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we both are virgins. all of our friends have done it and i want...

By crustylotion | Feb 22 2016

how do i ask my best guy friend to lose our virginititys to each other

Now I'm Wondering

we both are virgins. all of our friends have done it and i want to get it over with with someone i wont regret. he is my best guy friend how do i go about bringing it up?

7 Comments

sarajacobs

Top Commenter

22 Feb

In my opinion, your viginity is not like trash--it's not something you just dispose of. And yet people do this all the time. You may think you won't regret losing your virginity to your guy friend now, but there's a good chance you may regret this decision down the line. Save it for someone truly special--not just someone who is special based on your timeline. (I get the impression that you want to get rid of your virginity now and he happens to be the most important person in your life right now. You are determining his level of importance based on your timeline.) Also, others' decisions about sex should not play into your decision-making process. It doesn't sound like you're emotionally prepared to have sex. I'm not criticizing you or making fun of you. I'm simply asking you to reconsider. Sex complicates things--why are you in any hurry to rush into this?

crustylotion

22 Feb

^ it seems like if i wait any longer everyone will have done it but me and i want it to be special for both of us

sarajacobs

Top Commenter

22 Feb

Your life, your decision. But again, peer pressure and the idea that "everybody is doing it" (which I can assure you is not true) should not factor in to your decision. Do you plan to cave to popular opinion every time you're in the minority? Learn to be confident in your decisions without worrying what everyone else is doing. It also sounds like you're presuming that this guy friend is the only special person you're ever going to meet. Just because he's special to you today doesn't guarantee he will be part of your life after you guys sleep together. Go and read some of the other stories on this website--they're heartbreaking and involve a lot of emotional turmoil. I'm unsure why you'd want to put yourself through a similar situation. And if you say, "No, this isn't going to be a one-night stand/friends with benefits/casual thing," then you should realize that several of the stories posted on here didn't start with that intention either. I stand by my claim that you are not ready for sex because your number-1 reason for disposing of your virginity is because everyone else is doing it.

2009

Top Commenter

23 Feb

I didn't have sex for the first time until I was 23, please don't feel like you are being left behind because you haven't experienced that yet.

morrisann_2

17 Apr

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17 Apr

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