By derfransom | Apr 12 2016
Met a guy on Grindr (not usually my thing) and we had a really fascinating conversation. He suggested we exchange numbers and said he'd blow me up the next day, which he did. We went out for drinks, then ended up going to dinner and having a great time. When I headed home sent me a text asking if I made it home alright, and if I'd be interested in seeing him again the next day. We met again for dinner and drinks and then went to his house. We slept in the same bed, but he said he wanted to hold off on having sex (which was totally cool with me.) He asked me to text him later that evening, but he wasn't particularly chatty for the next day. We made tenative plans for this weekend, but considering he's usually so talkative I can't help but wonder if the communications slow down is a bad sign.
Now I'm Wondering
The guy is beyond charming. I can't even count how many times he called me beautiful or how many sweet things he did; but after texting for several hours a day and/or seeing each other several days in a row, the slow down in communications has thrown me for a loop. He's more aggressive than I am in this way (I wait a few days before asking for a second date and I never ask someone to text me), is he playing it cool? Is it my turn to take the reins? Or did he lose interest?