By bee_4 | Aug 11 2016
I've started seeing this guy and I'm not sure how I feel about him. He's infatuated by me and has been pursuing me for over a year, but only in the last 3 weeks have things actually progressed.
For most of the year that I've known him I've always thought he had an attractive personality (we have so much in common/ emotional chemistry etc) but he wasn't "my type" and I didn't find him physically attractive.
We began hanging out as friends 3 weeks ago and I noticed an attraction growing from my end. It helped that he has recently shaved off his beard/cut his long hair but I don't know if it was quite as superficial as that. We kissed and it was nice and since then things have progressed super quickly - we've been seeing lots of each other and have also slept together a few times.
Now I'm Wondering
It's the best sex I've ever had but I don't know if I fancy him?
I definitely find him attractive now, he has a lovely smile, I love being around him, and (TMI) it's honestly the best sex I've ever had. I don't know if that means anything more than he knows how to turn me on though.
He recently went abroad and we skyped every night for hours on end and it felt like no time at all - I love being around him and talking to him and he does such sweet things for me like cooking for me and bringing the food to my work. He is everything I want in a boyfriend I just don't fancy him enough yet and I'm worried I never will. I want to be with someone who I look at and think "wow" and I don't with him. I'm crossing my fingers that the attraction will grow but I'm doubtful.
Has anyone had a similar situation? I'm not sure if I should keep seeing him/sleeping with him if I don't know if I want a relationship with him.