By lovelessone | Jan 10 2016
So, I met this guy from Tinder a few days ago. We met up that same night. We went thrift shopping, then I invited him over to my place. However, I totally said upfront that I'm only down to chill...like make out and fool around. No sex. No Relationship stuff. He comes over, first thing he does is make out with....that's totally fine. That's what I wanted. Then, we make it to my bed in our underclothing. There's just a lot of touching and kissing. However, we do a lot of talking and laughing, holding hands and things seem to be going great; didn't intend to have chemistry with this guy. So, of course, I catch a feeling like an idiot. I mean...it's perfect. It's been like 3 hours. It's 12am. He's like...let's take a shower and I'm like naaaah. Then we just got back in the bed. And know, he has work in the work. He asks me if I do and I say no. In my head, I wanted him to stay so badly. But, sometimes when I don't want to be vulnerable with guys I pretend that I'm not interested. And he's like..."man, it's 1am." And I was like, "bye!" Then he got up and left. I have no idea if that was a cue for me to invite him to sleep over or what. Because, after we went thrift shopping - he walked me to my car and just stood there...looking. I guess that was a cue that he wanted to come over. I asked him, "so, you wanna come to my place?" So, I'm confused. Before he left, I told him to text me when he got home to make sure he made it there safely. He texted me he was safe and that was it. The next day, I was like...if you ever wanna hang out, I'm totally down. Then like hours later, I asked if he wasn't interested. No response. I haven't texted him anymore because I don't want to come off as clingy and crazy. I'm just curious as what happened. If it was me that pushed him away; I honestly did not mean to tell him to leave in a bitchy way - that's a total defense mechanism for me not wanting to appear vulnerable. I've done it before with other guys. But, I just wanted your take on this. Do you think I could have possibly pushed him away or do you think that he just was not that into me? Thanks!
Now I'm Wondering
We met at a thrift shop then headed to my place. This was Thursday night. It's Sunday today.