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There is this guy that goes to uni with me and work in the same...

By daisy11 | Apr 28 2015

How do I get him back?

Now I'm Wondering

There is this guy that goes to uni with me and work in the same place where I work and about 2 months ago we started dating. Well, it wasn't really dating, it was more of a meeting up around campus when we had some spare time, for about an hour or so and get to know each other. Every time we met, things were great and he would text me right after to tell me he had a great time and ask when could we meet again, although he never kissed me and that worried me a bit. He told me his ex girlfriend cheated on him so he wasn't too wary of getting into things quickly because of trust issue, which was fine with me, especially since he seemed sincere. So one day he invited me at his for a movie and we slept together and he revealed himself being not that shy guy I thought he was, but quite the opposite.
After that, he went away for a week and when he came back, we slept together one more time after a night out, where he told me that he liked me a lot otherwise he wouldn't be sleeping with me again. He even asked me to stay the night, thing that didn't happen before. Again the day after he texted me saying that he enjoyed the night before and asked me if I was okay. After that, nothing more. We worked together a few times after that and he has always been very flirty, hugging me or finding an excuse to touch me, one day when we were alone on a closing shift he even kissed me for no reason. But nothing more than that happen. Now some friends in common have told me that he doesn't want to get into a relationships but basically just want to screw every breathing human being, thing that it's fine, I can understand but I still want him to want me rather than anyone else! So my question here is: how do I get him to be interested in me as a girlfriend material and not just his one night stand or FWB girl?

4 Comments

andreav

Top Commenter

28 Apr

No chance here. He didn't even let you spend the night the first time you had sex. What's wrong with you that you want to date a womanizing guy like this??

rxbfan04

Top Commenter

28 Apr

Sorry to say but it looks like nothing will come of this. You can't makes someone want something out of you if they don't already want it. He doesn't see you as GF material because HE doesn't, not because there's anything you did or didn't do. He's already made up his mind about you. Don't settle for this guy and hope that one day he wakes up and wants a relationship with you, because more than likely, it won't happen. What you can do, is focus on yourself, go have fun living your life, and this guy will become a figment of your past. If he happens to come around once he sees what a badass chick you are who doesn't let guys give her the run around, then great, but until then, go do the things that make you happy, and leave this guy in the dust.

bluesdetoi

Top Commenter

29 Apr

First and foremost; stop casually sleeping with guys you want a relationship with, it sets a bad precedent and shows you as someone who is careless with your self. Second; forget thus guy and move on. You're just a plaything to him, thats probably not going to change, you don't know how many girls hes seeing or sleeping with, but at this point it seems like youre just one of many others.

daisy11

29 Apr

Just found out he is getting back with his ex-girlfriend, the same one he told me could never get back with... I guess you guys are so right...

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