Shares


Share

Email
 

Texted

So is it my mind playing tricks on me and my trust issues coming...

By eddybird | Nov 01 2014

So, I've been talking to this guy I met on a dating site for a couple weeks. He works in my town but is not from here. So on his time off he goes back home. We did meet and hang out before he left for his days off and have been in communication since he has been gone. We have really great conversations and chemistry at least in my opinion. He hasn't given me a reason to not believe anything he tells me but I don't want to be nieve and be fooled. I have been through a lot of bad guys in the past so I find it hard to trust and my mind will get the best of me most times. I haven't had any negative wandering thoughts about him till recently and I don't know if it's just my past trying to trigger false feelings or if I should worry. So here is what has me thinking... He has 4 kids back home and gets all of them on his week off so he has his hands full. He told me up front he could talk during the day but after about 4 he would be unavailable because he would be playing super dad and kept a tight schedule. All week we have been on this schedule and it's been fine until my mind started to wonder. He would be MIA for me all weekend, I get it he has 4 kids to take care of but is it to much to ask or do that he send a short text here and there just to touch base? I can't help but think he may be hiding something or someone back home. Why the strict cut off after certain hours? Is it him being a good dad or a good liar?

Now I'm Wondering

So is it my mind playing tricks on me and my trust issues coming to surface or should I be concerned? How do I approach him about it?

8 Comments

bri

1 Nov

I'm not too sure. But having kids myself, I would think that it would be easier for him to text you in the evening hours considering that's when the kids would be winding down and going to bed. However, men are notorious for only being able to handle one task at a time. His kids may be a lot to handle for him, especially if he only had them on weekends. But I don't think it would be hard for him to shoot a simple text to let you know he's thinking of you. The cut off hours are word though for sure

bri

1 Nov

Weird *

eddybird

1 Nov

I'm trying to be considerate and respect that he is being a good dad, so I didn't question him about it and I won't over text. The kids get out of school around 4-430 so that is why the cut off is around that time. With homework, dinner, bath time and putting them all to bed I can imagine its hectic with a 10, 8, 7 and 2 yr old. But I am like you in thinking that a simple text at night one everyone is settled should be a simple courtesy so I don't understand why he hasn't been doin that. I just hope it's nothing more than a miscommunication and maybe after we talk about it things will be better.

g_love12

Top Commenter

1 Nov

I think it's suspicious. And even if he is telling the truth, is it realistic to attempt a relationship with someone who is unavailable evenings and weekends?

gypsy1970

1 Nov

Call me suspicious but I do wonder too. I understand being busy with the kids until they go to bed, but why not exchange a few texts with someone you like before falling asleep? Fishy.

eddybird

1 Nov

Yea it shouldn't be too much to do, and i thought he really was into me by the conversations and things he says. He semed honest but I'm really doubting it all now. Short texts during day and before bed should be doable. I hate this part :(

lennaliddon

4 Nov

I have been rejected by my husband after 8 years of marriage just because another woman and he left me and the kid to suffer. One day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address Dr Balaya a spell caster.have helped a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his email address doctorbalaya@gmail.com and he told me that a woman casted a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 3 days that i will have my husband back. I believed him because of his polite approach and sincerity and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back because i am now happy with my husband. Email him on; { doctorbalaya@gmail.com http://doctorbalayaa.webs.com/

torirule

Top Commenter

4 Nov

he's married, probably unhappily but regardless, it sounds like he has a partner at home 'after 4' and obviously on weekends too.

Please log in to comment

Share