By lostromantic | Apr 28 2016
I didn't want a commitment but now I do. Is it too late? How do I ask for it without scaring him off?
Now I'm Wondering
I've been seeing this guy since mid-January. At first, I thought we didn't have much in common and saw no future so I decided to keep it really casual. I may even have been a bit distant. But the more I saw him, the more I liked him. In the end, we are a lot alike and we always have a good time together. But I'm afraid I may have hurt my chances by acting too casual at the beginning. We never exactly talked about what we wanted. But now I would like us to be exclusive and see where this goes. Give it a real shot. But I don't know how to approach the subject without it seeming completely out of the blue. I don't want to freak him out. Yesterday I told him that I was really comfortable with him and that I liked him a lot when we were about to fall asleep and asked him not to say anything back. I didn't want to put him on the spot. We are both seeing other people because we never talked about things getting serious. How do I ask for exclusivity without seeming too intense or scaring him off?