So I've been on two dates with this guy that I met on Tinder....

By actress87 | May 02 2016

Does he actually want a third date with me?

Now I'm Wondering

So I've been on two dates with this guy that I met on Tinder. We've been messaging since January and he's always only ever sent really short messages. One word at a time type stuff. At one point I wasn't even sure if he was interesting enough to meet him. But I did recently and he's so different in person. Really chatty and funny etc. But then after our second date recently the attached conversation happened.

It sounds like I just asked him if he wants a cup of tea. Not for another date. Bearing in mind that this is his messaging style should I just take his short uninterested sounding response with a pinch of salt?



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2 May

Even though he's a man of few words via text, it's still hard to determine his true interest because he was asked via text message. Therefore, you don't know if he's truly interested or if he said "yes" to make you happy. (He may have felt pressured to say "yes," especially because of the 😳.) The best way to determine if he's really interested is not to mention the idea of a third date again. Let him lead--and trust that he knows what he's doing even if he doesn't ask you on a third date. (We as women often like to make excuses for men when they don't ask us out by reminding them, giving them suggestions about date ideas, etc.--when in actuality, men aren't asking us out because they don't want to go out with us. It's really that simple, in my opinion.)


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12 May

Go for the third date! It's just his texting style

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