me even more is that I've ALWAYS asked him to put her in her place and tell her to stop, or to stop touching him, or to step away when she's close as hell, but it's like he ENJOYS her attention because he has NEVER put her in her place, a couple months ago she tried to climb on his shoulders again and he didn't move until he saw i was watching, then just recently she walked up to him and started putting her hands all over his shoulders and when she saw that he was looking at me to see if i was watching she smiled and said "oh sorry i know your girlfriend will get mad if I'm close" this pissed me off even more because KNOWING how upset she makes me and even knowing that SHE knows how upset her actions make me he stillll doesn't tell her to back off. Today she was on her knees and "couldnt get up" and out of all people she called my boyfriend to get her up because her "feet were asleep" but as soon as he had her by her arm and she was up she walked perfectly. But her "feet were asleep?" Seriously? I've told him repeatedly if he wants me to show me and to get away from her and he never does. What makes me mad the most is how much of a hypocrite he is. Any time he tells me not to talk to a guy or get close to a guy and i do, all hell breaks loose, but this is okay? What should I do?

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