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I met this guy on Tinder who seemed really keen on getting to...

By shesadarling | Apr 30 2016

My charming Tinder guy suddenly stopped messaging me?

Now I'm Wondering

I met this guy on Tinder who seemed really keen on getting to know me as a person rather than just hooking up with me. We were texting consistently for the past 5 days. I would reply hours later due to studying for exams and he would reply instantly, so I know I wasn't being clingy.
Then on Thursday he suddenly stopped talking to me. Here is our conversation up until then. Can you tell me if I said or did something wrong?

Me: Are you Persian or Italian by the way?
Him: Persian. Every Persian wishes to be Italian though, so I take that as a compliment :)
Me: Lmao, but don't Persians excel in tae kwon do, soccer, wearing cologne, and getting 4.5 GPAs?
And Italians are pretty bomb. I'm studying abroad in Florence in the fall.
Him: LOL where did you get that stereotype from??? *laughing face* And Wow, Firenze is Dope !
Me:Sorry, sorry, excuse my political incorrectness. The only Persians I knew about before coming to America (I'm foreign) were those of Cyrus the Great's Achaemenid Dynasty. So I googled Persian and thats what came up. This Persian guy told me it was accurate.
Him: Hahahaha. To be honest, we haven't come too far since then lol
Me: Lmao! I'll have to see that for myself. You still haven't told me what you want to do (for our date). I have ideas beyond movie and dinner, but I trust your judgment more since you're from LA

And this was three days ago, and he hasn't replied. He usually gets back to me within an hour, and he was so enthusiastic about wanting to see me soon!
Did I mess everything up?

4 Comments

sarajacobs

Top Commenter

1 May

It sounds like he wasn't really that interested in you, which isn't your fault; it's nothing you did. You mentioned a date in your last text message. Was that the first time either of you had mentioned a date? To me, it sounds like he was more interested in having you as a texting buddy rather than taking you on a date. I say this because if he were really interested in dating you, there should have been no hesitation or delay on his part to ask you out. For you to have to bring up date ideas (or for you to be the first one to mention a date, [not sure if he mentioned a date before this convo]) says to me that he's not interested—especially because he didn't respond to your text with date ideas or express interest in hearing your date ideas. Perhaps he decided to stop wasting your time because he was interested in a texting buddy and you were interested in meeting and dating him. I know this sucks right now, but I suppose you should be thankful he stopped wasting your time now rather than keeping this going for another few weeks.

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24 May

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24 May

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