By crazycoocoo | Jan 07 2016
My first adult crush... help please?
Now I'm Wondering
So I'm 18 years old and I have never really had a real rational crush on anyone. I have had the kindergarden crushes, the middle school crushes, and everything in between there, but since maturing I haven't really met anyone that interests me in that way or atleast before they take notice of me. I have recently graduated high school and have not been going out as much as I used to. Lately I have been thinking about this guy that I am an acquaintance with. I have seen him a few times at the store or his work and I might be getting a slight crush on him. Perhaps I'm just lonely or maybe there is something about him, I don't know. Either way I don't really know how to go about it. I know how to flirt and all that crap, I'm not asking for a tutorial on "how to pick up a guy" or some crap like that I just don't know how to approach someone with the intent of impressing them. Also I am worried I might be drifting into stalker territory. I know where he works and have gone there a few times specifically to talk to him. Through his job is the only way I know how to reach him and If I were to ask him out or something I would be doing it while he's standing behind a register... I just all around don't know how to approach a guy first. I like to think that I am blunt and to the point, but for the first time in a long time a fear of rejection is stopping me. Any suggestions will help! (Btw i dont have social media or his number or mutal friends so through his job is literally the only way i know how to find him)