Should I wait for him and see if he comes back Or should I start...

By chrissmay | Sep 21 2014

My boyfriend and I have just recently broke up. I'm a compulsive liar and so I haven't spoken to him in a week after the breakup. I do love him very much and I can't stand the fact that I can't be with him. So I just ordered a ticket to move to Portland because I don't know what else to do. I'm unsure if he will forgive me, or if he'll come back because he had so much going on to begin with. I wish I hadn't lied and I learned my lesson on that. It cost me the love of my life. I'm so unsure I don't want to make the wrong move.

Now I'm Wondering

Should I wait for him and see if he comes back? Or should I start my life over in Portland?



21 Sep

I did live with him.


22 Sep

I think any moves should be for yourself and not for a guy.


24 Sep

Rashly moving to Portland may show him that the issue hasn't improved at all. I'd agree that it'd be best to take time to work on yourself, and then maybe get back into contact with him. Easier said than done, but ultimately it will be better for you, and for your guys' relationship if he is willing to be in a relationship with you again.

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