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I hooked up with one of my brothers good friends. He's 28 and I'm...

By brittdech | Dec 29 2015

Is he into me? Should I give him space for now?

Now I'm Wondering

I hooked up with one of my brothers good friends. He's 28 and I'm 25, I like the fact he's older. we had sex about 3 times that night. He then called me about 15 mins after I left and said he wanted to drop all the girls he's talking to, and would like to get to know me better. The next day he txtd me asking if I was down to hang out and I said yes. We met up at his place and hooked up again. He was very sweet and caring. However, him being my brothers friend is a complicated situation. . He txtd me after I saw him the day after and said " we need to figure out what to do about your brother, because it's a complicated situation, we can talk about it later this week?" I responded with a yes, Ofcourse. . However it's been a day and I haven't txtd or called. . I'm giving him space. I know he has an overwhelming work schedule. . I'm not trying to push him away, I just don't want to stress him. If he wasn't into me he wouldn't even worry about my brother. )My brother is 3 years younger than me )Right?

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kimmyk321

30 Dec

I agree with jhops. His actions right now are screaming friends with benefits situtation. He hasnt taken you out and all of his actions have been low effort. If you want to just keep hooking up, it seems this situation is perfect. If not, make sure to let him follow up and have a conversation in person with him when you can.

brittdech

30 Dec

Update: he actually offered to take me out to lunch the day after but I declined because I was busy earlier in the day. . My brother warned me about him and his ways after, but has no clue about what happened that night and I do not plan on saying anything Ofcourse... I then txtd him and he said maybe your brother is bothered by it to make you stay away and he also said " You're brother is super cool don't want to upset him or fuck you over we can be friends and see where it goes take it slower ? How would he know what my intentions are?" . . that's makes it clear he wants to be friends with benefits and I think I'm just going to completely stop talking to him. @jhops @kimmyk321 thanks for your input(:

brittdech

30 Dec

Update: he actually offered to take me out to lunch the day after but I declined because I was busy earlier in the day. . My brother warned me about him and his ways after, but has no clue about what happened that night and I do not plan on saying anything Ofcourse... I then txtd him and he said maybe your brother is bothered by it to make you stay away and he also said " You're brother is super cool don't want to upset him or fuck you over we can be friends and see where it goes take it slower ? How would he know what my intentions are?" . . that's makes it clear he wants to be friends with benefits and I think I'm just going to completely stop talking to him. @jhops @kimmyk321 thanks for your input(:

brittdech

30 Dec

Update: he actually offered to take me out to lunch the day after but I declined because I was busy earlier in the day. . My brother warned me about him and his ways after, but has no clue about what happened that night and I do not plan on saying anything Ofcourse... I then txtd him and he said maybe your brother is bothered by it to make you stay away and he also said " You're brother is super cool don't want to upset him or fuck you over we can be friends and see where it goes take it slower ? How would he know what my intentions are?" . . that's makes it clear he wants to be friends with benefits and I think I'm just going to completely stop talking to him. @jhops @kimmyk321 thanks for your input(:

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