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By patriciatamayo | Feb 20 2017

help my boyfriend is lazy!

Now I'm Wondering

I do not know what to do with my boyfriend when we do not have the same idea of our future. I want to finish college travel the world and live comfortable. He does not seem to have the same ambitions as me. Sometimes I feel he just tell me everything is going to be ok and I should trust him but in reality he is not moving a finger to have a better future. He smokes, dropped out of college, he has a temper. But I do still love him very much. I just do not know how to approach this conversation (my first boyfriend) because we really get along and I do not want to fight. How should I approach this? please I think I should not keep dragging this more. Also my mom keeps telling me to break up with him so I have an extra pressure.... Spring break is coming and he is arranging a trip but I think I should talk to him.

Insight: he is a waiter but when I ask him about his plans he just gets really defensive and impossible to talk to. Also, he makes me feel that I am being materialistic ? what do you guys thinks? I also have seen him reject couple of job offers better positions than the job he has now (the one that he complains about)

14 Comments

missbrown

21 Feb

You don't seem like you're on the same chapter. I think have an open conversation with him. Men don't respond well to background stories, so get straight to the point and tell him how you feel. If things don't improve after then, take the power back and start being busier during the week and when he asks to see you, respond with "sure what do you want to do?". If he says he wants to come round, tell him you fancy a change of scenery. You need to start going out more so he can see how other men desire you. That will increase your value in his eyes

annangel

21 Feb

Reading your story connects with me - in November my boyfriend and I broke up for His very reason. I am very career driven, he was older than me and lacked motivation to pursue more.. Even when he got a promotion and began earning a lot more money than me all he did was spend it on stupid things like cigarettes, going out with his guy friends and frivolous unnecessary things - meaning he never saved it and then would complain about never having any money. My point is this: it got to the point where I let his lifestyle and lack of motivation hold me back, it left me feeling unfulfilled and behind in my goals - in the end this bred resentment. Before it gets to this point perhaps you need to do what's best for yourself and give you both space apart to re-evaluate each of your own lives and life goals. You cant always see the forest from the trees, in this case: appreciating the person you're with and building a life together rather than simply settling and getting comfortable without any desire to grow and learn together anymore. Take the scary first step and put aside doing things for others, focus on your own dreams and aspirations - then figure out what you need to do to get there. If someone truly loves and wants the best for you they will understand this fact. Maybe not immediately, but with a little time it can happen. If they forever hold a grudge perhaps they were not the right person for you on the first place. Wish you all the best!

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23 Feb

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patriciatamayo

24 Feb

@annagel why did he want to end the relationship or did you?

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