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By samanthaa | Nov 26 2014

We had a one night stand about a month ago. He was a mutual friend of someone on my Uni course. So after sex, he talked about going on dates and how he likes me. We met up briefly two days after where I returned his jacket, and being sober, he hinted about going on dates. Due to the fact that I am on placement in a hospital 2 hours away, I am only back every weekend. We texted and he asked about my plans on the weekend for two weeks straight, but I was always busy with other stuff. It's now been a week since we last texted, and I just texted him a general text saying sorry that I was unable to catch up with him the other week. He has been online on fb but have not actually replied back to me via text.

Now I'm Wondering

So I am just wondering what is he playing at? Have I left it a little too late? It the whole thing a bad timing? Was he actually interested? P.s. The weird thing is that we actually met a year ago on a night out and he was the one who brought it up. I had no idea until he mentioned it because who would actually remember a stranger from a year ago?!

6 Comments

samanthaa

26 Nov

He would be texting back straight away when we first start texting..

g_love12

Top Commenter

26 Nov

He probably just sick of trying to schedule something with you.

nataliejolie

26 Nov

I agree with the above. Perhaps someone else has captured his interest in the time that you kept decling his invitations.

bluesdetoi

Top Commenter

26 Nov

If he texts back there is a chance that he is still interested. I would also say if all youre interested in is a fwb then have sex by all means, but if you think you might be interested in someone further than that, then don't sleep with them until you are in a relationship, sex confuses things for women.

preferphonecalls

Top Commenter

26 Nov

Yep, agree with bluesdetoi, avoid sex until there is an real commitment from the guy, that is if you are looking for a relationship. And he may have thought you were not interested after asking you out twice with no results

torirule

Top Commenter

26 Nov

if a guy you like asks you out on a date and you are genuinely too busy you should still try to lock down the date for the future when you're free. did he ask you out for a specific thing like dinner? if you are busy all week just tell the guy 'next week I have more time' so he knows your keen. He might be feeling rejected if you just say you're too busy.

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