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I'm wondering if the Druze mom will ruin my relationship with...

By quiet1 | Apr 22 2015

His mom is Druze. He loves me but how do I know if it can last?

Now I'm Wondering

I'm wondering if the Druze mom will ruin my relationship with this hot Lebanese guy. We've been together 8 mos and he says he loves me but it's hard to know long-term how he will manage his mom/that relationship in contrast to our relationship. Initially he said he'd have to segregate things/she wouldn't like me....but now he admits/says she could put up a "wall" eventually and that b/c she/his family has been there for him, he couldn't ignore that wall or alienate her. Which I think means "we" would end. We're keeping "us" quiet for now but how am I supposed to know if there is truely a chance?

4 Comments

quiet1

23 Apr

I appreciate your input, jhops. It scares me that he can't show more to her/his brothers. He had a 1.5-2 yr relationship that failed and the christian parents in lebanon & his mom in lebanon didn't approve. He told me recently his mom yelled at him/argued day/night while living at home for four months. He kind of thought maybe now that he is in the U.S. he could have an independent relationship and keep things "segregated" but it scares me when he now says like if the wall is "too high" and his mom finds out and won't speak to him that he couldn't uphold things/the r/s. He says "there is a chance" but I'm wondering if he'd fight at all for it. Are there ways I can ask that or assess it effectively? or you think just bail?

quiet1

23 Apr

also...his mom and brothers are staying with him end of may - early july....so I offered to hide it during that time for him....but it feels odd. My parents don't know much about the relationship either...it's 9 months in so I am kind of okay with it but worry about the longer-term implications. Also, 6-7 weeks is a long time to deal with hiding it...esp with how busy he is as a surgeon

conniebass

7 Apr

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conniebass

7 Apr

Hello to everyone on this forum,I'm Connie and i would love to share my testimony with you guys but before i start i want to say that i never believed in Spells or Magics but out of desperation i had to gave it a try.I want you all to understand that there is no problem without solution. You have to sometime give a chance to what other think is not real and see what happen at the end.I was crushed when my lover of three years left for another woman. I cried and sobbed every day, until it got so bad that I reached out to the Internet for help. And i saw a testimony of how a man call Dr Obo helped a girl called Bryget Mager, and i said let me give it a try so i contact him for help and he cast a love spell for me, which i use in getting my love back and now i am a happy woman.For what you have done for me,i will not stop to share your goodness to people out there for the good work you are doing. I pray God blesses you as much as you have help me to get my Love back,contact him on ultimatespellcaster0@gmail.com

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