By patriciatamayo | Feb 20 2017
help my boyfriend is lazy!
Now I'm Wondering
I do not know what to do with my boyfriend when we do not have the same idea of our future. I want to finish college travel the world and live comfortable. He does not seem to have the same ambitions as me. Sometimes I feel he just tell me everything is going to be ok and I should trust him but in reality he is not moving a finger to have a better future. He smokes, dropped out of college, he has a temper. But I do still love him very much. I just do not know how to approach this conversation (my first boyfriend) because we really get along and I do not want to fight. How should I approach this? please I think I should not keep dragging this more. Also my mom keeps telling me to break up with him so I have an extra pressure.... Spring break is coming and he is arranging a trip but I think I should talk to him.
Insight: he is a waiter but when I ask him about his plans he just gets really defensive and impossible to talk to. Also, he makes me feel that I am being materialistic ? what do you guys thinks? I also have seen him reject couple of job offers better positions than the job he has now (the one that he complains about)