By evelyn | Mar 29 2016
Is he into me or am I just a side girl?
Now I'm Wondering
So I've been talking to this boy on Tinder for almost two months, but we still haven't met up. He's expressed interest and has asked me out at least three times, but when it comes to the day he says he's suddenly busy and can't make it because of work (I should add he's currently doing a PhD).
Also, when we first started talking we used to talk all every single day and he would be very cute and reassure me that he really wanted to see me, and even got upset when I was busy and couldn't see him one night. However, he said he has a deadline a few weeks ago that had to be done within the next month and since then the conversation has completely dwindled - he'll disappear mid conversation (on whatsapp) and go silent for a few days.
I also noticed that he's changed his tinder profile and added a few new pictures and changed his bio recently, which he is entitled to do, but gives me suspicions that I'm just his side girl. One minute he'll be really chatty and affectionate and then disappear.
I don't get it? He started off so interested in me and now he is hot and cold all the time, and when I ask he just says he wishes he didn't have loads of work to do and that he really does want to talk to me. Is he just busy or not that interested?