By flipphone1986 | Dec 24 2015
I'm a 29 yo female spending New Year's Eve with my boyfriend (he's also 29), at his place, after dinner out, etc., but how do I tell him I don't want to have sex with him yet? Do we talk about it after we've been out, when I get to his house, late at night? Before New Year's Eve? I'm out of town for a couple of days, so I just don't know how to handle this situation. I'm not a virgin but I like him a lot and don't think a month is enough time to know someone as a partner before I sleep with them (sex is strictly emotional for me). He's a great guy, and I'm sure he'd be fine, but I worry that he might think that's what's happening; I just don't want him to feel rejected. 🤔
Now I'm Wondering
Will he be disappointed if I tell him that same day? Should I tell him sooner, while I'm away even? How do we have this conversation without someone getting at least a little bit hurt? I only have sex when/if I'm in love with someone, and I like him, but it's just not enough yet. Lots of heavy petting above the waist action (after three weeks of dating as a couple officially), clothed below waist, but I would like it to stay that way for now.