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I met this guy on tinder. He seemed legit in person, we went on...

By bigbang | Mar 15 2016

Help me understand why this guy led me on and went ghost on me twice. Why couldn't he just be upfront and say how it is?

Now I'm Wondering

I met this guy on tinder. He seemed legit in person, we went on several dates and he pretty much led me on to wanting something more than a friendship. After a month he went ghost on me. Weeks later I ask to have another chance of seeing him ( desperate of me I know) and he agrees...We did well for a week or so and he did it again. This time coming up with "excuses" or seeming too busy...Why do guys do this? Why can't they be straight up? He hasn't deleted me off his social media but I have. I want to move on but its been hard mores he knows what he did wrong but won't own up to his wrong doing.

8 Comments

ernestbrown

16 Mar

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sarajacobs

Top Commenter

17 Mar

Yeah, it sucks when a guy ghosts—and it's not the classiest thing men do, but you can control only your reaction, not his actions. Remember, how he treats you is reflective of his character, not your worth or value. Here's an interesting blog post about why guys "ghost": http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2013/04/why-men-fade-out.html. Maybe that'll give you a different perspective and make "ghosting" a little easier to tolerate...or at the very least give you some amount of closure. Another helpful post is this one: http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2011/09/dont-initiate-contact.html. This is some of the most helpful advice from the article: "When you initiate contact with a man before you know his intentions, you are denying yourself the least equivocal and therefore most important indication of his interest. I will go as far as to say that you are denying yourself the only reliable indication of his interest." I can't say I've gotten "used" to ghosting. I can see it coming more times than not, but I have to give the benefit of the doubt because everybody deserves to be trusted until they can't be trusted. I encourage you not to get so caught up on texting in the future—in the end, texting proves nothing—even if you may be tempted to use texting, texting frequency, and/or texting response time as a potential indicator to determine his interest in you. Guys who are interested in you will text, just like guys who are interested in you won't text (because they're just not big texters and they value face-to-face time more than texting). Additionally, guys who don't like you will text you (because they want to keep you around as the backup girl) and guys who don't like you won't text you. These four scenarios just go to show that texting really doesn't matter. Furthermore, it can be difficult to tell each of those four types of guys apart—yet another reason to not invest yourself too soon into someone, especially via text messages.

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30 Mar

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5 Apr

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morrisann

Top Commenter

12 Apr

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morrisann_2

17 Apr

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maryrolando12

Top Commenter

24 May

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7 Jan

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