By lazylara | Nov 10 2016
How did I spook this guy?
Now I'm Wondering
I met a guy at one of my house parties and few weeks ago, and we slept with each other and had a fun time. A week later he asked me out for drinks, but I only really wanted a sexual relationship but he insisted we went for drinks, so I just went for it. We had a nice time, get on well and have good sex and after this 'date thing' we would text each other throughout the next couple of days. I was always going of his vibes, he would always text me first and I would go along and reply etc... I saw him out maybe a week ago and we hung out and ended up going to his, but we were with a group of people he was with. We all hung out for a few hours and when he said he was going to bed, I asked if I could stay over -obviously implying that I want to sleep with him again- and he said sure, but he literally just meant sleeping in bed. It was weird because I had been pretty obvious that I wanted to sleep with him and if he didn't want to, he could have easily have told me to go home without it being weird. But I ended up staying the night, mainly because I didn't know how to get out of this situation, and he cuddled me all night. I even asked him if this was weird or if I was over stepping, I gave him loads of spaces where he could have asked me to leave. In the morning, we had morning sex, it wasn't as good as before but still nice, and then I left around 7am.
A few days after that, we were meant to meet up with him and some of his and my friends but it didn't work out because someone wanted to go to London blah blah and I texted him if he was still going out and I had no reply. Then a couple of days later, I sent him a hook up text and I got no reply again. He has gone totally silent, I would understand if he had work and wasn't able to reply but I kind of expected him to say something the next day, like 'sorry wasn't free' or something. I don't get this sudden change towards me, when he was the keen one and seemed into me? Does he think that I'm starting to like him or something, because I was always playing of his vibes.. I don't know what I did to spook him, it's a really shitty feeling. Do you think I should text and ask him, or would that look desperate- maybe I have misunderstood something? help!!