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My question is, is this guy worth it He is by far the best guy...

By spielesammlung | Oct 28 2014

So I met this amazing guy on OkC a month ago and we have been texting on a daily basis ever since. He is really smart and sweet and he always initiates the conversations, which never turn dull or boring. The problem is he is currently very busy :( I've asked him if we're ever going to meet in person, but his answers are vague and so far I don't see him quite interested (he says things like "hey, now that you mention it, I do want to go out with you, but there are some details that need to be taken care of, since we don't live so close to each other" or "hey we could maybe go to this restaurant ... but I'm not sure if I'll be busy next weekend") He also told me he never checks his profile anymore, but I see him online quite often.

Now I'm Wondering

My question is, is this guy worth it? He is by far the best guy I've met online, I love texting him and talking on the phone with him, and after two months on the site, he is currently the only guy from OkC that I talk to. I don't know if I should lower my expectations on him and assume we will never go out together (perhaps I should stop replying his texts so often), or maybe he is actually busy and eventually we will get to meet. But even if manages to make a time for me to go on our first date, I don't want to imagine how difficult it would be to go on a second or third date :(

7 Comments

preferphonecalls

Top Commenter

28 Oct

You haven't met him. Technically you don't really know who you are talking to, no matter how witty he sounds. Sadly people lie online (and in person) but it's much easier to lie online. I think it's a big red flag that he has not made the time to meet you. When I was dating online, if someone I was talking refused or made excuses to meet in person, I would just block the profile. You can find love online (I did) but you really have to weed out a lot of timewasters. This guy sounds like a dead end. If I were you, I would focus on other guys online and you should also go to in persons singles events. I don't think this guy is headed anywhere.

g_love12

Top Commenter

28 Oct

This guy is full of bs. Ditch him.

mrsbillygil

Top Commenter

28 Oct

Honestly I bet he has fake pics online and pretends to be someone he isn't. Dont let him waste any more of your time.

pnw2255

28 Oct

Although he sounds really sweet and makes you feel good about yourself, he's dragging you on. Not worth it

torirule

Top Commenter

28 Oct

You're wasting time with this guy. He is probably a catfish or in a relationship with someone. Because if you get along so well he should be excited to meet you after a month of texting everyday.

sarahy91

28 Oct

My boyfriend and I met online, through a school online dating website and I can confidently tell you that if he's delaying or being vague about meeting up, he's not as interested as you are in him. My boyfriend asked to meet me on a weekend he was gonna be in my city, and he expressed how he really wanted to see me. If the guy is hesitating to meet with you, regardless of how long you've been talking to each other, he's either a fake or he doesn't like you. If he likes you, he will make sure y'all go on at least a first date.

siva

28 Oct

I guess from the sounds of it that you don't want to be with someone who is THAT busy? If he wants to have a virtual relationship and you'd rather have one in real life, then maybe you're not a good fit?

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