I don't know if it's worth taking the initiative and talking to...

By sophflower | Mar 11 2015

There's this guy in one of my classes that added me on snapchat a couple of months ago and we have snapped on a daily basis. He has a girlfriend and even though I like him, I know he isn't available and we are just friends. He gets really flirty though by teasing me, talking about hanging out, and sending flirty snaps of him shirtless in his bed. We weren't friends at all before we started snapping and I feel like it has gotten to the point where it's no longer okay. We also have only talked a couple times at school and when I talk to him about it he plays it off by saying he only talks to two people. Instead of snapping I wish we could just talk face to face and be friends because I feel like I'm being played.

Now I'm Wondering

I don't know if it's worth taking the initiative and talking to him or if I should just stop snapping/talking to him in general because he is in a relationship and it's gotten to a point where it is no longer friendly, but really flirty.



Top Commenter

11 Mar

I feel like you don't really want his friendship but you're hoping if you hang out he will leave his girlfriend for you. I hope you can put yourself in her shoes and think of what an awful thing it would be if YOUR boyfriend was snapping shirtless photos of himself to other chicks. Don't participate in this, he's shady and even if you do win him over, he's going to treat you the same.

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